Okay I dont know what exactly to say about this but I'll try. I have this problem. Everyone makes fun of me becasue I sitll think about it all the time but its something hat has really gotten into my mind. Well... I am a music freak, and I love to sing, and everyone tells me that I can sing.. and everything.. but then the person whose opinion matters the most to me just recently told me that I cant sing and in all seriousness. I want him to think that I can sing.. that I can do just as well as any of his other "favorite people" that CAN sing! It tears me up that he thinks that I cant sing... All of my friends tell me that this person is just joking and that I'm good and all.. But I still dont believe them ever since this person told me that I cant sing... I feel so horrible over it.. like I dont even want to isng anymore.. what should I do? Much help needed... And please only serious answeres for this one.
hey,
take your friends oppinions! thats what i always do. i love singing to, and of course my friends say i'm good but my brothers a dick and he says i'm bad. but the point is don't let one person bring you down. if he's the only person that says your bad, then grl, he doesn't know what he's talkin about. don't let him get to you. just keep doin what you love to do!
~hope this helped~
~CutieBabe~
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People are always asking me about my love life, like people at school. I have had a boyfriend before but that only lasted a week, and I always feel uncomfortable saying 'oh I've only had one boyfriend' when people ask. I know it's not a race or a competition as to who can get the most boyfriends, but it's starting to bug me and I don't want to lie and say I've had loads of boyfriends. The thing is, I'm just not emotionally ready to be in a relationship, and I want any relationship I have to be a long one, so I'm obviously gonna have less boyfriends than everyone else. I don't mind that, I just mind being embarrased when I say 'one'. How can I avoid these conversations, or what should I say when they come up?
If people ask, just say that you don't want a boyfriend right now. if you feel uncomfortable saying that your not emotionally ready to have a bf, then don't say it.just say you dont want one at the time.
~Hope it helps~
~CutieBabe~
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hey folks... i need a little help here. i weigh 200lbs and am 5"7... (i'm 14, female) i really need to lose some weight. i don't need to lose it real fast... just like, 10 or 15lbs in the next month and a half... any tips?
u are not fat! just try exicerisning more it will help or maybe cut down on the fattin foods
rate me
hope i helpd
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I'm 13/f . I'm getting a little sick of all the girliness of all of my other schoolmates and friends . I want to get to know more guys better , but ONLY as friends . I don't want them to get the wrong impression when i talk to them ( ie: flirting with them . ) One of my friends say i do this alot , but i don't do it on purpose , it's a subconcious thing . I also go to a girls school . Any ideas on how to get to know more guys ?
well, if you really want to be their friends, you should be into the same stuff that they are. that way, you would have some stuff to talk about. if you don't want to flirt with them, try your best not to!! i have some guys as just friends, well more like alot!! and they have girl friends! but i just see them as friends and i don't flirt. it's easy not to!
~Good Luck~ lyl kristen
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there's this friend i have and she always lies to me, but then if i catch her in the middle of a lie, and am like well before you said this, shes like NO I DIDN'T. shes one of my best friends and shes fun to be around when shes not lying, but it gets really annoying...what should i do?
well your gonna have to tell her that you don't like her lying to you. tell her that she's your best friend, and best friends don't lie to each other. my best friend lies to me once and a wile, but i've said stuff about it and she's stopped a little bit. you should just talk to her about it.
LYL! kristen
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my boyfriend just came back from mississippi and we always talked online and he always told me how much he missed me and how much he wanted to see me. we was always saying how much he wanted to see me and he is always saying he loved me and he would never treat me bad and he treats me like SHIZ NIT! my friends tell me to break up with him but i love him too much and i dont know if i should break up with him or not. I mean he hurts me by not answering my phone calls and ignoring me and always ditching me for his friends. I was so mad when i called him and he got home an hour before and he was already with his friends. sometime i think he for gets he has a girlfriend that he soposably cares about. I need advice!
~*~jonelle~*~
CHICA! you should listen to your friends. they are right. if he cares about you like he says he does, he wouldn't ditch you, or ignore you online and not pick up the phone when you call. honestly, i think he is just desperate. he just wants to be cool b/c he has a gf. i know you love him!!!!!! but there are times when you should listen to your friends!
LOVE YA GRL! kristen
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My best friend does REALLY bad stuff. she has sex with guys that she barely knows, gets drunk all the time, sneaks out, and even got her innocent friends started in all this gay drama. im not like that tho and i dont want her to be. what do i say to her to let her know shes doing bad things because she wont listen to me.
you should really try your best to get her attention. try your best to talk to her. tell her that she could get in big trouble with all this that she is doing. if not that, maybe even killed, (sorry but it's true) do w/e you can, i'm here for you!
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Alright well Im 16 yrs old..Soon to be 17 and I've slept with 7 different people. Is that considered a slut? I dont think Im skanky or anything, I just enjoy sex! Is that wrong? Im very open about my sexuality and people think Its wrong to be, Alot of people joke around and say that Im a nympho and shit like that..I need advice and I want people to truthfully tell me what they think. Dont be afraid to tell me the truth..Be straight up!! *Thnks*
ok, honestly, i would think you're kindof young to be having sex. i know you may think it's fun. but it won't be fun if the next guy you have sex with isn't wearing a condom. but i don't think you should be doing that, but it's your choice and that's my advice
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This is a very personal question and i feel weird to ask this but do yalls shave your pubic hairs? Cause some guys don't like it and i was wondering if it was ok if i mowed my lawn? Please Help if you can sorry if my question bothers you :/
well, pubic hair hasn't been a big problem for me. it doesn't really bother me and it shouldn't bother you!
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I have liked someone for 4 years now. He has moved away once and then came back. He now has moved away again with his mom about 2 hours from here. I still like him alot but im afraid to tell him incase it ruins our friendship. I have his phone number but im afraid to call him because i dont think he wants to talk to me. Now i just decided to forget about him because it makes me really sad to think about him and barely talk to him except about once a month on the computer. I barely talk to him anymore, but i really like him and i dont know if i should tell him or if i should just forget about it. What should i do?
grl, it's ok! you should just call him and let him know how you feel! i've liked someone for years and he found that out this year, and it worked out good, and now we are ok friends and we talk more then we did before.
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this year, our my grade got a new student. he sat at the table next to mine in lunch. The second i saw him, i felt like i knew him and i felt like i needed to be friends with him. He is on my bus also and i found many times he would turn around and look at me. Then we started talking on AIM and eventually he would turn around in lunch and sit at my lunch table. Recently this summer, he asked me to hang out with him and he even ditched the girl he liked to hang out with me all day and then he told her he had fun with me and my other friend. He talks to me more now and he told me to call him once to make plans to hang out. Why did i feel like i need to be his friend so much since i saw him, and what does this all mean? I dont feel like i like him or any thing but im confused with what direction our friendship is goin in because sometimes we talk alot and then sometimes we dont talk at all. Im confused...
CHICA! it's either you really like this guy, or you just wanted to make him feel comfortable in a new place and skool!! ;)
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hey im katie (( female )) i weight 160 .. im also 5'6 and 14 .. i know im only supposed to weigh like 140 sumpthyn but i cant seem to lose weight i hate the way i look my parents are always giving me a hard time i cry sometimes because i cant be a size 5 or even a 7 or 9 i try so hard to diet and work out but nuthyn seems to work for me i get so depressed sometimes cause of the way i look i hate going to the beach and stuff with my tummy and i have the hardest times finding cute cholthes that fit meh right i always get stuck with oversized shirts i need help i mean i dont really have any questions i just need help to make meh feel better ;; much love Katie Sumner
Katie, it's ok. i'm 13 and in the past week that i've checked my weight, i gained so many pounds. i went from 98, to 100 then to 103. when i went for my phisical for 8th grade the woman said i was 101, but it looked as if she put 108 on my paper. i'm a really small girl ( not even 5 ft) and i'm kindof chunky. my mom even noticed that my legs were getting fatter. but my advice to you is to be more active. play some sports and work out a bit (for fun) i've started doing that. do the best you can!
love always ~CutieBabe~
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I HAVE A REALLY BAD HABIT ;; I SUCK MY THUMB I HAVE ALL MY LIFE AND I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO TO HELP ME STOP IVE TRIED EVERYTHING NUTHYN SEEMS TO WORK ;; MUCH LOVE KATIE
Chica! It's ok! I still bite my nails, and all i want is a real french manicure! everyone has a bad habit. and you just have to do the best thing you can do to stop it!! love you much! ~CutieBabe~
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