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I need Sexual advice
Im on this site as in advice giver but obviously i cant take my own advice, im just not good at it.. i just need to know how to deal with my sexual life. Im a bisexual, and it is out to most people (i only tell people i trust) i feel that i cant tell anyone else because some people already hate me and think that just because im a girl i have to like guys, but thats not what i choose, i like both sexes. And i dont want anyone else to hate me forever because of what i choose to do with my life. Most of my real friends except that im bi and dont mind bein around me, but others who dont except it, make sure other dont either, or they make dirty looks, or say and do terrible things to me. I try to say that im not bi anymore so that i dont have to be humilliated by my peers. I just dont know what to do anymore, but i dont want people to hate me for my sexual life, it doesnt seem right, is there anyone who can help me?
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People who care about you shouldn't care what your sexual life is like. I'm bisexual and pretty much all my friends and inner family knows, but if someone says your a freak or weird or 'going to hell for sinning' or any of that shit, ignore them. If you're really in love with someone, then go for it and don't let anything stop you!
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Hi, I think I can give you some insight to your question coming form a straight woman. You shouldn't care what everyone else thinks. You are your own person with your own dis-like, wants, and sexual prefrences. You life your life for YOU not anyone else. You dont owe anyone a damn thing. You do what makes you happy.
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Sometimes people are just ignorant. There will always be people who don't like you no matter what the situation. It is just a fact of life. I have had people hate me for no reason I could figure out. Just believe that is it their problem and not yours.
Being bi is a little harder because there are more people who react to that negatively. I am not sure what business it is of theirs anyway what you do with your sex life. It helps if you just believe in yourself and have self confidence. Focus on your talents and good points. Remember it is their problem for not liking you. You are who you are.
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First of all, don't listen to that person who said God wouldn't approve. How would she know? Isn't God the one who made you the way you are? You didn't choose to be the bi anymore than I chose to be straight. You are what you are. God gave us free will, and he doesn't make mistakes.Be yourself, and find people that can respect you for who you are. Maybe there are others like you. Anyways, it's your life, and nobody can life it for you.
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Who cares what other people think? Be with people who accept you for who you are and don't care if your bi. If it's people who aren't your friends just ignore them. If you feel uncomfortable of people making fun of you,you should talk to an adult. I know what this feels like.People in my school call me and my friends "the odd squad" just because we love nature and animals and are often not wearing the most fashionable clothes because we happen to be going in the woods straight after school.I wear hiking boots every day!!
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Be who you are, I know it sucks to be treated different for something that you cannot changes, but its not worth changing this part of you just to please others. So be yourself it will be hard but once you can accept the fact that they have the problem you can sooner stop caring that tease you, or just remove yourself from the situation.
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well for one god made adam and eve not adam and adam or eve and eve you only like or have sex with the opposite sex from you now if thats want you wanna be a bi well be it noone is stopping you but just know that god wont except that and neither will your peers noone doesnt want to hang out with a bi especially if their not one and you shouldnt tell people about your personal life because that might take it the wrong way like now. ok
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Firstly, NEVER be ashamed of who you are. Being bisexual is NOTHING to be ashamed of, and the people who tell you otherwise only do so because they don't understand it- that's how it goes with kids, if you don't get it you have to attack it. You said that most of your real friends accept that you're bi - then who the hell else matters? If you're happy liking both sexes, it doesn't matter what anyone else thinks.
As for being bullied, that's not acceptable in any shape or form. Tell someone you trust (a teacher, a parent), and get that sorted out. If you don't want to go to a teacher, just hold your head up high and ignore them. *Hug* I hope everything works out for you, and these ignoramuses stop annoying you :)
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People shouldnt care what you are but there are some crazy people in the world. Just because u like different sex as they do u like both whats wrong with that.Most doctors say that everyone in there life is going to try a sexual thing with the same sex so when they r older or maybe now they think what if i was with a girl or a guy i wonder what it would be like. You should care what other people think of you as long as your, yourself and ur freinds except it i wouldnt worry about anything else.If they would make fun of me i would do something about it go to a teacher or adlut at your school and tell but you dont have to tell them that your bi if you want to you can. I hope i have helped u sorry if i didnt.
-Jess
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