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confizlled friends


Question Posted Wednesday June 30 2004, 6:17 pm

my best friend and i have a "fling" going and his g/f is getting really mad that we hang out ... hes having issues dumping her ... should we do?

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blue_exodus answered Wednesday June 30 2004, 10:52 pm:
Lay everything out on the table- for both sides. Tell your "fling-partner" how you feel, as well as his girlfriend. Try to organize a time when you can all TALK things out, alone, and hopefully in person- and do just that. Expect some tears, though.
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Short_N_Punky answered Wednesday June 30 2004, 7:53 pm:
Just tell her how you feel. And lay it out straight it hurts more when you dont tell someone about things. Tell her that you and your frend are having "fun" hanging out together and you have something going between each other. And that you dont want to hert her but you have to let her go. She will understand. Good luck hope iv helped dont be afraid to write back.
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AnDiE answered Wednesday June 30 2004, 7:29 pm:
EhK.. i understand where his chik is comin from.. i mean.. if yall do have a thang goin on.. which you said you do.. then yall need to lae off till he breaks up with his girlfriend.. and if he doesnt break up with her.. then yall shuudnt be "talkyn"..

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KiSsEs answered Wednesday June 30 2004, 7:26 pm:
Well you know he has a girlfriend so i say back off untill things die down between them. How would you feel if that was your boyfriend flirtin around with anotha girl. You gotta be considerate of her feelings...she had every right to be mad! If he's having issues dummping her stay out of it... thats something he needs to do with out you.
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Mizz_C answered Wednesday June 30 2004, 7:10 pm:
i think that if you kno that your best friend has a gurlfrined then you should leave him alone. Cause im pretty shur that if you had a boy friend n some gurl wuz alwayz on him u wouldnt be 2 happy. I think that you should leave that decision 2 him. If he feels that he likes you so muck that he would break up with hiz boyfriend then thats hiz choice.



-MIZZ_C

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verhulson answered Wednesday June 30 2004, 7:08 pm:
its okay, he'll dump her in good time
and no worries cuz if shes one of those over protective girls with the wrong kinda friends she'll eventually get over it .... or hate you forever
doesnt really matter either way
either way you will eventually get her out of the relatiopnship... all in good time... in laymans terms I SAY JUST GO FOR IT!!
things will work themselves out in time


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Babyxtx09 answered Wednesday June 30 2004, 7:05 pm:
well tell him that if he really wants to be with you than to try to go ahead and break up with his girlfriend.. try backin off n giving him some space a lil bit so that he can figure it out and how to break up with her

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XoTruebrunettExO answered Wednesday June 30 2004, 6:55 pm:
He should definatly break up with her. No one feels good when their boyfriend has a "fling" with another girl.. she shouldn't be put through this any longer. obviously it hurts her, because it would hurt anyone. Also, it might make you guys feel better about what you have, and not like your sneeking around behind someone ele's back.

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OreoGirl answered Wednesday June 30 2004, 6:54 pm:
ok well u guys r best friends so she has to understand that u will hang out but if u guys r like, i dunno, kissing for example then she has a reason to get mad. i dunno wut kind of issues he would have dumping her. if u want to dump sum1 it should b gentle but quick. he cant b stringing along u both. it isn't rite that u guys started having ur "fling" while they were still going out but these things happen. so he needs to dump her quick or stop being with you.

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tikibikini answered Wednesday June 30 2004, 6:30 pm:
Ok you should know this. your friend and you are having a "fling" and your friend is a boy. He has a girlfriend. How would you feal if your boyfriend was haning with some girl and not you. how would you feal.You would be mad wouldn't you. If he doesn;t like her tell him not to hurt her and break up with her. hope my advice helped! ~*~rate me~*~ jonelle*

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nofxchick19 answered Wednesday June 30 2004, 6:27 pm:
look its your best friend and his girlfriend is getting mad because well that is her boyfriend how would you like it if your boyfriend was mesing around with his best friend if it was a girl well you just think about that

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