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bestfriend and ex boyfriend trouble
ok well here's the thing i think my best friend likes my ex... and honestly i have to be straight up but i obvioulsy still have feelings for him and still really care about him but i kno my bestfriend likes him because she keeps talking about him and keeps saying how sweet he is and i kno the both of them flirt... and also if the both of them went out i would b really shocked and i guess upset.... but haha here's the other thing my ex's gf is kinda not into him that much and well i mean i dunno wut to do... sumbody help!!!!
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Ok. This goes back to everyone saying friends dont date friends x's. I used to feel that way untill I was in the same situation. Would you be happy for your friend if they were with someone else? Thats the way you have to look at it...if no one dated anyones x's everyone would be single! I think you should tell your friend that you dont care if shes with him and that you would be happy for her if she was with him. It may hurt for a while but I swear you will get over it!
Hope I helped
Britt
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ok... well maybe talk to your X and tell him you still have feelings for him... maybe he still has feelings for you?... but if he dont or if you dont have strong enough feelings to wanna try it again with him... then why not let your friend have him..?... hook tha girl up!~!... I know it will seem wierd to you at first... but think of how happy they could be...and you could be the cause of that happiness :) **mare**
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i think u shud tell ur ex that u still have feelings for him....if he feels the same way then....well u 2 r meant 2 b....but if it isn't like that at all have ur best friend go fo it!! and about his gf that's 2 bad tell him that his gf isn't in love with him!!
.*.BeSs.*.
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well u mite still have feelings for him but the past is the past.. u gotta move on.. tell ur friend tat it bothers u.. and u think its not rite.. but dont ruin a friendship for an x boifriend it aint worth it! gud luk xoxo angie
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I think the BeSt thing for you to do is talk to your friend and ex-boyfriend seperatly. Tell your friend you know she likes him and you still have feelings for him and it hurts you soo much to see her like your ex! Its like an unwritten law that your best friend should never date your ex-boyfriends!!
Anyways, tell your ex that you still like him and you hate how he likes other girls. Maybe if you still like him, then you can hook back up. I'm not sure if thats what you want, but if you like someone usually you want to get together with them! Just dont hurt your friend... Be careful! He is your ex-boyfriend and you do have the right to him before she does. Good luck sweetie!!
LoVe,
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Wel talk to them both and see what they have to say and just try not to pull a selfish act here and hook them up.. we know they wont last forever -trix
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talk to ur x boyfriend about it just be like i know ur not mine anymore but i still have feeling for u and seeing u with my bestfriend just crushes me i know she likes u and i want her to be happy and i want u to be happy but i can't help feeling this way about the whole thing.. hope it all works out
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I can understand why u would feel that way bout ur best friend liking you ex, cause its happened to me. i found out that it rreally shouldnt let it bother you cause u have to think whos more important... you best or your ex. likley i would think that it would be you best, and i wouldnt jeprodize you realtionship with your friend just because she likes your ex. just think of it as another guy she has a crush on. and sooner or later if they do start going out then he'll drop her or she'll drop him.
Alyssa
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Tell your friend how you feel..If she's really your friend then she'll let it go and respect your feelings...Also talk to your ex.Tell him you still have feelings for him and maybe he still has feeling for you too!If he doesn't then oh well..atleast you have that off your back..I hope I helped..GOOD LUCK!
*much love*
*~tasha~*
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