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boy trouble
ok...there is this guy at my school and i like him alot...my friends told me he thinks im hot and they all think he likes me...during lunch he looks at me all the time and whenever im talking to people, he'll come up and sit next to me..hes a pretty shy person, its not like he jumps all over me, but ive noticed that he stares and always tires to be next to me...the only problem is that he is already going out with someone...she doesnt go to our school, and he never talks about her..when we first met, i was talking to him and we crossed the b/f, g/f subject and he didnt say anything about his g/f. i found this out through my friend...i really like him and im not sure what to do...since your a guy, you probably know what hes thinking...HELP!!
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Ok, I think its pretty clear that he likes you. Now, as to what he is thinking basically it can be one of three things as I see it. On the one hand he could be really confused because he really likes you and doesnt know what to do. Perhaps he still has feelings for his gf and is trying to come to terms with the new feelings he has for you. The second option is that he is not confused but rather is trying to make sure he can get you before he dumps his gf (many many guys think like this). The third option is that he is planning to play you both in some way (unfortunately plenty of guys think like this too). Now, you are clearly in a better position than me to make a judgment of character on this guy. However, I would shoot for option 1 as being very likely based solely on your question info. The fact that he is shy is usually a good sign. Anyway, why not proceed as if you dont know, go out with him if thats what you want, but have your friend keep you updated on his gf situation. Then if things look like they might get serious between you and he hasnt dumped her, you know that theres something wrong. Anyways best of luck to you and drop me a note if you resolve this.
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LoL, so he is shy.. so maybe this "GF" who doesnt go to this school doesnt exist.. maybe.. he is trying to see if you are interested.. see how you act if you think he has a girlfriend.. be flirty.. give him the impression you like him.. wink at him.. smile at him... eventually he will talk to you about it.. if he doesnt.. talk to him about it!! hehe
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