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Hii. i was reading what uve been writeing to everyone and u seem like u have helped soo many people so i had a question i have been really confused. i have been dateing this guy for about a year now. he is my 1st bf. we have been in and out of fights and we break up with each other and usually hook back up the next day but this time we broke up and it has been about a week. he tells me he loves me and he misses me everyday and other time of the days hes all pissed and he doesnt say shit. what should i do? my friend say he relly loves me and wants to work things out and he wants to ask me out again what should i do should i just get over him or keep loving him? hehas taken a big part of my life. i know confuseing but i dunno what to do anymore.
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OMG i had a relationship just like that except the ending is way different he ended up pretty much making me get over him but i still love him and if i had the cance to get back with him like you do i'd take it in a heart beat if you truly love sum one never let him go trust me i know im only 14 but i have loved and love the feeling he gave back to me!! xoxo Kay
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I know from experience that your first boyfriend is the greatest. If you're always getting in big fights, and getting back together on and off, then I think you should just end the relationship before anything else happens. YOu many want to get back with him, but you don't want to do something that you'll regret. I hope this helps~good luck!
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First off, thank you! hehe..and secondly..people get who are in relationships get in fights..its just natural..i kno it sucks but its part of having a bf'/gf. But it seems to me that yall fight alot. maybe ya'll should just take a break from each other..because what could be causing your fights is the fact that maybe one of yall isnt as in love as you think. so taking a break to think about things and sort things out would help alot. i kno that doesnt sound good to you because you wanna stay with him. but trust me it will be for the best and then youll find out if yall really are in love because if yall are..you'll go bak to each other and realize that that u love each other and most of those fights will stop. but dont worry bout it babe everything will be just fine! love always..ally
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i was wondering, was that to a certain person, cuz if it was, then i wont answer, but if it wasn't then i will edit this and answer you
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aww thanks :) well i think in your case you should think of the saying "set him free and if its true love he'll come flying back" I think while you are very much in love with him your also young enough to "play around"(you and me both girl haha) but i say "play" in the since of finding someone new for a while.. because like the saying says.. if its true love you'll both come back to eachother.. it seems to me like he does miss you but it wont be certain until he tries new things and see's how much he really does miss you.. so i recommend you both do the same ;) things will work out for you babe! remember theres that one person out there for everyone! best wishes xo Lindsey
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in my opinion just give him one more chance...tell him n make it clear to him that this is the last time...n u guys dont nessesarly have to break up everysingel time u guys fight..talk things out...talkin is the key..so have a nice long talk wit him n give him one more change make it clear that this is the last time...if it dont work again then loose him ;) u'll meet lots of new guys..good luck xoxo *effy*
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On again off again relationships suck!I mean seriously.Get to the root of what you two really disagree and fight about.Once you see what the problem is there try to fix the problem instead of continuing to break up with each other.If you really do want to get back with him give him one more chance and explain that you don't want to fight anymore and your tired of constantly being on again off again.If the problem between you two continues then maybe you two really aren't right for each other and you should move on.Wait about a week and find a guy who you have more in common with or is less likely to pick continuous fights with you.
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HeY! Wow! You sound just like me and my boyfriend. All boys are jerks and they just dont know how to treat us and respond to our feelings. I think you need to get out of the relationship for good because he is just gunna keep on hurting your heart. I know thats cheesy but if you keep getting back together with this guy, soon he'll be able to walk all over you and use you because you'll think youre "in love" and you would do anything for him! Youre gunna keep getting hurt and trust me he isnt worth it. If you need to talk, send me a message to my inbox! Good luck!
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Maybe he just got sick of what has been going on. Maybe he is just taking a break.
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MAYBE YOUR BF IS HANGING OUT WITH SOMEONE LIKE HIS FRIENDS THAT ARE BOYS AND HE IS EMBARASSED THAT UR THERE? I DON`T KNOW U NEED MORE DETAILS!
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