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i had no idea she liked him! She thinks that i started liking him just to piss her off!
my best friend really likes this guy, and she never told me that she liked him, so i had no idea! And now she like hates me because, i started liking him. She thinks that i started liking him just to piss her off, and that's not true! How am i supposed to convince her that i had no idea she liked him?
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well there are a few choices here. one dump your friend and go for the guy which is the least fun one. two talk to her and tell her that you liked him for awhile. three if you really want to keep her as a friend tell her you wont like him or go after him if she likes him. its a complicated one here
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You should tell her that you had no idea that she
liked him if you did then you probably would of backed off her being pissed off at you could of been
avoided if she simply told you that she liked him from the start tell her in reality she has nothing
to be angry about seeing as you did nothing wrong
& you weren't aware that she liked him it's her fault not yours tell her that you don't like him &
you didn't start liking him just to piss her off &
as your best friend she should believe your telling the truth & you weren't lieing to her(:
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Just tell her if she doesnt believe you shes not a very good friend because a good friend always trusts her friend tell her she told you she didnt like him so you thought it was okay to like him and that if she had told you before then you wouldnt even have considered liking him so basically its not your fault and if she doesnt listen then w.e you dont need a friend like her that doesnt trust you who knows maybe in the future she will blame you or accuse you of doing something else you didnt mean to.
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You cant help you like your heart chooses not you! But she needs to know that and i am sure she would crush on anybody she wanted if she wanted to but you cant choose therefore that out to her. But tell her if you had the chance to go out w/him you wouldnt because the relationship between u and her is important and that isnt worth throwing away over a guy that will probably only last a few months or so-trix
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just remember friends last longer then other things... dont let this mess up ur friendship!GOOD LUCK
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ok well if your best friend really means something to you as a friend and you want to keep her as your friend then just find a way to calmy tell her that she means way more to you than this guy does and you would never jeopardize your friend ship for this guy. hopefully this will work out and if not then your friend will hopefully realize that shes wrong and you never meant to hurt her. because you didnt know in the first place. ive gone through a similiar thing before and it worked out so good luck to you and your dilemma.
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well... a good friend should belive u and anywayz u didn't kno that she liked him so sit her down and have a talk w/ her that wut i would if that happend to me
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Well that happened with my friend too. Just tell her just because you like somebody doesn't mean hez all herz. Everybody could like one person. I hope i helped!! Plz rate me
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Your friend should believe you if tell her that you didn't know. Just leave her alone and give her time to settle down. She'll come around. Hope this helps~Good luck! Please rate me.
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Talk 2 her nd tell her dat u neva told me u liked him. Tell her dat if u new dat she liked him u would hav neva liked him as much as u do. Explain dat 2 her nd mayb shell realize dat u didnt do it on purpose. Hope I Helped
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Just keep tellin her over and over, MAKE HER LISTEN! as a friend she should understand where you're commin from.
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I think you should tell your freind that this guy is not worth our freindship and tell her I would never piss you off for this guy.....
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hi, tell her that you never knew that she liked him b/c she never told u anything bout it...so tell her that ur sorry but u like him 2...n since u both like him..tell her to make a game out of it...n see who gets him :-P hiihihh i bet that would be mad fun!!! ;) xoxo effy
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talk to her. tell her you had no idea that she liked him too. you guys have to come to an agreement: who is more important, a boy and your friendship???
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Tell her you're sorry and that you wouldnt have started liking him if you would have known that she liked him, just sit down and talk to her
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whoa dejavu. You won't be able to convince her of anything right now, shes mad and nothing will get through her head. Just leave her alone for a few days so she can come to realize that you are worth more than that guy. And dont worry, because eventually she will.
Wanna hear my scenario? Well too bad because you don't have a choice. A loooooong time ago I liked a guy, and secretly, a friend of mine had liked him also. She knew *I* liked him, but still never told me she liked him also AND proceeded to be angry at me even though she never told me. The guy ended up to be a pretty big scuzzbag and hurting me. My friend didnt really take this into account when she continued liking him and he ended up hurting her too. He was a nice guy. Hah. ANyways, back to you. Females often lose sight of true friends because a guy gets in the way, but we always realize whats important sooner or later.
I'd give it a few days and suggest both of you stay away from the guy because no matter what you say - either of you will be angry if the other gets closer to this guy. So just decide whats worth it more, this guy or your friend. If you chose your friend (which you definitely should) then you guys will patch things up easily. In a few days, talk to her and let her know that you had no idea she liked him and that you think he isnt worth your friendship being jeopardized. She's your best friend, and she'll understand.
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Tell her once nicely.. twice firmly .. if it doesnt click then it isnt your problem!
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Well she's not really your best friend.You tell her that if you wud have known you would have backed off but if she's really minding it then tell her bad luck cuz he's yours now!
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Ok just sit her down and say " i never meant to hurt your feelings i would never think of liking i guy to piss you off! I just like him because i didnt know you liked him..if you told me you liked him then i would of backed off and not liked him but you gotta understand i didnt mean to hurt you...that sumething you should say or u can make it in your own words
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Well,I would start off by reminding her of the fact that she never told you about her crush!You can't be a mind reader,ya know? ;) But let her know that you care too much about her and your friendship to ever do anything like that to her,or to ever do anything to hurt her period!Just reassure her of the strength of your friendship,and that you really did have no idea that she liked this guy!!She should come around!
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