Hello all. My name's Bethany, and I'm pretty good at giving advice (or so I'm told.) So, ask away!
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Alright.....so I'm in the 9th grade and I'm 14. I'm friends with ALL guys.3 of them tease me about my boob size. I'm a 32B and they all say I'm small and I don't know what to do anymore. It gets really irritating and I just freeze and can't think of anything to say. Can anybody relate and give me a little advise here???
Thank You So Much!!! (link)
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Haha. Wow, who cares what they say! But I guess I know what you mean because I was dubbed with small boobs also. If they're your real friend's, and you tell them off about it, then they should stop. :)
Bethany
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i`m a 15yr old female,
i started to hang out with this boy about 2 months ago. he is in 2 grades higher than me he drives and i relly like him. tha first day we hung out i started to like him and since that day we havent gone more than 2 days without seeing eachother. But tha thing is he only wants to be friends with benifits.. and i want more. He is also involved with this other girl but they arent dateing she is an ex but they still have sex. I havent had sex with him yet he has asked but i said no. I met a few of his friends and became friends with some of them too. One night 3 of his friends asked me to hang out with them even though the guy i like wasnt there but i wsaid yes anyways. i ended up haveing sex with one of his friends. When the guy i like found out he was mad i`m not to sure why, he said he was mad because i said no to him when he cares about me and knows me well but i said yes to one of his friends that i jut met and didnt care about me. I'm not to sure why i had sex with his friend and won't have sex with him. He still asks me to have sex but i always say no. It might be a revenge thing because the night that i had sex with his friend was the same night i found out the guy i like was still haveing sex with his ex.. now the guy that i had sex with started to call me and ask me to hang out. i like him too but i don't think he knows it. i think he just thinks i like fooling around with him. so im wondering what i should do about this because i think tha first guy i like is just useing me and i don`t even know what to do about th second one. (link)
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The best thing I think for you to do would be to just give the first guy up. If he's not willing to stop seeing that other girl, then he's not worth it. You should maybe think about the second guy, and forget the first. :)
Hope this helps!
Bethany
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hey if u wanna put music on ur page use that code that u have under where liek u write stuff and go to this page http://xanga.com/home.aspx? and there u can find like teh music u want right click on it and then put it between the two "quatations marks" that are right next to each other ....
Anggie plz rate me (link)
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I forgot the code, sorry.
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I've always strived for straight hair.. but it never seems to stay straightened.. when ever i flat iron it.. it always goes back to its natural fall.. and when ever i blow dry it straight.. its all poofy.. and i can't get rid of it.. any suggestions on how to get my hair to stay straightened? (link)
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At beauty salons you can get your hair straightened by them putting something in your hair. I had it done, and I've had it for a month, and it's still straight. Hope this helps... Please rate me.
*Bethany*
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i weigh 92 ponds and im 5 foot 3... am i over weight? or under weight? (link)
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You're not either. You shouldn't even be bothered by your weight. I'm in 7th grade, I'm 12, I weigh 105.5 pounds, and I'm 5.6 1/2. You're just right. Don't worry about it. Hope this helps... Please rate me.
*Bethany*
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I really like this one guy aand I know he likes me. How do I tell him how I feel? Should I wait untill he makes the first move because that is what I think I should do. Im to afraid to tell him myself (link)
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My friends helped me to get my first boyfriend. If friends don't help try writting a letter telling him how you feel. Hope this helps... Please rate me.
*Bethany*
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I have been getting zits ever since the beginning of 7th grade. I really hate it. And I use Clean & Clear to clear them up, but the product doesn't exactly work. Do u know any product that will work? What advice would u give me? I looked at ur Zits link, but i've tried all of that..and i still get zits. Please tell me what products u use! It's hard to walk in school when a lot of boys are staring.. (link)
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The best way to work on zits is to not play with them too much, and wash your face every night. I'm in 7th grade too, and I'm going through that phase. I use Neutrogena Clean and Clear. Hope this helps... Please rate me.
*Bethany*
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My boyfriend has smoked cigarettes and gotten drunk just a few times. I hate it SO much! He's only 15 almost 16 years old, why in the hell does he need to smoke? It makes me mad but his friends tell me to get his nipple out of my mouth (referring that I'm a baby) and that he is old enough to do what he wants and its not bad... I'm just looking out for the love of my life! Do you really think I'm acting like an overprotective mom? (link)
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You're boyfriend is really young to be smoking and drinking. I think you're doing the right thing to protect your man. You obviously care and love for him and wouldn't want him to get hurt. Just don't listen to his loser friends. Hope this helps... Please rate me.
*Bethany*
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my friend is upsessed with my cousin and im like really upsessed with her families friends son. and she gos to his bcuz her cousins best friends with him and he goes ova hers, wen i go to my cousins i always ask if she wants to come, she always brags a bout like noing him and the whole house thing,and i never brag about my cuz..sooo
SiGnEd--WUT SHOULD I DO IT BOTHERS ME?? (link)
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If it bothers you that much, then whenever she starts talking about the subject just change it. And if you don't want her braging about her knowing your cousin, then don't tell her you're doing anything with him. Hope this helps... Please rate me.
*Bethany*
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my dad raped me. should i tell my mom, he said he would hrt me if i did. what do i do? thanx, gracie (link)
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Gracie,
This is a very serious matter and it has to be delt with before it goes too far. Yes, you should tell your mother! No one deserves to live like that. Tell your mom right away!
Hope this helps~Good luck!
*Bethany*
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hey folks... i need a little help here. i weigh 200lbs and am 5"7... (i'm 14, female) i really need to lose some weight. i don't need to lose it real fast... just like, 10 or 15lbs in the next month and a half... any tips? (link)
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Stay away from chocolates and sugar. Eat healthy. Never Ever starve yourself! I hope this helps~Please rate me.
*Bethany*
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This is gonna sound so weird. I read this advicenators collumn, and it seems like he is the kewlest guy ever. At first i thought maybe he was like 20 something, but he's my age, and i don't know, the picture of him kinda just made me feel weird, but i am not a person who starts that kinda thing. What should i do?
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It's not good to start dating people over the internet. For all you know he could be some creepy old guy!:P HOpe you make the right decission. Good luck! Please rate me.
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I liked this kid for a couple months.. but we always would flirt during the school year.. now its the summer n he asked me out n i said yea... because i really started to like him... we went out but he broke up wit me... then he asked me back out and i said yes... then a week later i broke up wit him because he was never wit me n he never called... but then i started to relieze that i missed him alot... n he said he still liked me but he was still thinking about goin out... i was ok wit that... but then he started liken my best friend... i told him he plays around wit peoples heads to much... should i still like this kid? or should i move on? (link)
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Your best choice would probably be to move on. Even though you may still like him, you should try and see other people. If you two are going to keep getting together and going back out then he's obviously not the right guy for you.
Hope this helps~Good luck! Please rate me.
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i really like this guy alot. And he tells me im gorgous and that he likes me too. Then we went to the movies with me and my best friend. And the next day he ends up liking my best friend instead of me! should i move on? or what should i do? (link)
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This guy must have been a real jerk if he told you you were gorgeous, and then goes with your best friend the next day. I say you should just forget about him and be happy for your friend. Hope this helps~Good luck! Please rate me.
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my best friend really likes this guy, and she never told me that she liked him, so i had no idea! And now she like hates me because, i started liking him. She thinks that i started liking him just to piss her off, and that's not true! How am i supposed to convince her that i had no idea she liked him? (link)
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Your friend should believe you if tell her that you didn't know. Just leave her alone and give her time to settle down. She'll come around. Hope this helps~Good luck! Please rate me.
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Umm okay i am just friends with this guy but everyone thinks we are more. What should i do?
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If everyone thinks you're more then just friends, and you're not then what does it matter? You shouldn't care what other people think. If you and your guy friend know that you're not more than just friends then it won't matter. I hope this helps! And please rate me.
*Bethany*
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Hii. i was reading what uve been writeing to everyone and u seem like u have helped soo many people so i had a question i have been really confused. i have been dateing this guy for about a year now. he is my 1st bf. we have been in and out of fights and we break up with each other and usually hook back up the next day but this time we broke up and it has been about a week. he tells me he loves me and he misses me everyday and other time of the days hes all pissed and he doesnt say shit. what should i do? my friend say he relly loves me and wants to work things out and he wants to ask me out again what should i do should i just get over him or keep loving him? hehas taken a big part of my life. i know confuseing but i dunno what to do anymore. (link)
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I know from experience that your first boyfriend is the greatest. If you're always getting in big fights, and getting back together on and off, then I think you should just end the relationship before anything else happens. YOu many want to get back with him, but you don't want to do something that you'll regret. I hope this helps~good luck!
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me n my gf always have nothing to do any ideas where we could go together we r gettin bored of movies, bowlin, n playin pool wut else can we do together? (link)
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If you've already done those things and tired of doing them, then you could try to find something to do that you've never done before. Hope this helps!
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As far back as I can remember I have seen things that weren't there(i.e. people, birds and dogs nothing inanimate). These things never talk, they don't scare me or interact with me. I have never told anyone about this before so I don't know if anyone else sees these. I know this is some sort of mental thing, but does anyone have any idea what this actually is? It doesn't bother me but I would like to know what it is. Does anyone know? (link)
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Have you ever seen the movie "A beautiful Mind"? That guy had the same kind of problem that i think you are having. Maybe you could go to the website and try to figure out what he has. If not, tell somebody. It'll make a big difference... then you can probably be put on medication or something
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well theres this friend i have and i always catch her in lies. a lot of my other friends do to, so we all know she lies. i never really wanted to confront her about it, but the other day she got mad at me, and we were fighting so i told her that i noticed that she lied ALL the time, and i even gave her examples, but she still says she didn't lie. well we all know she did, because she tells us all different things. well now we're in a big fight, so i don't even think i should have brought it up in the first place becasue i hate fighting,which is why i never brought it up before. so now what should i do? (link)
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If she really is your friend then she would back off a little bit and admit that she's wrong. If that doesn't work just try ignoring her and hang out with different people. Trust me she'll come up in a little bit after she finds that she lost you as a friend.
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