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Boyfriend trouble
my boyfriend just came back from mississippi and we always talked online and he always told me how much he missed me and how much he wanted to see me. we was always saying how much he wanted to see me and he is always saying he loved me and he would never treat me bad and he treats me like SHIZ NIT! my friends tell me to break up with him but i love him too much and i dont know if i should break up with him or not. I mean he hurts me by not answering my phone calls and ignoring me and always ditching me for his friends. I was so mad when i called him and he got home an hour before and he was already with his friends. sometime i think he for gets he has a girlfriend that he soposably cares about. I need advice!
~*~jonelle~*~
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If he is treating you bad you definately should break up with him! No boyfriend should ever treat his girl bad! Also by him ignoring you, and not answering your phone calls, its probably a sign that he wants to break up with you, so instead of him breaking up with you, why dont you break up with him to get back at his game!
~*~caitlynn~*~
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i think you need to tell him how you feel or wutever.. but you also need to let him hang with his friends too.. i kno.. if i were to get home.. no matter ho0w mucho i loved sumone.. i would call up mai grliez and we would hang first.. l0l.. but if he treats u lyk poo.. then you shuud BrEaK uP wItH hIm!
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Your friends are right! Leave him because if hes really treating you bad then u really shudnt be with him... but at the same time make sure that ur not trying to control him. He has a life of his own and you should understand that but he needs to know you want to be apart of that life.
* hope i helped * ~KiSsEs~
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hmm well if hes really treating you bad then u really shudnt be with him.. but at the same time make sure that ur not trying to control him and maybe its not that he never hangs out with u its juz not as much as u want him too.. like as in that u give him time to be with his friends also cause im sure u wudnt like it if you cudnt be with yours.. but if that isnt the case and he really is just being a jerk then u shud break up with him.. u may love him now but in the end youll see that you shudnt of put up with all that and u can do better!
-*Tay
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You need to leave him alone. Forget about him . N yes break up with him. Because if he cant set aside any time for you and styll have tyme for hiz friends then i think that he should just stick 2 one. If he loves you he should be able to show it n if he really carez then he should be able to prove it. I say if you cant decide on what to do and you dont have a final decision yet. then think about it some moe. But if you want my advice. Drop him. Hope i helped=)
-MIZZ_C
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u need to dump him. if u dont want to dump him talk to him but it sounds like he really doesnt care about u so u should dump him and real quick. he is a jerk for saying i luv, i need, o baby o baby and then cuming home to hang with friends. it is true that u should split equal time with friends and ur significant other but it sounds like all hes doing is hangin wit the boys and ignoring u. so dump him b4 u get hurt or b4 u decide to hurt him lol.
*Oreo*
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if you are feeling this bad about it then you should really talk to him about it, maybe you could say something like "if you really care about me, then why am i always second best compared to your friends" or something like that. if he really does love you then he would definatly at least try to understand where you are coming from and try to improve. but also say to him, something like, "i don't always have to be your number one priorty, but i'd like to be that sometimes." or something like that. if he doesn't change though, i think you should break it off because you don't deserve someone who is going to hurt you over and over. if it doesn't work out, im sure you'll find someone else, who will give you what you need. hope it all works out though!
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Aww, yeah that's a tough thing to go through. I remember. lol Well, have you tried telling him about it? Tell him how he hurts you and that he means so much to you, but right now you question the relationship. If he is understanding and doesn't laugh about it or go on about how you're wrong then he oviously doesn't care about your feelings. And part of a great relationship is caring about the other one and how they feel. You want a guy that will understand you or at least make an effort to change his ways if needed it just shows that he loves you that much. If he doesn't try to understand you then all he cares about is himself. That's at least to my knowledge of relationships from what i've went through. I hope that helps! Take care hunnie! Love ya -Mandee
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Wow, you shouldn't have to take any of that. So you love him, but he treats you like sh!t. Are you happy he treats you like that? I highly doubt that. Why should you stay with him if you aren't happy *shrugs*? Some people you just gotta get over. He wouldn't treat you like that if he really cared. There are much better guys out there for you that will treat you the way you should be treated. Unless you can work things out with him, you should leave him.
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I know its always hard because you always want to spend time with your boyfriend and what not and he ditches you but he does have friends as well. But he does need to spend time with you... Why dont you talk to him about it. And maybe your friends are right if he treats you like crap hes not worth it... and get out of it before it gets worse. But I do think you should talk to him and tell him how you feel. Good luck
-Holly-
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CHICA! you should listen to your friends. they are right. if he cares about you like he says he does, he wouldn't ditch you, or ignore you online and not pick up the phone when you call. honestly, i think he is just desperate. he just wants to be cool b/c he has a gf. i know you love him!!!!!! but there are times when you should listen to your friends!
LOVE YA GRL! kristen
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