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Alright well Im 16 yrs old..Soon to be 17 and I've slept with 7 different people. Is that considered a slut? I dont think Im skanky or anything, I just enjoy sex! Is that wrong? Im very open about my sexuality and people think Its wrong to be, Alot of people joke around and say that Im a nympho and shit like that..I need advice and I want people to truthfully tell me what they think. Dont be afraid to tell me the truth..Be straight up!! *Thnks*
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well...wow there...easy tiger!!! 1st i understand that u enjoy having sex and everything but b carful n use protection all the time...u never know wit wut kinda person ur messin wit he might have diseases n so on...i dont know u and everything so i cant juge u but in my opinion being in my age n slept already wit 7 diff ppl...thats wrong...try to find a guy who really apriciates u n the way u are..n who u are n respects u...try to find that MR.RIGHT! n then have sex wit him all u want ;) may b one day have kids wit him 2 ;) good luck xoxo effy
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well a slut is a woman that is with two different guys at once. but other than that your o.k.
here's my e-mail address nanasim4@aol.com
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I'm 16.. almost 17 like you! When i was 15 i was having sex alot and with anyone i wanted to. I didn't care... until i ended up pregnant! And i was safe! I think that you should slow down a little. Dont let people make you believe that you are slut. Oh! And there is such think called sexaholics anonymous.
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No Your not a slut You have nothinG to worrY about if Your haPPY doinG it then do it..Juss remember to use Protection...
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i enjoy sex too wanna have sum wit me LETS BANG!!!
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It's not wrong to enjoy sex. I think it's healthy for you to enjoy your sexuality. Don't listen to what other people say about you. But don't go overboard with it or anything. It might be ok to enjoy sex, but theres soo many dangers. Make sure you use a condom, and you might as well get on birth control while your at it. Remember that people, especially guys, don't always have symptoms of std's, so you can never be sure if they have one or not. ALWAYS use protection. Guys might say it feels better without condoms, but I've found, that the guys who do say that, only last 1 minute without a condom, compared to the hour or so with one.
So get your fair share of pleasure and stay disease and baby free by using a condom!
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Hun you have nothing to worry about, Sex can be considered healthy. It really all depends on how you look at it. It depends on wether or not you were interested in these guy`s and time wise and what not but to me you sound like just a teenager out there having fun and living life. You shouldn`t worry about weather or not you think your a slut, you are who you are and if anyone thinks any diffrent tell them to fuck off =p.
xO.Carrie
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to me, that seems like alot. i think that you should slow down a little bit because you are really young to have slept with so many people. But it is your decision, and your decision only. It's not wrong to enjoy sex at all, and as long as you feel good about it, it's ok.
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You're not a slut. Ignore the people who say you are. If you were a guy you'd be considered "masculine" (I assume from your letter that you are a girl because of the nympho comment and use of word 'slut')
You've had sex with a lot of people for 16, but really, does it matter? You seem to like it.
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to tell you the truth im jus the same girl. only im 15 and have slept with about 5 people but most more than once (more like a few time) i like sex just as you probably do and theres nothing wrong with that. Your not a slut if your with them even for a little bit. Some nights are excussable but still (lol) People will be people and they'll talk smack callin you a slut, skank, whatever honestly i think its because they themselves cant get any (been my experince) Just liek you im and open person so i'll tell people my experinces if they tell me its wrong who are they to judge you...think about it girl ;)
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Everybody will have their own opinions about you..I don't think your a slut but I do think that you shouldn't have sex as much as you do..you're only sixteen! You have more and more risks of getting STD's or getting pregnant...but hey, there are some worse consequences for other things that people do.
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As for all these people calling you a slut, ignore them. They're full of shit. This is an advice column, for God's sake, and that's not what you want to hear.
Here's my advice: slow it down a bit, kid. You've got an entire life ahead of you and when you're finally ready to settle down with somebody, the less people you've been with, the better. Certainly, do not let it get to you. If you sleep with more and more people, one of these days you will be turned down and it'll sting. You're still young. Wait a bit. The more often you have sex, the better a chance you have of getting pregnant or getting some kind of STD. Life is far too short to cut in half because of one dumb mistake.
I hope this helps.
-Maisie
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umm i think that ur a little bit of a slut cuz at like 16 7 ppl are just too many! maybe 1 or 2 but 7 is realli pushing it ! i think its considered skanky !
kate
just thought id add sumthing else !it was in the past and theres nuthing u can do about it !
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sorry but that is a slut come down please
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At 16.... 7 people is one too many! It doesn't nesscarily make you a slut you're just moving tOoOo fast. Calm down and take things slow. Sex is supposed to be special and with someone you love.... you're makeing it a game. Ya it's ok to be a very sexual person but it may seem fun NOW But will it still be fun when you cath sumthin?
* b safe n keep it wrapped* ~KiSsEs~
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i personally think that thats too many ppl for someone whos only bout to be 17 soon.. i wud juz slow it down a lil i mean ur gunna be young for a while so its not like u have to be in some rush.. but then again its up to you wut u want to do in ur life so if thats how u want to do it then by all means go ahead im not a judgemental person so i wont hold it against ya
-*Tay
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If you really enjoy it then do it, don't punish yourself for wanting to have fun.. you're who you are & no one can change that!!
just make sure you're being safe about what you're doing!!
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You are the only person that can decide if you are a "slut" or not. But if you feel bad about it, then the only thing you have to do is stop, or find one sex partner. It all depends on how you carry yourself also. Im shure your not a slut!
<3 Kristy
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i wouldnt say you are a slut jus because you have slept with 7 differnet people you said you enjoy it and well there is nothing wrong with that.
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7 does seem like a lot but who am I to judge? Theres really no ballpark for people to be considered a slut. You could be a virgin and people could still be callin you a slut. Its just people that want to put down others to make themselves feel better. Its not wrong to enjoy sex! I think everyone here that has had sex enjoys it!!
Hope this helped! Always here for you to ask any questions!
*Laci
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well to be honest it is a little out of the ordinary considering that you are only 16. Did you even know the guys well that you had sex with? If you don't i am sorry but that is a bit slutty but if that is what you like to do then do it i won't stop you but be careful you could get HIV or AIDS or some sexually translated disease. Just be carefull and be smart use a condom. ~please rate me~ jonelle*
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<span style="background: url([Link](Mouse over link to see full location); No way hunnie! I agree with you, if you want to be open about your sexuality that's perfectly fine! A lot of people will say things because that's just how they are. And there will always be people in your life like that. And to some people the word "slut" will mean something else. But truthfully I don't think you're a slut at all! Maybe others will see things differently, but to me you are no slut. There is nothing wrong with enjoying sex, most people do! Haha. Love ya -Mandee </span>
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7 ppl is kind of alot for your age...but youre gonna do what you wanna do!! Why dont you just find a serious relationship and stick to one guy? its safer and ppl wont think of you as a slut!
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ok, honestly, i would think you're kindof young to be having sex. i know you may think it's fun. but it won't be fun if the next guy you have sex with isn't wearing a condom. but i don't think you should be doing that, but it's your choice and that's my advice
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