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please help
I need help. I am going through a lot at this time of my age. My parents are at the edge of getting divorced, school is getting very difficult and the problem is my whole entire family is counting on me( i am have a extremely very big family).. I have my whole life planed out such as my carreers and the steps i will be taking. so much is going through my mind and i really need some to trust and talk to not only for a day. Any suggestions.
P.S. i have even bigger problems than this and i am only 13.
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If I were you I'd take a day off from everything. Fake illness or something to get a day off school (hopefully you'll get the house to yourself) then just take a day to relax, clear your head. And another thing, don't keep thinking about what your family want. At the end of the day you should make looking after yourself your top priority.
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oh my god, last year I was going through the exact same thing. After my parents divorced, my grades shot up, because stress lifted off my shoulders. Good luck to you
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first of all u just need one day maybe on the weekend or something and just relax you shouldn't be stressing out at your age. you'll be having gray haIR BY THE AGE OF 14 (lol)I KNOW YOU HAVE FRIENDS YOU CAN TALK TO A BEST FRIEND MAYBE.
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hey, you sound like your having a tough time of it hun!
Maybe you could take up a hobbie that will help take your mind off everything something you can do daily? maybe draw or write?
you family will understand if you talk to them about how hard school is getting and the pressure is on you and you could really do with having some fun and not having to stress about school and family.
i would really love to help you out and listen and hopefully help sort out your problems step by step?
if you fancy a chat get in touch!
kat xxx
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The conluser at your school is there everyday to help out kids even you. All have to do id ask the teacher to go. Maybe you can talk to one of your teachers and they are also there to help everyday thats there job to make you feel okay and in place and the number one thing is to make you get the best education. hope i helped
-jess
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I don't know if you have a church but sometimes youth ministers are good people to talk to.
It sounds like you believe that you have a lot of responsibility for every one else. Your family members probably can take care of themselves better than you give them credit for. Also, you can't take good care of others until you take care of yourself first, so try not to put yourself last.
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You need somebody who is far enough away from the problem to see it objectively, and who is not likely to contribute to your problems. Your best choice would be a school guidance counselor. These people are there to listen to you, and right now you need someone who will put you first. This isn't the kind of situation where your friends or dates might be able to help. Get the school guidance counselor, who might be able to offer you some tips on dealing with your family, dealing with stress, and good study skills so that you can make the study time you have more effective.
Good luck,
Jade
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Yeah, I know how that can feel. My parents argue at times, but I find it easier to write my feelings down or to talk to someone I can really
trust. You feel like you have something to prove to your family, and you have your life planned out. Having your life planned is a great thing ,
but feeling that you have to prove yourself to your family is half good and bad . You want them to be proud,but your family should love you always. Whether you prove or don't prove yourself to them . Your parents may get a divorce . Don't get the feeling that this may be a bad thing . The divorce may make your parents life easier .
The question is, will it make your life better?
It may relieve some stress you have in your life .
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Everyone may seem like there really counting on you btu everyone is goin through a hard time. when my parents divorced i almost got sent to a hospital for sucideal people and like awhole bunch of other stuff. life got really hard but im gettin through and talk bout it or write it out. and ur pillow can be ur best friend and it wont say a word. lol but u know try to live a lil u have only one life and its a short on(but its the longest thing u have). if ya wanna chat send me a message i could help you or maybe i can find someone who can
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