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hey, i dont know y but every since i turned 12 (im now 13) i have lost a lot of my self confidence. i think im pretty and all but i dunno sometimes i just wish i could change a lot of things about myself. ne ideas of how i can boost my self confidence back up?
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well lets see first off i think u need to make a list and comapre and scratch things off and then compare and then u need to think that u are pretty because thats the first key to have self confidence!!
-hal (((plz rate my advice)))
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don't worry about the way you look worry about the way you act. i used to always look in the mirror and think about how ugly i am. it really started to get me down so i covered up my mirror. that way i had no clue if i looked bad or not. it really did help because i created a good self image of me.;)
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Write two lists: things you like about you and things you dislike. now look at the dislike list and cross off the things you can change so you do like them. then cross off the things everyone has problems with. now look at the list of dislikes..it's not so long now is it? sure they'll be things that are still there and will always be there but it's much shorter than the list of things you *DO* like about yourself. Oh and one more thing, every morening, when you wake up, take a look in the mirror, give yourself a *BIG* smile and tell yourself that you're a beautiful young woman (you are a girl right?)hope i helped, <33333333333333 :D
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hey! i used to have and sometimes still have the same problem! look in a full length mirror and find things that you DO like bout yourself...and try not focusin on your imperfections and hatin them..accept them! :)
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ur thinking u got to be better looking cause ur probably comparing urself to other girls that u htink r pretty but dont do that every girl is pretty in her own way hope i helped rate me
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Alot of people feel dat way ery often you just have to stop thinkin about all the negitive things about yourself and think of the positive, i mean no ones flawless! Accept the compliments people give you and dont be selfcontious!
~KiSsEs~
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I feel your pain. I had low confidence when I was about your age. Then it went back up in 9th grade, then down again after that, and has just recently gone up. Lol.
You've just gotta learn to love yourself and every little flaw you have. Just tell yourself you're a goddess every day and convince yourself that you are beautiful, because you are. =)
-Siren =)
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im the same way... i just walk around the mall an say ew shes a slut at least i dont look like dat... or go get a mann lol dat helps too!! or always hang wit a lot of guyz to get the other girls jelouse (i sound kind of mean but it helps!) an hang out wit friends an do make overs an stuff, Or just be yourslef an if someone dosnt liek you for you are... fuk dem! ya dun need em!! hope it helps n e more questions you can talk to me on aim... MadeInBrentwood
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everyone loses alot of self confidence when turn around 13...but don't worry about it..wif some work you'll be very confident with your self when you find out who you are..in the meant time try getting into sports and activities and find things that youlike...you will evtually find something that you're good at...this will definitly boost you're confidence
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hey there...wow i completely know what you're feeling like- i went through that too..i don't know why, but it's that whole tween/teen phase that we all go through and just never stop picking at things...we always find something bad about ourselves...but the way to boost your self-confidence is get involved..once you find something you really like and are good at, you'll begin to notice more qualities about yourself that make you a great person..which i'm sure you are, don't focus so much on the models/other girls- because each person has flaws even though you may think they dont...heng in there- it get's easier..as long as you know you're the best you can be, things will seem to be much easier...hope i helped :)
love elle
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