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i like him but he doesnt want to go out with me and i like h
i`m a 15yr old female,
i started to hang out with this boy about 2 months ago. he is in 2 grades higher than me he drives and i relly like him. tha first day we hung out i started to like him and since that day we havent gone more than 2 days without seeing eachother. But tha thing is he only wants to be friends with benifits.. and i want more. He is also involved with this other girl but they arent dateing she is an ex but they still have sex. I havent had sex with him yet he has asked but i said no. I met a few of his friends and became friends with some of them too. One night 3 of his friends asked me to hang out with them even though the guy i like wasnt there but i wsaid yes anyways. i ended up haveing sex with one of his friends. When the guy i like found out he was mad i`m not to sure why, he said he was mad because i said no to him when he cares about me and knows me well but i said yes to one of his friends that i jut met and didnt care about me. I'm not to sure why i had sex with his friend and won't have sex with him. He still asks me to have sex but i always say no. It might be a revenge thing because the night that i had sex with his friend was the same night i found out the guy i like was still haveing sex with his ex.. now the guy that i had sex with started to call me and ask me to hang out. i like him too but i don't think he knows it. i think he just thinks i like fooling around with him. so im wondering what i should do about this because i think tha first guy i like is just useing me and i don`t even know what to do about th second one.
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Well, honestly, tell the first guy that you found out and how you felt about it. Tell him your not comfortable enough around him to have sex for an unknown reason. As for the second guy - if he's just looking to fool around then tell him you're not interested.
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it seems that the first guy might be trying to use you if you feel uncomfortable having it with him then you shouldn't do it. maybe you didnt mind having it with the second guy coz it doesnt look lyk he was using you. your doing the right thing saying no to the first guy and you should tell the second guy that you care for him and that your not just doing it to fool around. x x hope i helped x x
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THE is not spelled THA. OK? And THIS ' is an apostrophe, not THIS `. and WHY did you do that?! that is for AFTER marriage, gah. go read the Bible!
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Wheres your self respect woman?Dont you see that the guy you like said that he only wants to be freinds??The second guy called because you gave him the chance to have sex with you now hes calling you because he wants more hes all like"this girl will do anything i want so what the hell?"The guy you like asked you for sex first cuz he KNOWS your obssesed with him and will do anything to get to him so hes using you for sex.He got mad because,"aww no fair how come my freind gets to have sex with her and i dont?"Dont worry,the guy you like isnt jelous and doesnt like you.You made your self cheaper than dirt to them guys,its girls like you that gives us good girls the bad names.You should be ashamed of yourslef,is your virginity THAT cheap to you??I seriously think that the guy you like and his freinds all planned this out so they can all have sex with you because they know you would do ANYTHING with ANYONE.
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The best thing I think for you to do would be to just give the first guy up. If he's not willing to stop seeing that other girl, then he's not worth it. You should maybe think about the second guy, and forget the first. :)
Hope this helps!
Bethany
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From what you wrote, I'm not sure if I like any of those guys. They are so preoccupied with sex. And if you want something more serious...it's honestly not going to happen if the relationship is just based on sex. That passion will burn out...and then he'll get tired and want something new.
The guy you like is constantly asking you for sex and has made it clear that he only wants a friends with benefits relationship with you while he's also going to keep sleeping around with his ex girlfriend. It's not even as if he plans to just sleep with you...he needs another girl too.
The second guy,which you have had sex with, he keeps wanting to hang out with you. If you do like him and see that him wanting to hang out with you is not just based on sex but rather becuase he genuinely likes you and wants something real, then you should pursue it. But if he's calling you as a sort of booty call...I would say forget about it...because the relationship being based on sex is ultimately doomed.
Good Luck,
Teacup
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