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y do girls stereotype guys so much? I mean, we may think about "stuff" some of the time, but girls always jus automatically assume thats wat guys r thinking about 24/7. And u also always assume that in a relationship, the guy is always wanting one thing and he will always make the first moves towards it. And another thing that bothers me is y girls are such feminist. ok, back then guys were thought to be superior to girls, but now days we r equal. however, lots of girls are always arguing how they have to go through so much pain, or how they have to endure so many more hardships. it really annoys me. And also, y is it always sexist if a guy does something or says something to a girl, but no one cares if a girl does or says something about a guy? i mean, a male teacher can favor guys and not pay much attention to girls, and automatically he is sexist and fired....but a female or male teacher can favor girls, and no one cares b/c no one thinks that is sexist except the guys who are on the short end of the stick. i jus want to know y.
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because some girls are stupid and are ruining it for the others, there seems to be that group of females that are going for straight up supremacy instead of equality ... which is wrong, but maybe you should look more carefully at your so called "equality" .... meh, there are problems with both sides of the argument on this one
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Well first of all, it is usually the guys who are the one's who are thinking about sex first. Although girls think about it, I heard that guys think about sex every 10 seconds which I think is a load of crap. Girls, when we say that we go through so much more pain than you we reall just want to go through all the pain when it happen's and I guess the battle against sex's are still up because of the hole deal that woman can't work and all, there are many feminists in the world and still are, we just don't want to hav to go through all of those things again. It sort of gives us a comfort in our live. HOPE I HELPED!! :)
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i think alot of girls are how u explain them. i think we do indure more hardships and its a guy world!!! we have to have a period every month we have to carry the ababy around 9 months then go trhrough the pain of having it. but to be honest alot of girls make generalisations about guys bc they been through things. like the trust issue. a girl may not trust a guy ever again bc the last bf or w/e lost her trust and hurt her. or they think sex is on a guys mind 24/7 bc thats what she has come to learn about guys she knows.
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Not all girls sterotype guys. Including me. Some do because they may have dated a guy who treated them badly and that has made them dislike guys. Some girls are just like that. As for the sexism thing...well...boys are generally stronger than girls and girls are usually more sensitive. That's why when a guy hits a girl or treats her like dirt then it's frowned on more than if a girl did that to a guy.
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You wanna know why? We stereotype guys because they stereotype us as sluts, whores, or ho's. K? And maybe teachers favor girls all the time cuz we arent slobs and pigs. We do know what guyz r thinking about 24/7, deal with it. You're all predictible. You're all the same... but one.
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Ok..The reason why girls are favored to guys is we have a generally better attitude towards teachers..well..atleastmost of us do. Andyou cant really say that we are equal thses days..even parents push sexism on us without thinking about it..like in my family..when my brother lost his virginity my dad was like GO SON! and me and my sisters lost ours my dad was ready to chopsome penis' off... Sexism is something that is still pushed on society more than noticed..and is why we females are the way we are.. Its just something youll have to learn to deal with..o yea..and we think that guys are always thinking about stuff because they usually are..and when a guy tries to say he didntmean what he said in a perverted way ad hes lookin down your shirt...it doesnt really work...
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good for you that you can express your feelings that way, well i guess when a man breaks our heart we automaticaly say negitve things about him its silly,but we just do it! lol
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Ok about the <b>stuff</b>. A lot of guys always talk about "dirty" things and always talk about sex, so it's automatic that we think of that. And girls do go through a lot of pain like heartbreaks. Every girl has pretty much gotten her heart broken and it's harder on us because we take it harder. A lot of times guys just forget about it and move on to another girl.. they're not as emotionally attached to one person like we are. A lot of times when girls like somebody it can be for a year or even more and then suddenly he just breaks her heart for no reason. It takes a lot of time to get over these things. And about the <blink>sexist</blink> stuff it's just how it is. If a male teacher favors guys he is probably considered gay and people might think he will try to do something and he gets fired. At my school theres a man teacher who favors girls.... really FAVORS them and he hasn't gotten fired because girls are usually quieter and get in less trouble, so it's normal for teachers to favor girls.
When guys say something about a girl, our feelings get hurt a lot. A lot of times we can end up in cutting or crying or maybe even suicide. When a girl says something about a guy, they might laugh about it or not think twice about it. If you say something to a girl like if you're looking at a picture and it's an ugly person and the girl might go ohh she's ugly. The guy might say "you're not that ugly." and be meaning you're prettier than that. The girl will take it the wrong way and think that he meant you're not <blink><b>THAT</blink></b> ugly but you're still calling her ugly. That's just the way we are. Anyway sorry it's long but I hope I helped!!
<b>Love, racheL</b>
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I think a lot of girls think negatively of guys and are feministic because they've (myself included) had their hearts stomped on a few times. It's hard to get over something like that. Besides, how do YOU know that we're all like that? We know - or at least we should know - that not all guys only want sex. However, so many guys really do only want sex, it's hard to tell who does and who doesn't. You've gotta see it from our point of view if you want answers to your questions. Girls are not generally as stoic as guys are, and it's harder for us to deal with getting our heart stomped on. I mean, I went without a crush on anyone for 18 months because two guys stomped on my heart, and enough seemed to only want one thing to make me hate guys. The guy I'm with now somehow managed to chisel through the ice around my heart, but I hadn't wanted or expected that to happen. Girls are feminists because we like ourselves, lol. We don't always think of sex (of course, not all guys always do, but it's certainly on their minds enough), we don't have to be violent when we greet our friends in the halls (i.e. *Punchintheshoulder* "Hey man!" *Shove over to the side* "How's it going?") I personally never understood that. All girls have different reasons for being feminists, but those are mine.
Hope this helped answer your question!
-Siren =)
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We think of all that stuff because our hearts are always broken by guys. But we still think (well at least I do) that not all guys are like that. Were just scared of losing our bfs! I think guys are stronger, even though we have pain..guys were just made stronger..so yeah i wont fight with guys about "ohh girls are better" but yeah if girls do say that their better and try to fight, their immature.
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