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E-mail: xxbabiiphatt4xx@aol.com
Gender: Female
Location: Baltimore Maryland
Occupation: student
Age: 14
AIM: xxbabiiphatt4xx
Member Since: July 1, 2004
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Last Update: July 23, 2004
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I'm a great advice columnist but i guess every advice person needs some advice as well.
Ok so about a month ago my sister and my brother in law came to visit us and i was sleeping (it was night time) and I remember waking up for my brother inlaw touching my leg. I didnt think much of it but after that I kept on thinking about it. Well i was at their house and last night he said he was sorry, and i didnt know what he was talking about and i was like for what and hes like I touched you in a place that you shouldnt have been touched by me (higher than my legs) I dont know what to do! because I mean I dont think he was doing it for more than a sec cuz i think i woke up right away but I dont want to tell my mom and dad because my dad would kill him and they would say something to my sister and then my sister and him would probably get a devorice and my sisters really happy. I mean that was the first time but I still cry about it like i feel so violated and i dont know what to do. I cant sleep cuz i think about it. All I do is cry about it. Please help me please!
I promise i'll rate a 5 no matter what! Atleast your trying to help me. (link)
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omG sweetie im sooo sorrY You had to Go thru somethinG like that but You have to tell somebodY...trust me Your sister will be better off knowinG what kind of man she married rather then staYinG with a man that would do somethinG like that...esPeciallY to her lil sister...the man ProbablY feels a lil bad about what he did because he aPoliGized for it...or maYb he aPoloGized so You wouldnt Go bakk and tell anYbodY either waY Please tell somebodY...and be careful and good luck
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What would you do you do if you were in love with a guy and he didn't like you back? (link)
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trY to find out if he deff.. doesnt like You..and if he doesnt theres reallY nothinG You can do cePt trY to keeP Yourself buzi and there are tons of other GuYs out there so Juss trY to keep ur head up that waY u never kno what other guys will come ur way bsides im sure that guy is crazy for not likin u juss let him go ull find somebody better
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hi. i've been with my b/f for about 5 mo. and i'm 14 and he's 16. i REALLY want to have a baby! i don't know why i just ReAlLy do! but also my cuz whos 20 's g/f just had a baby and she was 17(now 18) and they really struggle with financial problems. then his bro was dating a woman last year and just 2 weeks ago found out he was a dad. i really want to have a baby! what should i do? (link)
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dont do it trust me...iv had the same feelings before about my boyfriend but i have a friend who got pregnant and it ruined her whole life...she missed out on her prom...she has no money to do what she wants...she can never go out...her boyfriend cheats on her alot...she never sleeps...shes so stressed out because of everything...trust me its not a life full of glamour...and 5 months is not nearly long enuf to tell if you will be with this person for the rest of your life..trust me havin a babii is not the way to go...if you and this guy love each other then you will stay together forever with or without a kid to bond you together...trust me dont do it please listen to me
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Hey, im 5'6" and weigh about 119 lbs. Is that skinny, average, or what? I look more chubbier than people with the SAME height AND weight as me. Also -- ive tried eatting healthy, stop drinking soda, and running, but i cant seem to get rid of my love handles around my sides and lower back. Its so emabrassing AND obvious through my shirts..if you've gotten rid of yours, how did you do it? Thanks (link)
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You could trY to look at some exercises that specialize in the area You want to fix...You could do sit uPs to make Your stomach tighter for examPle...hoPe I helPed...
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hi my friend has been really mean to me, they are starting to beat me up when there in a mood help xx (link)
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if theY beat You uP and treat You like that then their definatelY not Your friends...You can find friends that are much better...trust me...just let them alone stoP talkin to em and if theY dont Get it tell em that You dont want to be their friends anYmore if their Gonna treat You like shit...and if theY threaten to beat You uP or anYthinG like that Go Get an adult...nobodY has to take abuse from anYbodY...
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can guys be bisexual (link)
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Yes GuYs can b bisexual I have a GuY friend who is bisexual
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What is the point of fingering a girl? I heard it was to 'stretch them out' for sex. What is fingering supposed to do? Bring them to orgasm?
Also are handjobs supposed to be done to bring your partner to orgasm?
I am 13, female, and I just wanted to know why you do these things (orgasm, pleasure, stretching, etc.). Thanks! (link)
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FinGerinG is sometimes used to make sex easier...it makes it easier so it doesnt hurt as much for the girl...also I read somewhere that Girls cant have an orgasm unless a spot located 3 inches above their vagina is hit called a g spot and they cant have an orgasm from plain sex...
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Whet should I do if my best friend forever and my best friend hate each other. what should i do? (link)
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TrY to Get them to talk and trY to Get them to be friends with each other maYb theY dont like each other bcuz theY dont reallY kno each other or maYb their Juss Jealous of the other ones relationshiP with You...if havinG them talk to each other doesnt work then I Guess the onlY thinG You can do is trY to hanG out with them both at sePerate times but make it clear to both of them that You dont want to end a friendship with either one so You will be hanGinG with both of them and if one of them Gets mad about that then maYb theY werent Your tru friends in the first Place
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Alright well Im 16 yrs old..Soon to be 17 and I've slept with 7 different people. Is that considered a slut? I dont think Im skanky or anything, I just enjoy sex! Is that wrong? Im very open about my sexuality and people think Its wrong to be, Alot of people joke around and say that Im a nympho and shit like that..I need advice and I want people to truthfully tell me what they think. Dont be afraid to tell me the truth..Be straight up!! *Thnks* (link)
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No Your not a slut You have nothinG to worrY about if Your haPPY doinG it then do it..Juss remember to use Protection...
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if you have sex, n then u go to the doctor can they find out? (link)
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Im not sure I dont think theY can because the onlY waY theY can tell is if the hymen is broke but that can be easilY broke bY riding a bike, using a tampon, etc.
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is it normal for girls 2 masturbate becuz its normal for guys?? (link)
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Yes its PerfectlY normal for Girls and GuYs to masturbate...Girls are a lil more Quiet about doinG it and dont like to admit it but trust me alot of them do it
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my brest are a 34a and im 16 do u think that i should get inplants if so y or if not y?? (link)
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thats a Personal decision You need to make on Your own...if You think that You are readY to go thru the Process of imPlants and You trulY think You will be unhaPPY without them then go for it...but I would recommend doinG some research on it first Just so You have an idea of what Your GettinG Yourself into
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how do u kno if ur chery popped??? becuz i juss had sex for the first time and im not sure if it did (link)
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if You bled durinG sex then Your cherrY PoPPed but if it didnt dont freak out...it could have PossiblY been stretched before by ridinG a bike, usinG a tamPon, etc.
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alright well a lot of people say that they take pics from there disposible camera... well how do they git them on there computer? just wondern (link)
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they might have a scanner
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I love my boyfriend but how long in a relationship do u think u should wait to have sex? (link)
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theres not really a certain time limit you can put on how long to wait in a relationship to have sex if you think your ready and you know your ready for that responsibility and you know you can trust the perosn your with then go for it
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okay well i loose my virginity just 2 weeks ago with a guy i didnt go with an then tonite i did it with another guy i didnt go with .. is that considered a slut?
also i heard sex makes your hair shiney ? (link)
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i dont think it makes you a slut...if You want to do it then its all You Just make sure You use a condom Im sure You dont want any kids or anY stds...Iv never heard it makes ur hair shiny but i heard it burns calories loL
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I am 14 and I am a female. I really like this guy. We were good friends to where atleast I can ask or tell him anything. He likes a really cute girl that everyone likes. Sometimes I go off on him online and i tell him he is stupid for liking her. I only say this stuff because I like him and I am jealous that he doesnt like me. I used to talk to him about about things and he would listen. Now he seems uncomfortable. Hes not shy around me, it is more like annoyed. So I guess what I am trying to ask is, What did I do to make him act like this, How can I fix it, and how do I get him to talk to me like he used to???? Please help, thank you! (link)
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boys dont like bein told their stupid trust me...loL thats prolly y hes mad is because hes mad you called him stupid mayb you should tell him that you were just mad because you dont understand why everybody likes her and drop subtle hints about your crush on him...if hes smart hell pick up on it...if hes not then you might juss have to come right out and tell him
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If you cut yourself once...then realize what you've done is stupid..should you seak help? (link)
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cominG from someone who used to be a cutter if You think cuttinG is stuPid but You feel like You will do it again if you get upset then You should absolutelY Get helP..if Your afraid to Get helP which I comPletelY understand here is a website with alot of tips on how to stoP the urGe Please trY them...if theY dont helP then Please Get helP riGht away:
http://web.ask.com/redir?bpg=http%3a%2f%2fweb.ask.com%2fweb%3fq%3dself%2bmutilation%26o%3d0%26page%3d1&q=self+mutilation&u=http%3a%2f%2ftm.wc.ask.com%2fr%3ft%3dan%26s%3da%26uid%3d07FFFFEC54C84EC04%26sid%3d1E49A61405D7E4E04%26qid%3d097805BA0152104DB8043938E34A9E77%26io%3d4%26sv%3dza5cb0de6%26o%3d0%26ask%3dself%2bmutilation%26uip%3d400c748f%26en%3dte%26eo%3d-100%26pt%3dSelf%2bInjury%26ac%3d24%26qs%3d0%26pg%3d1%26ep%3d1%26te_par%3d103%26te_id%3d%26u%3dhttp%3a%2f%2fwww.mirror-mirror.org%2fselfinj.htm&s=a&bu=http%3a%2f%2fwww.mirror-mirror.org%2fselfinj.htm&qte=0&o=0
long website I kno but juss copy n paste it in the website bar and go please i gaurantee it will be worth it if you need any help please dont hesitate to ask
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ok whenever my friends get together i get jealous like that i'm not invited...i mean obviously i cant be invited to everything but i get jealous anyway..is there something wrong with me? (link)
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I used to be the same way because I thought that they were gettin to be best friends and I was going to be left behind but trust me theres nothing wrong with you its normal to feel like that...and just because your friends hang out every once in a while by themselves dont think its cause their beginning to b best friends or anything else just try to keep yourself pre occupied with other things or go out wit other friends so you can have fun too
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Are tampons supposed to hurt? because i hate wearing pads, but tampons hurt sooo bad that i cant even walk some of the time and im a very heavy bleeder so i can wear the small tampons. also does your eating habits have to do with how heavy you bleed? like if i eat healthy food and fruit and stuff will it make me bleed lighter? (link)
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If your tampon is hurting you are probably putting it in wrong...if your not sure how to put it in right tho I can suggest going to:
http://www.beinggirl.com/en_US/teen/older/pages/p_tampax_howto.jhtml
they have tips and a video on how to insert a tampon correctly...Good Luck
_xoxo_))
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