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AFFRAID!
I have been going out with my boyfriend for 6 months now and we havent done anything more than hold hands and hug. THe reason why i am affraid to go any further is because i am affraid that he is going to judge me because i have never made out with any body or anything, and he has. I am just scared i am not going to be able to do it right. What should i do?
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h0ney, trust me theres n0 wr0ng way t0 kiss.. unless y0u m0ve y0ur t0ngue everywhere and all 0ver the 0utside 0f his m0uth..thats just weird.
♥aMbi
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When at first you make out just pay attention to what he does, then do it to him. Everyone feels that way before the first time but there is nothing to it.
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dont worry i was the same way! It doesnt matter, if he really lvoes you and wants to be with you, it shouldnt matter!!!
you dont have to do anything to stay togehter, once you start doing stuff, its okay for a while, but then the relationship relys on it. its HORRIBLE!!!!!!!
you {obviously} dont have to do stuff to stay togehter!
:)
Hope I helped!!!
God Bless!
Kels**
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Has he ever tried to kiss you?
Assuming he has, and that in the past you've pulled back and said no, next time he does try and kiss you let him. Really, kissing is a lot easier than you'd think
I used to be the same way- my bf's ex is what I'd call a slut. So when I started dating my bf, I was afraid he'd compare me to her (he was my first kiss) But I was so wrong! He loves the way I kiss, and we're both baffled as to how it works out so good.
And it's true... if he truly likes you, then he won't judge you on this.
And if he's never tried to kiss you in the 6 months you've been dating, well than that makes me think that there's something wrong with this boy. So you should go for it and kiss him!
Or don't, if you're not comfortable with it. Never do anything with a boy that you're uncomfortable with.
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if he judges you just because of that, then he isn't good enough for you. if you want to, practice with a mirror or on your hand or something...i know,i know sounds nasty but it works! hope i helped! and confidence is the key!
xoxo *MiZZ niCoLe LYnn*
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Kissing and/or making out is easy. Just pucker your lips(far away from your teeth) right before you lean in, and just do it! But, never be pressured into anything you don't want to do.
"A kiss blown is a kiss wasted, the only real kiss, is a kiss tasted!"
-Hope I helped!-
<*>bUtTeRfLiEs<*>
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just go along with what he does and the thing about the kissing you cant really mess up on that.
It will only feel special if you want it to happen, but if you dont than you might want to wait and tell him that your still not ready. Although you might want to start the kissing that way he will know that you want something serious with him.
-poopiepantsgirly*
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go along with what he does.. dont think about it.. jus do what he does..most likey he wont care..and its kinda hard to mess up with kissing..and you might wanna do something like that soon or your realtionship might get old.. with jus holding hands.. but jus do what he do and have fun best of luck to you also..much luv
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don be scared. hell like you besides that tidbit. so just go for it if you want to.
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hEy hUn! dont worry about it... sounds like your worried because your lack of experience... honestly before my first "make out session" LoL i was terrified... but as much as you might not believe me.. kissing comes so naturally... the first time it might seem a little awkward... but how do you know you dont know how 2 kiss if you never have?! :) don't strangle him with your tounge... dont keep your eyes open... watch out for his teeth... lol stuff im sure you've heard dozens of times before! gOOd luck BaBe!
xOxO, aLeX
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Look at it like this, if the guy you are with is really in love with you, then he won’t care if you are an inexperienced kisser. Just try and maybe he’ll even offer to teach you the ropes.
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don't worry about it.
when i first statred dating my b/f i had never made out either. when you think you are ready to kiss him, go for it. its nice if you ask or give a hint. my b/f asked me and it went fine. you just got to let it happen. you'll never know what will happen if it never happens.
and if he judges you, you got to let him know that the "making-out thing" is new. hopefully he'll understand.
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aw since ya'll have been going out for six months i would think that you'd be able to trust him enough to know he won't judge you over that! i'm sure he loves you and wouldn't care if you aren't an expert at making out! let him know and he can help you if he's really sweet like that!
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Making out with someone isnt that hard. Just let him make the first move and you just follow its really just that simple.
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just go with it, or fuck him, your choice.
-hitler
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There is really no way to kiss, what I did, is I got him really wanting to know why I wouldn't go any further, tease him, be like, I want to tell you something, but I am not sure if you will still want to go out with me, things like that, then finally after you have had enough of him begging, tell him, everybody that I told has understood, or they haven't made out with anyone either. my last boyfriend (lasted for like 3 months) understood and even kissed me, didn't even complain that I was nervous and stuff. I hope that I helped a little bit, if you want, Email me and tell me how it goes, or if you have any questions, ask me: HaLlWaYfIeStA44@ev1.net
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Aw hun, everyones scared, especailly if it's their first time and they don't want to screw up. You guys been together for 6 months, doesn't that tell you something? Most guys, if they don't get any kind if skin within a month, they dump the girl. This guy seems to really care about you and is happy with taking it slow, he just wants you to be 100% ready. Don't be scared about not doing it right or what he thinks, just go with a flow and it will come naturally. He'll probably just take the lead so just go with what he does. You'll be scared the first couple of kisses or two, but once you get the hang of it, you'll start to enjoy it more.
♥ Krissy
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first of all, just take it at your own speed. then when you are ready, just go slowly. kiss slowly, and be sure to do it softly, and move your tongue around lightly and gently. i'm not sure if that helps at all, but i really hope it does.
*~KaYlA~*
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