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Best friend..
My best friend does REALLY bad stuff. she has sex with guys that she barely knows, gets drunk all the time, sneaks out, and even got her innocent friends started in all this gay drama. im not like that tho and i dont want her to be. what do i say to her to let her know shes doing bad things because she wont listen to me.
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you should tell her thats whats shes doing isnt affecting only her. and because you care about her your telling her this. Sooner or later her actions are gunna catch up with her. Tell her that your only warning her and that your only trying to be the best friend u can be=)
-MIZZ_C
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you should really try your best to get her attention. try your best to talk to her. tell her that she could get in big trouble with all this that she is doing. if not that, maybe even killed, (sorry but it's true) do w/e you can, i'm here for you!
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You can't force your friend to do what's right, she has to learn that for herself but you can guide her. Talk to her about it as much as you can but don't force anything on her, just make sure she isn't getting into anything *too* bad (like hard drugs etc). If she can't listen and work out that she's harming herself then don't hang round her as much, you don't want to be dragged into it too. One day she'll realise she's making a big mistake, but until then, all you can do is try and get her to see that. keep me posted. <333
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i have a friend that is the same way and i handled it by sittin her down and talking to her bout it.. she said she didnt understand and didnt know wut i was talkin bout but i gave her examples of stuff shes done that she shudnt of and she realized that shes been outta control.. shes calmed down a lot more since then and i know shes grateful i said something.. so just try talking to her and lettin her know you care about her and that you dont like what shes doing.. im sure when she has a friend show her that theyre worried then shell realize what shes been doin
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well it all depends on how old she is if she is ofver 18 then there is really nothing you can do because its her life but if she is under that then you need to talk to her and let her know that what she is doing is wrong and if she dosnt listin to you try telling a parent r something but tell them to not let her know it was yoiu that told
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i kno exactly how u feel cuz a few of my friends do that stuff and i hate just watching them ruin their lives like that cuz i really love them and i would never do that stuff. just tell your friend that u dont want her to ruin her life and u care about her. hope it helps! i kno what your going through.
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Sit you friend down and talk to her about what she is doing. Tell her how it is and will affect her. This will help her understand that what she is doing is wrong, and it will also show her that you care. She could get seriously ill by having sex with alot of guys, especially ones she barely knows. She could get STD's. And with her getting drunk all the time, if she cant stop drinking on her own I think she could go to A.A. I hope this advice works and helps.
*Zoe*
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WOW. That is out of the ordinary. How old is she? You should talk to her and tell her how you feal about her doing this and tell her that if she doesn't stop then you don't want to be friends with her anymore. Try talking to her parents or try getting her some help because she needs to know what she is getting into barely knowing these guys. She could get HIV or AIDS. Warn her of these and try to take her to a group of people who are having the same problem.
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The thing to do is talk to her about what she does. Tell her why its bad for her and what can happen. She probally knows, but its always better to hear it from a freind and know that someone cares about them.
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Try sitting down with your friend and start talking to her about what shes doing. Make sure you tell her/show her that you do really care and that it does bother you. and include the facts to her that she could get hiv,aids,syphiless and stuff like that from having sex with a lot of guys, exspecialy ones she barely knows.And talk to her about the drinking problom before she starts to get adicted to it!...Just make sure that you show her and tell her how you feel, it may just work, i had a friend just like that, and she stopped cause she knew i cared, and so did other people if something happened....
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Wow! I think you need to sit your friend down and have a very serious conversation (face-to-face) and let her know that shes hurting herself by doing these things and you dont want that to happen! I have the same problem with one of my friends and I tell her all the time that shes doing things that are wrong, and well shes trying harder not to hang out with those people every weekend and she is also missing the big Fourth of July parties. Good luck with your friend!
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