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friends or what?


Question Posted Wednesday June 30 2004, 1:54 pm

this year, our my grade got a new student. he sat at the table next to mine in lunch. The second i saw him, i felt like i knew him and i felt like i needed to be friends with him. He is on my bus also and i found many times he would turn around and look at me. Then we started talking on AIM and eventually he would turn around in lunch and sit at my lunch table. Recently this summer, he asked me to hang out with him and he even ditched the girl he liked to hang out with me all day and then he told her he had fun with me and my other friend. He talks to me more now and he told me to call him once to make plans to hang out. Why did i feel like i need to be his friend so much since i saw him, and what does this all mean? I dont feel like i like him or any thing but im confused with what direction our friendship is goin in because sometimes we talk alot and then sometimes we dont talk at all. Im confused...

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blue_exodus answered Wednesday June 30 2004, 10:48 pm:
Just go with the flow. =)
It sounds like you guys have a very fun, tight relationship. It reminds me of one of my best friends (who is a guy) and me. I wouldn't try to make anything of it until you feel like you have to. It's always better to be best friends than to hurry a relationship and mess up the friendship. Have fun- and thanks for being nice to the new kid! I'm sure it meant alot- and maybe that's why he feels so close to you (as it appears he does.)
>>blue<<

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Mizz_C answered Wednesday June 30 2004, 7:05 pm:
I think maybe you just felt that he would be a really good friend. Nad maybe he does really wanna be my friend. Dunt worry guyz are just confusing like that sometymes.hope i helped=)



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KiSsEs answered Wednesday June 30 2004, 6:47 pm:
You probably felt like you HAD to be friends with him the first time you saw him because destiny was workin its majic. You may not like him NOW but just give it sometime and you'll seem to have a change in heart! Just go with the flow and see how things turn out... You might like him and you dont know it yet! ~KiSsEs~

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tikibikini answered Wednesday June 30 2004, 6:46 pm:
i think that you do like him but oyu are not sure why so you just think you dont like him. I think he likes you the same way but he doesnt no y so he ignoring liking you that way.Just talk to him and see whats up. Maybe you wanted to be his friend because maybe you thought he maybe a good person to talk to and possibly you thought he was cute. hope my advice helped
~*~rate me please*~*
*jonelle

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HollyAnn2282 answered Wednesday June 30 2004, 5:53 pm:
Ahh maybe its like a sign or something! Just go with the flow and see how things are... You might like him and you dont know it yet! Good luck and i hope things turn out good!
-Holly-

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~CutieBabe~ answered Wednesday June 30 2004, 4:36 pm:
CHICA! it's either you really like this guy, or you just wanted to make him feel comfortable in a new place and skool!! ;)

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oO_MySTiCaL_MaGiC_Oo answered Wednesday June 30 2004, 4:25 pm:
well maybe its fate..who knows..maybe u were destined to meet him..who knows..everything happenes for a reason..and for what i have read it seems some chemistry just might be stirring up..keep it goin who know what might happen..u got me interested keep me up on this story :)

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advice~gurl answered Wednesday June 30 2004, 2:42 pm:
Whoa.
Okay, you said when you first saw him that you felt that you should be friends right? Well my personal oppinon is that you two should just be friends and later on in the furure you may be togather. I'm going to say what im thinking and don't freak out, it sounds like Destiny taking it corse and I think your a lil freaked at the thought.

Just stay friends with him life has a way of surprising us when er least excpect it. Stand by him as a friend.
hope I helped
sincerely
advice~gurl
kat

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AnDiE answered Wednesday June 30 2004, 2:41 pm:
EyE ThInK.. you shuud just tell the poor kid you only lyk him as a friend... (if thats really the case).... i mean.. dont lead him on if you dont lyk him.. and tell him that you wanna be his FrIeNd! and yea... the reason you wanted to be his friend was cuz you thought he was hot.. YeAh! l0l.. idk.. maybe...

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Strawb3rrybabi3e answered Wednesday June 30 2004, 2:10 pm:
i think that this maybe happened for a reason maybe later on you will end up being with him but for now be his friend i have a friend like that and its great yall can tell each other everything juss keep talking to him alot and maybe everything will end up perfect in the end i hope this helped // much love katie sumner

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Babyxtx09 answered Wednesday June 30 2004, 2:08 pm:
aww it sounds like such a good thing you have him in your life now! who knows why you felt like you needed to be friends with him.. sometimes things just happen for a reason that we dont know.. maybe right now tho u juz have him as a gud friend.. who knows? maybe yall cud be more than friends one day! but just get to know him more and let destiny take its course! :)

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chaos answered Wednesday June 30 2004, 1:57 pm:
I think the answer is that you enjoy his company, and he enjoys yours. You don't have to "like" each other. Just be friends and hang out. There is nothing better than a great guy you can talk to. Be patient.

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