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i`m a 15yr old female,
i started to hang out with this boy about 2 months ago. he is in 2 grades higher than me he drives and i relly like him. tha first day we hung out i started to like him and since that day we havent gone more than 2 days without seeing eachother. But tha thing is he only wants to be friends with benifits.. and i want more. He is also involved with this other girl but they arent dateing she is an ex but they still have sex. I havent had sex with him yet he has asked but i said no. I met a few of his friends and became friends with some of them too. One night 3 of his friends asked me to hang out with them even though the guy i like wasnt there but i wsaid yes anyways. i ended up haveing sex with one of his friends. When the guy i like found out he was mad i`m not to sure why, he said he was mad because i said no to him when he cares about me and knows me well but i said yes to one of his friends that i jut met and didnt care about me. I'm not to sure why i had sex with his friend and won't have sex with him. He still asks me to have sex but i always say no. It might be a revenge thing because the night that i had sex with his friend was the same night i found out the guy i like was still haveing sex with his ex.. now the guy that i had sex with started to call me and ask me to hang out. i like him too but i don't think he knows it. i think he just thinks i like fooling around with him. so im wondering what i should do about this because i think tha first guy i like is just useing me and i don`t even know what to do about th second one. (link)
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it seems that the first guy might be trying to use you if you feel uncomfortable having it with him then you shouldn't do it. maybe you didnt mind having it with the second guy coz it doesnt look lyk he was using you. your doing the right thing saying no to the first guy and you should tell the second guy that you care for him and that your not just doing it to fool around. x x hope i helped x x
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okay so im usually the one that is giving the advice, and i REALLY need help. but bare with me because im warning you this is long and if you answer me with a decent answer i will rate you a 5 if you read it all.
OKAY so lets begin...FYI: 16/f
so i have a BESTFRIEND thats a guy...and in our past we went out in 7th grade and 9th grade. In 9th grade we got pretty intimate(not any kind of sex though) and before we went out it took me forever to get him to admit that he liked me, like we would ALWAYS be talking on the phone and going to the movies with our friends and he would hold my hand. soooo we went out or whatever then broke up because he liked another girl. well its a new summer and just recently we have been talking on the phone a lot, and if i dont call him he calls me, which has been the past 3 times and hes like so you werent going to call me? and i go yeah i was just i was waiting a little longer. then the other night i kinda got upset and sad and he could tell when we were talking online and he was all like tell me, tell me. and i was like no i dont want to talk about it, what does it matter to you? and he was like because i care about you. that right there was like a slap in the face( a good one lol) because he has never really said that to me like that before. and i know he does care about me, because we are SO comfortable with eachother and everything. so last nigth he was trying to get me to tell him what was wrong and i wouldnt. so i was like i love you though and he goes no you cant say you love me unless you mean it, and i was like but i DO in a friends only kind of way, and he goes no you cant tell me you love me unless its more.
i know this is really confusing, believe me he confuses me. does it seem like he likes me? and i really dont know what to do, because we always argue about the stupidest things, and last nigth he even told me he LOVES getting me mad because im so cute when i get mad and the faces i make. but yeah anyways my bestfirend (thats a girl) just thinks its all a bad idea, i kinda do too but i dunno when we went out last time he was the only person i even considered losing it to (of course waiting for at least a year or so) and what is REALLY confusing was, okay well he wants to comeover to make out with me and and stuff, and like im all up for it, but he was telling me how he pictured it and he was all yeah we would be making out then i would look deep into your eyes and i would ask you out again and you would say yes and we would go out for forever,
lol you guys i bet you are SO confused to, but anything will help!!! i need your opinion on the whole thing!!!
THANKS SO MUCH!!!
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Hiya ! It looks lyk he really dus like you, you 2 seem lyk quite close mates and i wouldn't ruin that close friendship by going out with him. if i was you i would stay really close with him and he should understand x x i really hope i've helped x x
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