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I still love my X
I broke up with my boyfriend a year ago, because things were getting to physical between us, and Im young, but besides that we were perfect for each other,and our parents even liked each other, I loved him and He loved me. We broke up, I got a new boyfriend and I broke up with him, and I still love my first X. I want to tell him, talk to him but I am so scared that he will blow me off, and I dont even know how I would tell him if I did. HELP ME!!! Oh, I forgot to tell you,Im 14 and a girl
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i know how it is when you want a boy. well if he don't have a g-friend then just tell him how you feel about him. i don't think that he will blow you off. the only time that he would blow you off is if he talks bad about u. If he has a g-friend then he might be trying to make u jealous. Try to be his friend first like callhim on the phone and talk to him then if u get scared you can say that your mom is calling you. I think that if you tell him how you feel then most likely he feels that way to but boy's try to keep things inside. write me back and tell me how much do u 2 talk now or are you not even friends with him
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You might as well try to talk to him. I mean, even if he blows you off, you'll be no worse off than you are now, and at least you will have gotten it off your chest.
Does he understand the reason you broke up in the first place? If not, you should definitely explain it to him -- I'm sure it would make him feel better to know it wasn't anything that was wrong with him. If he does understand, then ask him if he would like to try dating again, but within whatever physical boundaries you're comfortable with. It might be less scary for you if, instead of coming right out and saying that you still love him (which is an awfully strong statement for a 14-year-old), you just begin by telling him you've missed him very much.
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Okie, if you two really loved each other, chances are you wouldn't have broken up. But I know that very few people will see it the way I do, so...sit down and talk to your ex. If he's nice and all that, he won't blow you off. As far as you telling him, just explain what happened. You two broke up, but your feelings for him never died. Don't bring the word "love" into the conversation - most guys cannot handle that. Good luck!
-Siren
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well if you love him just sit down with him
and tell him how you feel about him.
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All you need to tell him is not to move so fast.
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well if you still love him why in the world did you break up with him you cant tell him any thing.that will be so uncool you wait for him to come to you if doesnt dont go to him just forget it theirs no point for a second try because ya blew it with the first.
this is diane
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just sit down and talk take things slowly>
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Love is a special thing between two people. Ask your self do you really love him if you do then try to work things out between you two. Tell him to give you at least ten minutes to talk to him to tell him how you feel. If he still don't want to talk to him the hell with him then you deserve better. But if he love you he will listen to you.
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