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Big Thinker
Hey,
I was wondering if anyone could help me out here obviously lol. Well anyway, im 13 and ive been with my boy friend for almost 2 years(( yeah i know i know a long time to be tied down for my age)). We have done everything but have sex. Ive been thinking about having sex but i know that im not physically and mentally ready, and im for sure not old enough to have sex or even do what im doing. I was just wondeirng if its normal to think what im thinking, what it would be like to have sex and all. Thanks!:)
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Its normal to wonder/think about stuff like that. You should stop before its too late! Your only 13 and if you do, do it, it might ruin your life!! Hope I could help! :)
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All people think of that kind of stuff. Its normal to be thinking of that stuff atyour age but acting on those thoughts wouldn't be a smart move! 13 is way to young to have sex!
~*~Natalie~*~
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if you don't think that you're physically and mentally ready..then u should definitly not do it yet..you have time..i was in the same place that you were about a year ago..now i regret what i did too early..but everyone thinks about...you should keep thinking about until you're ready..when you have sex it is really emotional..especially if the guy you have it with is not committed...u want to make sure that you have the right guy..who won't let u just lying there the day after..or if u get pregnant..
it seems like you guys have a great relationship..so just keep building on that realtionship..until you're sure about what you're doing
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all girls at ur age think about that but u should wait and if he cant wait then he doesnt care for u as much as u think he does and u are to young... think about it do u want a baby at ur age ? i dont think so and plus theres more then getting pregnant u can get a disease
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its normal because i mean obviously you love this guy..but u r right ur not mentally or physically ready for sex..so just wait a while till you mature much more and then start talkin about it
<3/Dakota
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Thinking about sex is perfectly normal.
If you're not ready to have sex, then don't. It's good that you know yourself well enough to tell us that you aren't.
When you know you're ready, go ahead, but use protection.
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no one can stop you from doing this take it from someone who knows!!i made this mistake when i was 13 and i regret it sooooo much i cry everyday because i made that mistake and you think your ready and you just wanna make him happy but if you dont want to and he is forcing you too then you shoud dump him cuz he doesnt respect you at all , you can do forplay but it can be risky depending on what you do!!if you do decide too i hope everything turns out ok for you!
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your ready when you wanna be!But think it through with him before you guyz do!! dont forget to use protection!!hope i helped!! ~plz rate me~
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Yes darling, thinking about sex at 13 is very normal. It seems you and your boy friend have reached a stage in your relationship where sex is the next natural step. After two years together you clearly care for each other very much and know each other well. You've got to discuss this with him, talk about it, find out what you both want, discuss your concerns, plan it. Its a big step and theirs no need to rush. Provided this is what you both what theirs no reason why you shouldn't sleep together and continue on having a sexual relationship. Don't worry about age limits, their are many countries where the legal age for consensual sex is 13
And even younger. When you have sex should be determined by when you feel your ready. But, and I've got to say it - make damb sure you use contraception, you don't want to wind up pregnant.
Have fun
Derfel
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It's normal to think about it, its really human nature. However, you are only 13 and admitting that you aren't physically or mentally ready. From what you said, it is pretty obvious you won't be having sex anytime soon, which is a good idea. As for normal - definitely. There is a big difference between thinking about doing something and doing it. That is where the difference between normal and abnormal comes in - its normal for a 13 year old to be curious about sex, it isn't normal for them to be having sex.
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it's probably normal yeah, i've kinda thought about it before too.
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Yes, it is normal to be thinking what you are thinking. If you have any doubts at all, its best not to have sex. If you know you are not physically and mentally ready, you should wait until you are sure you are.
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Well, you are right. You're way too young. And as for how it feels, I'm guessing it would be very painful for you considering your age and the fact that he has no idea what he's doing. Oh, and yes. It's perfectly normal.
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