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He*s Gone!
Ok, Well, my boyfriend is 19 years old and he*s in the military..I*m still in highschool..we write letters to each other often and i think about him every single day, but most of my friends say that i should break up with him, I really love him, but he's going to be gone so long! I have 2 years left of highschool, and if I stay with him that means i have to be faithful for 2 years! I dunno what i should do...
I hope you can help..xox
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well if u truly love him then there is nothing to worry about, just keep in touch with him, and pray for him to come home sooner, i mean the basis of love is trust and care. as long as u ahve those in him there is nothing to worry about
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Hey I was ina long distance relationship for 2 years and believe me its hard u just have to think about yourself and what u want not what other people want-is he worth it to you?? or is he not? If u c urself cheating on him dont break his heart dump him now and dont do it online or in an email or a letter wait till he gets time off and comes to see you because it will severly hurt him if he just reads it, he needs to hear it from you!!! You know that hell be faithful to you so its just a matter of what u think u can take. Do u love him?? Can u c urself with him in 2 years or maybe even more?? If the answer is yes to both of those ?' s then i would stay with him. Also i would wait until he comes back for a holiday or something to decide what ur feelings are like cus once u see him again its gonna hit u and ull either be glad to see him or not!! hope i help ...*Sammi
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how long have you been with your boyfriend for? this must be such a hard time for you but you can work through it maybe soon if you begin to lose feeling or want to break free .. talk to him when you write letters maybe you can come up with some type of compromise :) .. and when he comes back you can always still be with him! hope that helped <3
<3 alyssa
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i kno it's hard with him so far away! trust me i kno! my brother is in the marines for 5 years! so thats 5 years i can't see him...n yes it sucks..but if u really love ur b.f..than u should stay with him!!
xoxo-ashlyn
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If you really love him, the you will be able to do it. But if you are doubting yourself, and you don't think you canhold out that long, then you're gonna have to let him know. Try to work something out about seeing other people or something while he is away, and maybe getting back on foot when he comes home. I'm not saying he will like this, but if you really feel like you can't wait that long then you have to tell him.
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i personally think that you should end it, like DEFINITELY keep on writing to him and DEFINITELY stay really close to him, don't let him become lonely when he's off in the military, but be nice about it and just say "these are my last two years of highschool and i feel as though this is too much of a commetment for me at this age, but i wanna keep on talking to you and everything!" something like that but you know, change it around! have some fun i nyour last years of highschool or you're going to regret it in the future! i hope i helped!:D good luck
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Hey hun,
heres wat i think u should do... dont listen to ur frends... if u love the guy stay with him mayb it wont work out for the hole 2 years but until U feel like it isnt not ur frends... stay with him! as long as u keep n touch and everything is going good yall should b fine... hope i helped! write me sum time!
<3 fran
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sux...but if you really love him...being faitful to him will be simple!! But, if youre not sure that you can be faithful, then maybe you need to break things off cause thats not fair to him! When he comes home, you guys could always get back together...so i'd say keep in touch!! =)
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There is more than one person out there that you can love. Think about how hard it is gonna be to be with someone for 2 years and never see them. You're gonna miss out on alot of people around you that you could become interested in. I guess it would depend on how attached you are to him. If you really love him enough to stay together that long then that's great, go for it. Otherwise, there are more fish in the sea.
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