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hey..um my name's sana and i love to dance and play volleyball..manysay i give alot of advice because of my good and bad experiences..i've been through alot..but i look at everything as an oppertunity...i'm 14 but i've done things alot more then my age...leave a questoin in my box..and i'll try to help u..just like i would want someone to help me ifi was in trouble..
E-mail: pinkladyntbird@yahoo.com
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Hey This is really embarresing to say but Im a girl and I mean I think Im bi but Im not sure one time me and my friend thought we should show our bodys off a little to eachother and after I was done She satrted and I started to get horny and sweaty and I just wanted to like fuck something right then so I went into the bathroom and started fingering myself and my friend knows that I finger myself a lot but anyways she walked in on me and she saw that I was fingering myself and she was like why are you doing that right now? And So I stop and pulled my pants up and started to cry and told her the story and said oh and I think shes discusted...:/ Also another time I started to get horny (i do a lot kinda) I told her I was getting horny and she was like oh i see and I was like would you do me a favor and she said it depends and I said get your dildo and stick it up there for me because i really needed it right then but she wouldnt /: So yeah it was embarresing I really just wish one of my friends were either bi or a lezbo because I really need someone to be able to do stuff with! When I see pictures of nude guys i just say cool but when I see a girls thats when I start actually looking good! I REALLY NEED HELP OR TIPS ON ANYTHING! PLEASE HELP ME! );I WILL RATE YOU (link)
i tink you're stressing to much..if your friend dosnt' understand...then that's her problem...but i tink she's just a lil uncomfortable....try to open up to her..and if she pushes u off..then let go...and u have alot of time to determine your sexuality...and u can try to find ppl in your school who r in the same situation...i have friendz who r bi..and i except them for who they r...try to find friendz who no everything about u..but love u anyways..hop ei hellped


im 16 and my boyfriend asked me to have sex i don't think im ready yet he was ok with it.
another thing he has a really big penis and im worried it will hurt too much should that matter? (link)
listen..if you don't tink you're ready then don't...cuz you're firsttime is important..u want it to someone u can trust to go throughthe emotions afterward..not someone whoz gonna push u into it...specially cuz it's your first time meaning if it's big and you'rs is probably small..then it might hurt..or have a hard time going in....but not pain too great....unless he's realli rough...then that will be painful..but seeing ifyou're ready is much more important...and makesure he's not gonna be a jerk and leave u if anything bad ahppens...


My friend wants to know what to say to get a boy horny? lol...i dont know what to do any advice?? (link)
start kissing him from the neck down...sweet innocent kisses...and tease him wen u get down there..and put your hands in his pants...
he'll be horny in no time


how can i hide a hickey? (link)
ahhh don't remind me of that...i've tried makeup but it dosn't competly hid it..i've heard if u put lip stick on it..and then take it offf or something ..but that dons't work very well either...try like rubbing it...


ok i am 16/m and i am really horny i have never done anything with a girl besides making out and feeling up how do i get a girl to do something with me i mean i have a huge respect for girls and i dont like to pressure them into things this is why i never asked a girl to do something like that i dont have a gf right now and i know some people might say to drink with them but i dont want to take advantage and is 16 to young to have sex? (link)
well you should start asking some girlz to do things ..but still have respect for them...it's not like a girl is just gonna come up and randomly ask you to have sex...and 16 is defnitly not to young to have sex


If (without knowing) you sleep on sheets that may have semen on them, could you get pregnant? Like, if your brother was jacking off in your bed, and you never knew, is it...like, possible?????????PLZ PLZ tell me!! (link)
no semen can not live very long outside of the body


I'm a female, sexually active in about 2 days.
Ok, are you like supposed to shave it ALL off down there? Or leave a tiny bit?
I'm a bit too squeamish for a brazilian wax, so any help? (link)
well i wax the hole ting...cuz liek you don't want hair to get in the way...it's kinda nasty donch u tink?


Ok. So my friend who is 14 like me, basically makes out with a different guy every night and gives head to a new guy every week. She recently lost her virginity at a party, and when we started talking about all the stuff she does she says she has fun but she looked really sad. Personally I think she's been doing way to much stuff with way too many random guys. I don't want to hurt her, and make her think I think she's a slut or anything, but I do want to talk to her because I'm concerned. What do I do? (link)
your friend is probably insecure about something...and having a guy probably makes her feel loved..so try to spend more time with her...even though it's not so healthy wut she's doing..don't tell her that it's the wrong thign to do..she's gonna keep doing it....cuz wen you get in a habit it's almost impossible to stop...even if she did give up her old habits she'd still have t o put up wif her reputation



Do guys prefer girls who shave "down-there" , and to what extent ? (link)
i no that all guy want it completly naked...(all the guy i know) becuase if you're having sex you don't want pubic hair to get in the way...(or w/e sexual activities you're doing)
hoped i helped


Hey,
I was wondering if anyone could help me out here obviously lol. Well anyway, im 13 and ive been with my boy friend for almost 2 years(( yeah i know i know a long time to be tied down for my age)). We have done everything but have sex. Ive been thinking about having sex but i know that im not physically and mentally ready, and im for sure not old enough to have sex or even do what im doing. I was just wondeirng if its normal to think what im thinking, what it would be like to have sex and all. Thanks!:) (link)
if you don't think that you're physically and mentally ready..then u should definitly not do it yet..you have time..i was in the same place that you were about a year ago..now i regret what i did too early..but everyone thinks about...you should keep thinking about until you're ready..when you have sex it is really emotional..especially if the guy you have it with is not committed...u want to make sure that you have the right guy..who won't let u just lying there the day after..or if u get pregnant..
it seems like you guys have a great relationship..so just keep building on that realtionship..until you're sure about what you're doing


Is there anyway that you can make...down there...taste better? (link)
i'm not completly sure..but i've heard from my friendz that if you eat realli sweet things the day before then it tastes better


is it ok to date online (link)
sure go ahead..but if you want to meet this person..make sure you've talked to him on phone..and know alot about him before that...cuz i've had bad experiences..and some good ones...just be cautiouse


if you make out with someone, does that mean you sleep with them or you just snog them? (link)
i tink you're thinking of making out with someone on there bed? ...well yes that could happen...but sleeping with someone is definitly wen the penis goes into the vagina...making out is definitly (wif cloths on) and you just fool around a lil...kissing ...using hands
hope i helped
~sana~


hey, i dont know y but every since i turned 12 (im now 13) i have lost a lot of my self confidence. i think im pretty and all but i dunno sometimes i just wish i could change a lot of things about myself. ne ideas of how i can boost my self confidence back up? (link)
everyone loses alot of self confidence when turn around 13...but don't worry about it..wif some work you'll be very confident with your self when you find out who you are..in the meant time try getting into sports and activities and find things that youlike...you will evtually find something that you're good at...this will definitly boost you're confidence


What is the average weight for a 17yr old?My sister is 17 goin on 18 soon, and is 5'3" and ways 86lbs. She is rele skinny and it almost gets me wonderin............ (link)
there is no average weight for a 17 yrs old..it all depends opon the height...and she is underweight..but don't run up to conclusions ..some people have very high metabolisms...or are very active...but if you have concerns about a disorder try talking to her about it..but even before that pay alil more atension to her eating habits and her personality(self confidence)


Hey, I am 13 and i am 5"4 and I weigh 105 pounds...am i too fat for my age and height? All of my friends are always saying I am 2 skinney but i think that i am fat and my doctor says i am skinny for my height but i still think i am fat! what do u think? (link)
no...you're definitly not to fat for your age and height..and your doctor is right...but it could be different in your view..because some people tend to be a perfectionist and find flaws in themselves...but another advice is not to keep saying that you're fat in front of your friendz..because it will bring out there own insecurities..and they might start having a grudge against you




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