At school...im popular, but im kind of ugly. i like boys but they dont like me back more than a friend. At dances im afraid to ask boys to dance and they never ask me. I'm not afraid of dancin with them i'm just afraid if they'll say yes or no. It's the same reason why i dont ask boys to go out with me or something. To top it off, im at a brand new school this year and i dont really know what they would say, if they're like the boys at my old school or not. What should I do?
Tones_15 answered Saturday January 8 2005, 10:40 pm: You should take it easy, get settled down forst and make friends first. Then get to know whose goin with who and who u like, after that then get talking to the guys. But dont get to friendly, jus talk to them and make passing comments bout liking them more than friend, but dont dwell on it youll scare them away. Just wait a little while and then ask him through a letter or get a friend to do it. Wots the worse that could happen seriously, he could say no but theres plenty more fish in the sea.. Rejections hard... hell i've wrote the book on it! But its life and you just gotta keep trying, no point trying once and sayin f** it! Keep going, give them a reason to like you other than looks and you should get a good man.. If all a man looks for are looks then hes not much of a man.
hope i helped
anthony [ Tones_15's advice column | Ask Tones_15 A Question ]
russianspy1234 answered Saturday January 8 2005, 10:33 pm: any even moderately attractive girl can get a guy jsut by asking him out/asking him to dacne. realyl jsut go to a guy and tisk it wahts the worst taht could happen? hell say know and then youll be in the same palce you are now expet you dont have to wonder [ russianspy1234's advice column | Ask russianspy1234 A Question ]
Karen answered Saturday January 8 2005, 10:33 pm: Just ask some people around and find out what they say. Do't worry, who cares about looks! Guys will say yes. Just take a chance and ask them! Hope I helped :)
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RubbaDucky answered Saturday January 8 2005, 10:30 pm: start to talk to people and ask your self what were some qualitys people liked at my old school.your only kepping yourself from enjoing life.my grandfather say "These are the best years of your life dont hold back."so go ask guys out and tell them their hot dont hold back
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XbleweyedtearsX answered Saturday January 8 2005, 10:27 pm: Just ask them! You never know! You might be turned down a couple times but not always! And don't say you are ugly! I'm sure you aren't. If you don't ask someone out or to dance or something you may never know if they actually like you or not.. hope i helped and good luck :) [ XbleweyedtearsX's advice column | Ask XbleweyedtearsX A Question ]
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