i want to have sex soo bad, but i'm scared that ill bleed everywhere (i'm kinda tight up there) does the bleeding come after? or does it gush out during??????????? HELP
purpledaisey101 answered Friday July 23 2004, 11:16 am: If you have your mind made up thet your ready, then you have the mentaly thing down. but, your ? was do u bleed. if youve never had sex before then you might bleed a little, but it doesnt GUSH! that is a verry common concern with girls, and you shouldnt be afraid to ask. but what ever you do use protection. dont let him talk you out of it. and maybe take the morning after pill just to be safe.
*Alyssa* [ purpledaisey101's advice column | Ask purpledaisey101 A Question ]
girdy_goo15 answered Friday July 23 2004, 1:02 am: dear virgin,
first of all are you mature enough physically and mentally? usually if you do bleed during then your cherry popped. but it's just a little bit of blood and guys usually dig it.
(don't know why tho). i know even tho i am still a virgin also. but you also have to think about pregnancy. guys will say anything so they don't have to wear a condom. but you better make him. also if you are gonna have sex then make sure you talk to your mom and have her get you some birthcontroll pills. im pretty sure that she would be happier to get you pills than to get you baby blankets. so just be careful.
hope i helped!! *~~~shana~~~* [ girdy_goo15's advice column | Ask girdy_goo15 A Question ]
xOchErrytWistOx answered Thursday July 22 2004, 8:34 pm: ok first of all:
not all girls bleed when they have sex! theres a little piece of skin that breaks the first time you have sex, and it causes MINIMAL bleeding. sometimes, this can be broken even before sex by either : intense horseback riding, biking, etc. it doesnt gush out at all. if u have your period DO NOT HAVE SEX! its a big disgusting mess! dont be worried about it, if the guy knows your a virgin, he will expect to 'pop your cherry' (thats what they call it) and it wont be anything big at all
xoxo
ali [ xOchErrytWistOx's advice column | Ask xOchErrytWistOx A Question ]
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