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i have a friend that copies everything i do and I HATE IT!!! but somtimes we have fun and somtimes we absoultly hate eachother!
what should i do
sgined jealous?
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your friend totally looks up to you... i have a sister thats 2 years older... and i used to copy eveything she did/wore/said... eTc... of course the person is going to get annoyed... but it was because i looked up to her so much... i used to want to be her! its a definate compliment... but everybody wants to be an original... and not have somebody copy them constantly... politely tell her that you think she shoudl be the unique individual she is! (adding compliments will help you! LoL) dont let it ruin your friendship over something silly... confront her... and if she acts bitchy.. then maybe that "friend" is your friend after all... good luck hun!
xOxO, aLeX
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Ask yourself, do you really hate it or do you enjoy the attention? It sounds like she sees you as a person to look up to, and want to be just like you. If it bothers you that much, tell her.
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Do something you dont normally do and if she copy's you then confront her and tell her you really like her but her copying you is really annoying.
~ANGE
*~respect yourself~*
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tell her off
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friends will have their ups and downs.. but if you absolutely can't stand her anymore, then the friendship won't work! trust me, don't force yourself to be her friend if you really don't want to be! i'm sure you can find a better friend, and i'm sure there will be atleast one person in your life who will copy you and there's really nothing you can do about it! sorry!
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play chicken with a train and hope that their reaction time is slower
-hitler
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tell her that she needs to get her own identity and not be just like you but she can do sumthings like you tell her how u feel
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tell your friend how you feel. tell her it's okay to copy you sometimes, but no all the time because you need to be your own person just as she does. but look on the bright side, at least she admires you!
Hope i helped!*~KaYlA~*
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I used to have a friend that would copy me also. She always asked where I bought my clothes and how I did my make up and so on. If your friend is just like my old one, then don't tell her anything. You need to talk to your friend and tell her that you don't like it when she copies you. She may get mad at first but you sort of need evidence to back yourself up. If she's your friend, then she should understand and will stop. Hope I helped :)
-Karen
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