I am the White-Cross Angel, please call me Cloud! I love to help people and give advice to those who want or need it. I will do my best to help you and if you want to have a talk with me please feel free to email me or YIM me!
~Cloud A.K.A. White Cross Angel
Website: Ask The White Cross Angel
E-mail: JourdanLS@sbcglobal.net
Gender: Female
Location: Independence, Missouri
Occupation: Student
Age: 16
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Member Since: October 29, 2004
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Last Update: February 11, 2005
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i have a friend that copies everything i do and I HATE IT!!! but somtimes we have fun and somtimes we absoultly hate eachother!
what should i do
sgined jealous? (link)
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Ask yourself, do you really hate it or do you enjoy the attention? It sounds like she sees you as a person to look up to, and want to be just like you. If it bothers you that much, tell her.
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I have been going out with my boyfriend for 6 months now and we havent done anything more than hold hands and hug. THe reason why i am affraid to go any further is because i am affraid that he is going to judge me because i have never made out with any body or anything, and he has. I am just scared i am not going to be able to do it right. What should i do?
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Look at it like this, if the guy you are with is really in love with you, then he won’t care if you are an inexperienced kisser. Just try and maybe he’ll even offer to teach you the ropes.
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Last year i went to this valentines day dance. my best friend had a girlfriend and i didnt and i felt like a "tag-along". he has so many girls that like him and i think it might happen again this year. i was thinking that i might try to ask someone too but i dont really like anyone so i dont have anyone to ask. I was just going to find someone that i liked a little bit and ask her but im not sure. Should i ask somebody or should i go alone like last year? What should i do? Please help. (link)
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Ask the girl, if you like he, even just a little bit, go for it. You may find you like this person more than you thought.
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Does anyone know of some good ways to make money? Im 14 and I can't babysit because there aren't any kids in my neighborhood. I can't seem to find any ways to make some money. (link)
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If your parents have any friends with kids, ask them. Babysitting is a good way to get money. Just be sure you know basic first id if you do. CPR and the Heimlich is good to know too.
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I never really wear make-up, because I don't think it looks good on me at all. Does anyone know of any colors I should be using or colors that would look good on me? I have black hair and brown eyes, and I have very white skin. (link)
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pale colors to compliment your skin, when you hav pale skin and darker hair, it's best not to go any darker than a pale pink. I know... I can't go too dark either cuz I'm so pale.
Good luck!
Cloud
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okay i have a problem, but its not mine, its my friends. my friend has been talking to this person on AOL instant messanger for about a week. let's call my friend Bob and let's call who he's been talking to Mary (not real names) Bob is one of my BEST friends in the whole world. he tells me that Mary and him are really getting along and that she always says how she loves him, even though they've only been talking for a week. he isnt sure if he's scared of her or anything, but he told me that he thinks she's sort of like a stalker and you know stuff like that. theres two ways he can go about letting her go:
1) just telling her to stop being so obessive
2) be a jerk and maybe she'll stop liking him
he doesnt want to do #1 because it would most likely hurt her a lot. but i dont think he should do #2 because thats dishonest and mean. please help!!! what should he do?
thanks so much!! and if you have anyother questions, ask me and i'll give you my email (link)
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If this Mary starts to get creepy, block her. It could get ugly, so have Bob give her an explanation first. I know for a fact Internet relationships rarely work out.
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I just dyed my hair medium brown and I really like it. How do I keep the color from fading? Are there any special shampoos or techniques I should follow? (link)
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There are special shampoos you can buy to make color last longer, and dying your hair when you start to see roots will make it look good longer.
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Okay, well I'll tell you what I ate first(yesterday), for breakfast I had a muffin(8am), and about 5:20pm (at a basketball game) I had some M&M's and a rescee cup, and for dinner(7ish maybe 7:10) I went to wendy's and got chicken strips but instead of fries I got a ceaser side salad. Well I felt perfectly fine until after using their ranch dressing on my salad and was joking around like gosh I probably got food poisening because I had a small stomachache, and today I woke up early and was super sick. I went to bed at 11, I woke up at 5 sick to my stomache, and I haven't been able to get to sleep since (it's now 8:15.) And I was wondering, the last time I was "sick" (throwing up) was at 7:11. I wanted to know am I just sick or could it have been something I ate? The only thing that's going around is mono and I haven't kissed anyone lately. Also how long should I wait until I eat, and what can I eat. (like crackers, or toast, or something like that) and how long should I wait until I get something to drink? I have gingerale and I have water. I usually drink gingerale and I usualy make it really fizzy and drink it VERY slowly through a straw. Is that okay? I'm kind of worried because my mom is asleep still, my dad is at work, and I figure I'm 14, & 10-15 years from now I'll have to deal with sick kids and right now I want to know how to take care of myself. I'll probably ask my mom when she wakes up, but I don't want to wake her up because I know that all she'll tell me is to put mats down so I don't barf on anything and to always have a bucket with me (I'm not stupid) and like should I try to stay away from my brother and sister, I don't want them to get anything. Also, I was supposed to go to a 12:05 showing of a movie, should I just stay home and see it next weekend?
Well, thanks for the help and sorry for the length. And sorry if it's confusing. (link)
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If your at the point of throwing up, don't go. It sounds like typical food poisoning. You may need to call your parents and have someone take you to a doctor. Eat something bland, plain toast is good, rice is good too. Clear sodas and other liquids are good too. Avoid coke, it makes things worse. AND CALL YOUR PARENTS if you devolop a fever. Call them now since you are throwing up. This could be serious, don't take it lightly.
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i dont usually wear make up but when i do it's always messed up! how can i put it on better and what should i use? (link)
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ASk your mother, worked for me.
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Ok heres my question: I'm so sorry if it's confusing. Let's say your sister(if you have one) has a friend from school that's a guy and she sees him everyday when he's there and he calls her once in a while and talks to her on the phone. Well, what would you do if one night you and your sister's friend started talking on the phone and really started to like each other? Then what if he asked you out? Would you go out with him even though you have never seen what he looks like? (link)
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Blind date eh? Give it a try, go to the movies with him and a friend (at least 2 others this is for security reasons {stalkers are scary}) If he turns out to be a nice guy go for it. But if he does seem creepy, let him off easy ("I think we should be friends" works fine).
As for your sister, it sounds like they are just friends. She should be fine.
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Aight well i have this friend and she used to like this guy named jeff. Well jeff asked her out but recently just told her he liked me more and bragged about me and soo forth. Well she said no and broke jeff's heart. Well now jeff is madly in love with me and he wants to go out with me. And now my friend is starting to like jeff a little more also. I really want to go out with jeff, but is it okay that i go out with someone my best friend has previsouly liked i don't know but i really want jeff.... But again i don't want to end our relationship...
Sincerely,
Loved friend (link)
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You want to stop and think. Who's more important,your friend or a guy. In my opinion, your friend is more important. It's like anunwritten law of friends. Do not date someone your friend previously dated UNLESS that friend says they don't mind. Then it's okay.
PS I recently went through this with a friend of mine and her ex who had dumped her cuz he had a crush on me. I said no, for the sake of my friend.
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i was laying on my bed and out of nowhere..my left leg started to have a really sharp pain and i can't walk right now. it's right at the back of my leg right below my knee. what could of happened? i played 10 hrs. of volleyball today - could that be the cause? (link)
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Sounds like a Charlie Horse. It happens when you over work your leg. Try to put some pressure on it(Try rubbing it really hard in the area it hurts). It works for me when I play too much DDR!
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Ok theres a guy in school who I like, His name is Jake. Hes a grade younger than me. Well Jake rides my bus, everyone thinks he likes me, and I get hugs and he tells me he loves me. But when hes around his friends (most are mine as well) he doesn't act the same. And there are some days where he doesn't even talk to me in the hall. My question is : is it possible that sometimes he is in a bad mood, or are most guys like this? or does he just not like me.
by the way 14/f .... hes 14 as well but still in a grade below. (link)
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It's understandable that a guy is different around other guys. Usually (judging by the age) he's trying to be macho because he wants to impress his friends. He may think that being nice to you will make his friends think differently about him. It's an awkward age. It may take a while, but eventually he'll act the same around everyone. For better or for worse.
(And no, your question isn't that long)
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ok, there's this guy that I like...and he (for sure) likes me...and it seems like he is dropping hints on asking me out...like (this is kinda long) he asked me how I acted with the guys at my school (he's in 9th i'm in 8th)I don't rub up all over them and that they grab my butt etc...and then the other night on the fone (he calls me normally on a daily basis) he suddenly forgot wut he was going to say and he was like "it could have been about me and u..."and then another time he was like ' know for sure now that stuff is going to happen between us and I was like stuff??? sooo...does this mean he wants to ask me out...or...wut??? (link)
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I think it definatly does
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I have taken an overdoes bcoz of my exs engagement. I hated being in hospital. And i promised my mum i'd never do it again but resently ive felt low enough too. i dont know how to stop myself. my life is spining outa control what am i gona do? (link)
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You need to tell someone that can get you help... a therapist is a good way to start. Don't go and kill yourself, it's not a good idea. There is so much to live for. If you tell a counselor or a therapist or someone in that area, the will help you.
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ok well i seem to get into major fights with my brother which then leads to my parents! and the fights are usually me ending up really hurt! today was one of them! i got beat in the head by my 18 eyar old brother and my parents said i deserved it. and i had major panic attack because i was hit so hard! so my mom says she cares about me.. but then says she hates me and that i need to go to hell and blah blah blah! and my brother gets away with everything! he was told to leave the truck keys here, and he didnt and didnt get in trouble. and he steals a lot of stuff from me and my parents, and continues to get what he wants! i have told my mom several times what is happening and she does not believe anything i say and does not think i am right! and it always ends up with me hit some way some how! i am only 15. and my brother is on probation, but drinks underage and smokes pot alot. i dont know how to handle this anymore, and if i try to leave i will get the cops called on me by my parents! i am ONLY 15, getting literally emotionally and physically abused by my family! i have called the cops on my family but it seems to do no good, b/c they do not help me! please, if anyone is out there that is a mother or a father or someone that could help me! please.. i need something to help me deal with this situation! =( please, help me (link)
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THis is a major problem. If your parents aren't doing anything about your 18-year-old brother beating you and it's causing you to have a panic attack (which I know isn't fun) you need to tell a counselor at school or someone of authority there. If you are in danger of getting seriously hurt you need to go to someone and do that soon. You don't want to end up seriously hurt.
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What do I do when my anger is so built up that I feel I could hurt my friends with the pain of it all? (link)
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You need to find some way to relieve your anger. Try doing thing to relax you. Reading a funny book, or taking a nap helps me, and I sometimes talk to others about my anger (I recommend someone you're not angry at).
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Im on this site as in advice giver but obviously i cant take my own advice, im just not good at it.. i just need to know how to deal with my sexual life. Im a bisexual, and it is out to most people (i only tell people i trust) i feel that i cant tell anyone else because some people already hate me and think that just because im a girl i have to like guys, but thats not what i choose, i like both sexes. And i dont want anyone else to hate me forever because of what i choose to do with my life. Most of my real friends except that im bi and dont mind bein around me, but others who dont except it, make sure other dont either, or they make dirty looks, or say and do terrible things to me. I try to say that im not bi anymore so that i dont have to be humilliated by my peers. I just dont know what to do anymore, but i dont want people to hate me for my sexual life, it doesnt seem right, is there anyone who can help me? (link)
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People who care about you shouldn't care what your sexual life is like. I'm bisexual and pretty much all my friends and inner family knows, but if someone says your a freak or weird or 'going to hell for sinning' or any of that shit, ignore them. If you're really in love with someone, then go for it and don't let anything stop you!
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Ok well, for Halloween I'm being Samara from The Ring. I have everything, i just need to find a white long, worn out, dress. Does anyone have any ideas where i could find one? thnx
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Thrift stores are the best way to go to find odd types of things you wouldn't normally find. Try that.
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do u people think its weird if ur a girl and tell a gurl u luv dem like when they are about 2 get offline? cuz my friend online who is lez said dat 2 me and i said it bak cuz i have known her 4 a while and she is like 1 of my best friends. is there sumthin wrong with that?cuz now that i think about it it kinda seems weird i juss said it witout thinkin.
much luv people!!
holla
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Nothing wrong with it at all. I say a simple I love you to my best friend everytime we get off the phone at night. Though you may want to ask her if she has any feelings for you, and ask yourself if you'd mind.
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