Friends and love life:how do you distinguish one from the ot
Question Posted Tuesday June 29 2004, 10:48 pm
I have a bunch of friends who miraculously happen to be boys. Seriously, a lot. None of them consider me their girlfriend, and I don't consider any of them my boyfriends. We're all just plain old friends.
I also have a lot of girls who are my just plain old friends. They are consistantly telling me that one of them HAS to be my boyfriend, and that it's just not right to have a bunch of guys for friends at the late age of 14 (sarcasim). I mean, sure I love them all like friends, but I don't consider any of them my boyfriends. Is this wrong???
xXBrunetteBabiiXx answered Wednesday June 30 2004, 1:20 am: no not at all! ur friends are probably just jealous that you have a lot of guy friends, having guy friends is a great thing and u should be greatful for that! u will meet the rite guy so dont listen to ur friends! [ xXBrunetteBabiiXx's advice column | Ask xXBrunetteBabiiXx A Question ]
readmyElips answered Wednesday June 30 2004, 1:00 am: if you don't want to be more than just friends with them then NOTHING at all is wrong with this! lol, i have ALOT more guy friends than i do girls, i don't know why.. but i do! i definitley don't consider them "b/f's" either. [ readmyElips's advice column | Ask readmyElips A Question ]
~*Bre_Babbles*~ answered Tuesday June 29 2004, 11:40 pm: no it is not wrong at all! i have alot of friends that are boys and they are not my boyfriends it is just like a big family!!hope i helped!! plz rate me!!
cutie4you answered Tuesday June 29 2004, 11:19 pm: of course nOT!! its great to have a large group of friends that are both male and female! your friends mite simply be jealous of the fact that so many guys treat you in a friendly way.. they want to assume your doing something wrong because so many guys like you as a friend! keep being friends with guys! you can always use a guys opinion and there funt o be around! hope i helped ya!
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selectopaque answered Tuesday June 29 2004, 11:00 pm: I'm not really sure what the problem is. Is it wrong that your friends with guys? No. Is it wrong that your not going out with one of them? No. Your girlfriends are probably jealous that you get to hang out with the guys. Don't listen to them if they think it's wrong. The more friends the merrier... I guess [ selectopaque's advice column | Ask selectopaque A Question ]
XoTruebrunettExO answered Tuesday June 29 2004, 10:53 pm: no not at all.. it's perfectly fine for you to think of all of them as just guys who are friends. it's actually really cool because then you can ask them questions only guys would know, or get there guy point of view about something. this is something you can't do with girls who are friends. if you don't consider any of them as boyfriends don't worry about it cuz it's perfectly normal.. you'll know when a guy comes along that you like.. you'll feel different about them than you do about your guy friends!
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