I liked this kid for a couple months.. but we always would flirt during the school year.. now its the summer n he asked me out n i said yea... because i really started to like him... we went out but he broke up wit me... then he asked me back out and i said yes... then a week later i broke up wit him because he was never wit me n he never called... but then i started to relieze that i missed him alot... n he said he still liked me but he was still thinking about goin out... i was ok wit that... but then he started liken my best friend... i told him he plays around wit peoples heads to much... should i still like this kid? or should i move on?
DorkyJay27 answered Tuesday July 13 2004, 11:57 am: I would move on if i were you. This kid doesnt know who to like, and doesnt know how to keep one girl, and your bestfriend of all other people to like.def. move on. [ DorkyJay27's advice column | Ask DorkyJay27 A Question ]
ClurBur answered Tuesday July 13 2004, 10:48 am: You shouldnt have to put up with it.. Move on! Dont spend your time on someone who wont spend their time on you! He'll get jealous once you move on anyway if he likes you still! [ ClurBur's advice column | Ask ClurBur A Question ]
ShOrTnSwEeT42094 answered Tuesday July 13 2004, 7:46 am: Well,I think you are kinda right,it does seem like he's slightly fond of mind games,but maybe not TOTALLY!!First thing,never ever let a guy come between your relationship with your best friend!!That can be disasterous and you'll wind up losing a guy(which will hurt for a while),AND your best friend(which can hurt forever)!!But I would let this guy know that it hurt your feelings to find out that now he's into your best friend.Let him know that you really like him a lot,and you were really hoping that you two would work things out and reconsile,so to hear that he's into your best girl too was a little painful!!Tell him just what you said,that you only broke up with him because he was never around to be with and he never called,which made you feel neglected,and that's not something you want in a relationship.Tell him you don't mean that you wanna rope and tie him,you just want a boyfriend who's actually there!!!!After you let him know all of this,and that you would like to work it out with him,the ball is really in his court.If he continues to beat around the bush and not give you straight answers on things,and talk on about your best friend...I would say it's time to check him off your list!! [ ShOrTnSwEeT42094's advice column | Ask ShOrTnSwEeT42094 A Question ]
butterfly004 answered Tuesday July 13 2004, 5:09 am: Look at ur queston carefully....Ur answer is in ur question but u havn't realized it.It's obvious that u shud move on.He's not the only guy in the world.There are many other fish in the sea and if u take ur mind of this guy you will start realizing that.And when u find that guy of ur dreams u wil look back and think "How did I ever fall for this guy?!?"
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Mackenzie answered Tuesday July 13 2004, 2:35 am: Moving on would be the best choice for you. It's plain to see you have no future with this guy; don't waste your time. You go out, you break up.. you go out, you break up... you go out, you break up.. That's not a healthy relationship for anyone. Maybe he's not really looking for a relationship at all. Perhaps he just wants the attention, without having to accept the responisibilites of commitment. There's much better people out there who would truly want to be with you, I wish you luck in finding the right one. I hope this helps. Take care! [ Mackenzie's advice column | Ask Mackenzie A Question ]
XoTruebrunettExO answered Tuesday July 13 2004, 1:31 am: if he doesn't like you then i think you should move on.. i mean you don't want a boyfriend thats gonna play with ur head and lead you on. it's gonna be a hard thing for you to do, but you i bet you, you'll find someone else, and that person will wanna be with you, and will call you. & if you keep waiting for this guys to relize what he's missing ur gonna miss the guy that will treat you like and who you'll like just as much! good luck hun!!
Siren_Cytherea answered Tuesday July 13 2004, 1:30 am: If it were me, I would move on. He's playing with you and that's just not cool. He needs to understand that he can't do that to people, and you're gonna have to be the one to teach him. Tell him it's wrong, and no girl is going to stick with him if the word gets around that he does this. Move on, honey. All he's doing is hurting you. Hope I helped!
-Siren =) [ Siren_Cytherea's advice column | Ask Siren_Cytherea A Question ]
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