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What should i do?
hi. i have a friend and she is about 13 and we have been best friends for 2 years now. we have always been there for each other and we are really close. but just recently she turned bi. and im ok with that cuz she knows i just like guys and i know she would never hit on me or nething like that. but after that she started hanging around the wrong group of people and she has done drugs before and smokes cigarettes daily. i wanna get her help but without her hating me or something. and now shes going out with this new guy matt who is 15 and he just wants 2 get in her pants and has fingered her before already! which is really nasty in my opinion for her only being 13. and she said she would do nething to keep him in her life but there is only one thing he wants. and me and my other friend tried warning her about him but she wont listen 2 us. i dont want to control her life but i just wanna be able 2 help her. what should i do?
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tell her how u feel and if she doesnt understand then u need to turn to an adult that u can trust and that can help her with her problem without tell everyone!! good luck
-Hal (((plz rate my advice)))
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ok..i can tell your a concerned friend just try to be there for her..talk to your parents and tell them not to talk to her parents..maybe you could also talk to them to see what they would do to help her..just be there for her try not to make it obvious that you dont like this guy and that you know what he wants to do..just be there for her and comfort her for when she needs you..
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Its really sweet how your concerned for your friend, just sit her down n tell her how you feel and what you think about her decisions. Make it clear that your there to help and NOT criticise or control! But she really can't be helped until she helps herself, so if things dont work @ least you tried!
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Try instead of talking to your friend, talking to her guy. Tell him you don't like what he's doing, and you know that the only thing he wants is sex. He should know that 13 is way too young to have sex.
If he doesn't respond, and you're really, really worried about your friend, talk to her mother, or father. Whichever parent you think will be more lenient with her. As you don't want her to hate you, that would be a last resort, but do keep it in mind. She sounds like she's getting into some bad stuff and needs some sense knocked into her. Good luck!
-Siren =)
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