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People say that i am funny and fun to be around. I am fun to hang out with but i do give great advice when my friends r down when there boyfriend breaks up with them.I know when to stop actin crazy and get 4 real.
Gender: Female
Location: Texas
Occupation: student
Age: 14
Yahoo: afcowgirl08@yahoo.com
Member Since: March 19, 2004
Answers: 29
Last Update: April 9, 2004
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My boyfriend has a bent penis it bends to the right he has had a bit of trouble getting it in
and hes a bit insecure about it should i say something ? I don't want to make him feel bad
and do a lot of guys have a bent penis? (link)
u should talk about it to him and see whats up b/c i am sure if he loves u enough to have sex with u then he wont mind talking about it and if there is a problem then i would have him checked out i am sure u dont want anything to happen to u
hope it works out okay


im 16 and my penis is 6 inches long and i am
uncircumcised does that matter to girls? (link)
The girls your with should be happy with half of a foot i know i would be but your 16 so you have alot of growing to do still so when you get older and see that you will have a big dick so be happy with what you have. No it really doesnt matter but every girl is very different.....hopefully u will find someone that doesnt care about your package!!!!!
-Jess


I am 16 and my penis is only 4 inches long
and me and my girlfriend have try to have sex
but i can't get an erection is it the size
that's the problem im not sure what to do. (link)
Maybe the size is a little 2 small and maybe you should wait till it grows a little more. Ask your girlfriend if it is to small and see what she says. But to me your 2 young and its 2 small. what do u mean by try i dont get that do u put it in her vagina or do you not ? e-mail me on anything else.
-Jess


My boyfriend and i are 17 and when we try to have
sex he can't fit his penis in the first couple of
times he went limp just before and he is
really self conscious about his penis size and im not sure what to do i don't want to make him more
insecure any suggestions? (link)
I dont know what is wrong maybe its b/c that ur vagina is not ready so its rejecting and thing that u put in there i am not sure on this one sorry. Jess


I like this boy but i am in 8th grade and he is in 6th grade is he to young to go out with? he is real nice and cute and he is soupose to be in 7th. i really want to go out w/ him but is he to young?

Female
age 14 going on 15 (link)
I think i know who this but i am not sure yet but if u like him that much u should go out with him and dont worry about age i went out with a 6th grader and i am in 8th there is nothing wrong u really like him then go out with him.


Lately, my friend and I have been arguing about a stupid thing. I dont want her to be angry or upset with me anymore, i just want to be cool with her. Sometimes i think she even trys her best. But can someone please help me?

(especially jessica)

signed- crystal (link)
Well since i know that this is to me i do wanna work things out and no i wasnt going to kill myself over something crazy like that and y were u going to say that if we ever got in another fight would u tell everyone about what i said? if i wasnt going to be ur friend ever again would u say that about me? just e-mail me
-Jess


My best friend is like getting really annoying to me, and sometimes i like her and sometimes i don't. I don't know if she should be my bestfriend anymore, cause she get's on my nerves, but I have said I don't want to be her best friend about like 4 times and I don't want to say it again. But she told me we have to secretly be best friends because she told some of my other friends that her mom said that she shouldn't have best friends. And my best friend told me she doesn't want our friends talking about her behing her back.. What should i do. answer please asap!! (link)
Just tell her that you dont wanna be friends or best friends because if you wanna be my best friend your mom needs to know. Also I think that your annoying to me so dont call me or talk to me then wait for her to start crying and say sorry and walk away. Then she is going to think that her mom was right not to have a best friend and she wont talk to you anymore. Hope it helps.
-Jess


Dear Jess
im 14 and my boyfriend keeps asking me to give
him a blow job the problem is when he gets
aroused his penis gets quite big and i can't
do it is there anything you could suggest
that would help. (link)
hey well glad ya came to me well it is going to get big thats what always happens. They get happy there is nothing you can really do anything about it.


I need help. I am going through a lot at this time of my age. My parents are at the edge of getting divorced, school is getting very difficult and the problem is my whole entire family is counting on me( i am have a extremely very big family).. I have my whole life planed out such as my carreers and the steps i will be taking. so much is going through my mind and i really need some to trust and talk to not only for a day. Any suggestions.
P.S. i have even bigger problems than this and i am only 13. (link)
The conluser at your school is there everyday to help out kids even you. All have to do id ask the teacher to go. Maybe you can talk to one of your teachers and they are also there to help everyday thats there job to make you feel okay and in place and the number one thing is to make you get the best education. hope i helped
-jess


There is this kid that i babysit..he is very difficylt to babysit and i wish i would get more money for babysitting him... i only get 20 dollars a day should i approach the mom and ask for more or keep my job and stay at the same amount? (link)
You should be happy most people dont even get that much i only get 25 a week and i get 20 everyday i would take your job any day. Stay at your rate and if it gets to difficult and you feel like you need more money ask them 4 a little more. I hope you get more money we all need it.
-JeSs


My parents smoke pot and I've always known that but I have been taught in school that POT IS BAD. I want them to stop but I'm afraid to tell them. Is it really that bad?
~gir with pothead parents~ (link)
Just ask your parents what they are smoking. Then ask them to please stop what if my teaacher comes over and your smoking pot she would call the cops and then they would get BUSTED. Then you wont have to worry about that anymore.


These dreams go on when I close my eyes
Every second of the night I live another life. i swear im living another life but these dreams seem so completley REAL! i feel lik in supposed to be in a diffrent world or place could these dreams come true?? also i think or dream about stuff one day and it comes true the next day and i already saw it the night before this only happens once in a while though?? what is going on help!!!! (link)
I dont know what is going on but i have the same thing when i close my eyes and then i start dreaming about the next day. Then its the next day and when i go to school everyone is wearing what i saw in my dream that night i am not joking either. Sometimes i can tell people like warn them but i cant tell them what is really going to happen like something is going on and they dont want me to tell until it really happens. PLEASE let me know when you find out what is going on and i know we wont be able to take test because we dream about and if we take the test now we will fail???? keep me posted


whats a vibrator? (link)
Its a guy penis but it is plastic and it moves when ya turn it on. Its so a girl that doesnt get any sex or just uses it for FUN they put it in there vagina.


i have a problem with my weight. people in my school make fun of me. what should i do? (link)
Dont let people put you down like that. Be proud of who you are. People just put you down because they are scared of something or they have a problem and they cant take it out on anyone at home so they bring there anger to school with and take it out on people that arent like them.


Hey yall,

First of all I want to thank all the people who helped me with my last question.I loved the advice.Thank you!

Ok my next question is about me and my bestfriend.
My bestfriend means alot to me, I mean i've know her for 4 years but.Recently she moved away from my neighborhoo,and not in walking distance.So when she moved I started hanging out with my new next door friend.We now hang out all the time like me and my bestfried use to do before she moved.My bestfriend is now taking it as though i'm tryna replace her. But i'm not.I mean she said that she don't like the fact that i'm slowly replacing her and I need to choose who do I want to be friends with more.Who should I choose? My bestfriend or my close friend.Both of them mean alot to me. I'm confused!

Love Apple (link)
You should go with your heart my best friend is moving and its not in walking distance. I am going still hang out with her and also my other best friend. We are going to talk on the phone so....... what i am saying is pick the one that you can tell anything to and not worry about anyone else knowing about it. I now know who I going to pick the one thats not moving and i hope she reads this.


Is it good to be dating or having relation ship with a class mate of yours (link)
Yes its okay unless your a shy person and you dont like reading in front of people or people that you have a relationship with. But I would because you can have a reason to do to her/his house !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


Alright, I am a lesbian, and I am currently dating a girl. Everything is great and wonderful between us. We are starting to become a bit more sexualy active...like just playing around and stuff. Well, she can get me to, um..feel good, but I can't get her. She said I "did fine" but you know that basicly translates into "it was alright, but it could have been alot better" When we talked about it..she said maybe practicing on myself would help...But I tried, and I can't even get myself to, um..feel good! Any advice, or even a website I could go to, that may help?? (link)
Just have fun with it and tell that you just want to have fun and you need time to get it right. Keep practiceing on yourself and if it doesnt work just talk to her and I am sure that she will understand if yall are ment to be with each other. Just tell her that your not the best persone at doing stuff like this and its your first time. Just tell her to take it slow because you dont know what your doing.


About a month ago a friend of mine told me that she was seeing a girl. At the time I didn't think much about it but know I'm feeling a tad confused. I'd always thought of myself as straight but I think I've got a crush on her. This set me thinking hard enouh and on consideration I've realised that I find a whole bunch of other girls. I'm still definitely attracted to guys as well.

She thinks I'm straight as does everyone else. I don't know what I am or how I feel. She's got a girlfriend so it's not like I could make a move and experiment with her. What should I do? (link)
You should talk to her one on one and tell her what you feel if she is a true friend she will understand and because yall are friends maybe very good friends yall could experiment with each other and yall trust each other. Dont let the fact the she has a girlfriend change what you feel about her. They wont last that long but a friendship will. Just tell her and no one else.
-Jess
P.S. keep me posted


how many friken screenames's do you have anywayz? (link)
i have about 5 y do u care?


can u get pregnant without a boy's penis going into ur vagina.
(link)
no u cant if the guy put sperm in ur vagina u may get pregnant. if u gave a guy head u cant get pregnant
-Jess




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