Ok heres my question: I'm so sorry if it's confusing. Let's say your sister(if you have one) has a friend from school that's a guy and she sees him everyday when he's there and he calls her once in a while and talks to her on the phone. Well, what would you do if one night you and your sister's friend started talking on the phone and really started to like each other? Then what if he asked you out? Would you go out with him even though you have never seen what he looks like?
xASH answered Sunday January 16 2005, 3:30 pm: No i probaly wouldn't go out with him. Not because i wouldn't know what he looked like, but because i personally i wouldn't want to go out with my sister's friends. that could potentially cause some unwanted drama [ xASH's advice column | Ask xASH A Question ]
chelseaw285 answered Sunday January 16 2005, 1:55 pm: I would meet him first. You already got to know him, so you obviously like him for his personality. But I would meet him in person anyway before I said yes
sohojules26 answered Sunday January 16 2005, 9:35 am: If your paranoid, you may want to see him before. But i doubt you are, so you probably dont need to. You may want to meet up eith him first, just for safety reasons=) ♥ Julia [ sohojules26's advice column | Ask sohojules26 A Question ]
S_C answered Sunday January 16 2005, 8:38 am: Does he mean boyfriend/girlfriend, or just like a blind date. A lot of my friends have had funny blind dates, but if that's all then it's worth a try. Unless of course your sister likes him. Just be like I'm not sure yet, can I call you back. Or something like that. My sister had a friend like that, expect I knew him. But I just thought he was kind of cute, he goes to a different school, and he reads my column so if he sees this he'll probably know I liked him up until a while ago, but whatever. But like my sister never liked him like that so if anything wouldn've happened (yeah right) I probably would've said yes. But ummm, check with your sister and see how she feels about it. If she says she doesn't like the idea, but to go ahead and try then do that, if she says no way then it's probably for a reason so don't. And if she says sure it'd be cool, then have her invite him over so ya'll can talk some more. (just so you can find out if you like him really, and to find out what he looks like, and to see if your sister is trying to pull a prank on you and he's really some smelly, rude, ugly guy. Good luck! [ S_C's advice column | Ask S_C A Question ]
Tones_15 answered Sunday January 16 2005, 8:25 am: I wouldnt! Think of it, do you really want to sell youre sister out?! I mean youre family are youre loyal friends and you should(even though sometimes you think you shouldnt) hold them the closest. And think that guy might only go with you for a while then dump you,whereas youre sister wont, but i doubt she'll be in the mood for talking to you if you sold her out. The best way is if you think you really like this guy, is to talk to youre sister and drop hints about her liking this guy and that.. And if you find out that she only likes him as a good friend then go ahead and meet the guy and take it from there. If of course she does like him then hang back and grit youre teeth. Because just remember.... BLOODS THICKER THN WATER! [ Tones_15's advice column | Ask Tones_15 A Question ]
lildiamyn_69 answered Sunday January 16 2005, 4:59 am: well if he's good enough for your sister he's good enough for you. but wouldn't you rather meet him to see what he's really about? I would not go out with him, but keep a close friendship with him.
If you dont see him, how can you know if this guy is cheating? [ lildiamyn_69's advice column | Ask lildiamyn_69 A Question ]
White_Cross_Angel answered Sunday January 16 2005, 2:47 am: Blind date eh? Give it a try, go to the movies with him and a friend (at least 2 others this is for security reasons {stalkers are scary}) If he turns out to be a nice guy go for it. But if he does seem creepy, let him off easy ("I think we should be friends" works fine).
As for your sister, it sounds like they are just friends. She should be fine. [ White_Cross_Angel's advice column | Ask White_Cross_Angel A Question ]
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