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BEST GUY FRIEND
okay so im usually the one that is giving the advice, and i REALLY need help. but bare with me because im warning you this is long and if you answer me with a decent answer i will rate you a 5 if you read it all.
OKAY so lets begin...FYI: 16/f
so i have a BESTFRIEND thats a guy...and in our past we went out in 7th grade and 9th grade. In 9th grade we got pretty intimate(not any kind of sex though) and before we went out it took me forever to get him to admit that he liked me, like we would ALWAYS be talking on the phone and going to the movies with our friends and he would hold my hand. soooo we went out or whatever then broke up because he liked another girl. well its a new summer and just recently we have been talking on the phone a lot, and if i dont call him he calls me, which has been the past 3 times and hes like so you werent going to call me? and i go yeah i was just i was waiting a little longer. then the other night i kinda got upset and sad and he could tell when we were talking online and he was all like tell me, tell me. and i was like no i dont want to talk about it, what does it matter to you? and he was like because i care about you. that right there was like a slap in the face( a good one lol) because he has never really said that to me like that before. and i know he does care about me, because we are SO comfortable with eachother and everything. so last nigth he was trying to get me to tell him what was wrong and i wouldnt. so i was like i love you though and he goes no you cant say you love me unless you mean it, and i was like but i DO in a friends only kind of way, and he goes no you cant tell me you love me unless its more.
i know this is really confusing, believe me he confuses me. does it seem like he likes me? and i really dont know what to do, because we always argue about the stupidest things, and last nigth he even told me he LOVES getting me mad because im so cute when i get mad and the faces i make. but yeah anyways my bestfirend (thats a girl) just thinks its all a bad idea, i kinda do too but i dunno when we went out last time he was the only person i even considered losing it to (of course waiting for at least a year or so) and what is REALLY confusing was, okay well he wants to comeover to make out with me and and stuff, and like im all up for it, but he was telling me how he pictured it and he was all yeah we would be making out then i would look deep into your eyes and i would ask you out again and you would say yes and we would go out for forever,
lol you guys i bet you are SO confused to, but anything will help!!! i need your opinion on the whole thing!!!
THANKS SO MUCH!!!
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Hiya ! It looks lyk he really dus like you, you 2 seem lyk quite close mates and i wouldn't ruin that close friendship by going out with him. if i was you i would stay really close with him and he should understand x x i really hope i've helped x x
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He likes you a lot, but he doesn't no how to tell in a way that is comfortable to you. he already has a gf so iwould go out with him cuz you might mess up a great friend ship. You just need to be honest with him, and tell him how you feel. If he is really your friend he will listen and understand!I hope that i helped
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wow okay. im confuuused but thats okayy ! i think he loves you & he means it. he means it a lot, but he doesn't want maybe to go out. it seems like he doesn't want to commit to it. he just wants to love you and have you love him & leave it at that. i think maybe he got hurt by one of your past break-ups, and he doesn't wanna get hurt again. he likes you. but i think i'd be a bad idea to go farther than thaat! ♥. sorry if what my earlier answer said upset you. because that wasn't me! it was some WEiRDO PERSON! i sweearrrr. i came to my friends house screaming because someone had done that. cause i don't want to be a bad coulumnistt! ask another ? if you need help! ♥ good luuuuck with this guyy!
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ALRIGHT, long but non-confusing. sounds like you guys are going to end up getting married! lol its good that he cares about you, im not sure if you should jump right into a relationship with him because you and/or him might regret it. see how long his feelings like this lasts. id give him a week or soo to see if he is the right guy. also i think it might be a bad idea to have sex with him. ive known alot of people who thought they loved, well they did love them but they completely regreted having sex. not because they got STDs or are pregnant or anything like that but, after a couple times of you know, well yeah lol there boyfriends dumped them. i am not saying that he is going to dump you right after im just saying be careful if you dont want to be hurt. if he really likes you and honestly cares about you, he will make sure you know it! i hope i helped!
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