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tell him or not?


Question Posted Wednesday June 30 2004, 12:00 pm

I have liked someone for 4 years now. He has moved away once and then came back. He now has moved away again with his mom about 2 hours from here. I still like him alot but im afraid to tell him incase it ruins our friendship. I have his phone number but im afraid to call him because i dont think he wants to talk to me. Now i just decided to forget about him because it makes me really sad to think about him and barely talk to him except about once a month on the computer. I barely talk to him anymore, but i really like him and i dont know if i should tell him or if i should just forget about it. What should i do?

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Additional info, added Wednesday June 30 2004, 12:20 pm:
i got his number from a friend. I dont no if he wants me to have it..

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Mizz_C answered Wednesday June 30 2004, 6:27 pm:
I think you should tell.Cause if you dont i think it willjust haunt you untill you cant take it any more. If you just keep it bottled up inside of you thingz wont get any better. ANd you will just alwayz wonder what could have happened.Good luck=)


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~CutieBabe~ answered Wednesday June 30 2004, 4:48 pm:
grl, it's ok! you should just call him and let him know how you feel! i've liked someone for years and he found that out this year, and it worked out good, and now we are ok friends and we talk more then we did before.

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XoTruebrunettExO answered Wednesday June 30 2004, 4:48 pm:
i know that you're afraid of rejection, almost everyone is, but if you don't do anything, later on your going to regret not telling him how you feel, who knows it could have turned into something great, and still can, and it's all up to you. i know it's hard, but if you only talk to him once a month on the computer, that's not much of a friendship, so maybe you guys will make better girlfriend n boyfriend than better friends. i dont know all the details though, you guys might get together or something im not sure. but i still think that you should follow your heart instead of sitting around and doing nothing, trust me, you'll regret it!! theres this quote that i really like, it's "if you want big rewards, you've gotta take big risks" << think about it.

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luvyabunchspoofy answered Wednesday June 30 2004, 12:22 pm:
YES TELL HIM U WILL FEEL A LOT BETTER TRUST ME I WAS IN A SITUATION JUST LIKE URS OUR FRIENDSHIP WAS TIGHTER THAN EVER WE EVENTUALLY GOT TOGETHER AFTER WE BROKE UP ( BEFOR WE PROMISED TO STAY FRIENDS NO MATTER WHAT) WE WERE STILL FRIENDS!!!!

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tikibikini answered Wednesday June 30 2004, 12:18 pm:
Ok. I have been in this situation before. You like him a lot so, if you feal right tell him. I think that you should talk to him first and ask him if maybe there is something that you would say to him that might ruin your friendship and then if he says "yes" then ask him what it is and if it is that then just say, "I don't want to ruin our friendship but, I have liked you for a while now and i just want to know if you like me more than a friend?" and if he says yes tell him how you feal and see if he feals the same way and if he says no just say, "Well I hope this conversation doesn't ruin for friendship because I still want to be friends" and then say "I got to go but I will call you later." I hope my advice helped you with your problem.

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hotcherry answered Wednesday June 30 2004, 12:02 pm:
CALL HIM!! he gave u his number for a reason! If u like him...you need to tell him!! it will just keep bothering you if you dont! i really doubt that it would ruin the friendship! :-)

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