I am 14 and I am a female. I really like this guy. We were good friends to where atleast I can ask or tell him anything. He likes a really cute girl that everyone likes. Sometimes I go off on him online and i tell him he is stupid for liking her. I only say this stuff because I like him and I am jealous that he doesnt like me. I used to talk to him about about things and he would listen. Now he seems uncomfortable. Hes not shy around me, it is more like annoyed. So I guess what I am trying to ask is, What did I do to make him act like this, How can I fix it, and how do I get him to talk to me like he used to???? Please help, thank you!
SweetMisery answered Friday July 2 2004, 12:59 am: Hey, sounds like a bit of a dilemma you've got there. Dont worry, everything can be sorted out with a bit of work. First off, does he know you like him? If so, that may make him feel bad about liking this new girl, or maybe it's because you're sort of making him feel as if his crushes arent good enough, or up to your standards, if you will. I think you should follow your heart. If I were you and I was so close with this guy, I think I'd talk to him. But do it in a subtle way if you're still feeling kinda weird about him. Just ease into things and maybe mention how things have changed. It's up to you though. Good Luck!! [ SweetMisery's advice column | Ask SweetMisery A Question ]
xxbabiiphatt4xx answered Friday July 2 2004, 12:50 am: boys dont like bein told their stupid trust me...loL thats prolly y hes mad is because hes mad you called him stupid mayb you should tell him that you were just mad because you dont understand why everybody likes her and drop subtle hints about your crush on him...if hes smart hell pick up on it...if hes not then you might juss have to come right out and tell him [ xxbabiiphatt4xx's advice column | Ask xxbabiiphatt4xx A Question ]
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