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wats pms mean pleeeze help
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it means pre merital syndrome. what that means is you are nervous before you get married.


i am so confused how do my parents just get me one? signed (link)
have a talk with them askwhy you cant


I broke up with my boyfriend a year ago, because things were getting to physical between us, and Im young, but besides that we were perfect for each other,and our parents even liked each other, I loved him and He loved me. We broke up, I got a new boyfriend and I broke up with him, and I still love my first X. I want to tell him, talk to him but I am so scared that he will blow me off, and I dont even know how I would tell him if I did. HELP ME!!! Oh, I forgot to tell you,Im 14 and a girl (link)
just sit down and talk take things slowly>


Alright, I am a lesbian, and I am currently dating a girl. Everything is great and wonderful between us. We are starting to become a bit more sexualy active...like just playing around and stuff. Well, she can get me to, um..feel good, but I can't get her. She said I "did fine" but you know that basicly translates into "it was alright, but it could have been alot better" When we talked about it..she said maybe practicing on myself would help...But I tried, and I can't even get myself to, um..feel good! Any advice, or even a website I could go to, that may help?? (link)
hey dont worry everything will work out for the best!


Hey yall,

First of all I want to thank all the people who helped me with my last question.I loved the advice.Thank you!

Ok my next question is about me and my bestfriend.
My bestfriend means alot to me, I mean i've know her for 4 years but.Recently she moved away from my neighborhoo,and not in walking distance.So when she moved I started hanging out with my new next door friend.We now hang out all the time like me and my bestfried use to do before she moved.My bestfriend is now taking it as though i'm tryna replace her. But i'm not.I mean she said that she don't like the fact that i'm slowly replacing her and I need to choose who do I want to be friends with more.Who should I choose? My bestfriend or my close friend.Both of them mean alot to me. I'm confused!

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tell her she will always be your best friend but she needs to accept that you also have a new friend and the reason you send more time with her is she is closer to your house than she is but that does not mean you are replacing her.


My best friend is going crazy she is fat and she dances nasty like is someone she is not. She thinks all the guys like her and everything. She is goss and thinks about gross things that a 14 yr old doesnt need to think about like sex. Every time i say call back in like 10 min she says what u gotta do a quicky with some dude. I was like no and she says sure. How could i tell her she needs to stop and get real without hurting her feelings? Help anyone.
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talk to her and if that does not work have your mom and hers talk to her about it.


is it posible to date two friends at a time?people said it is bad can i believe this? (link)
no it is not possible because both people you are dating will get mad and then dump you and you will get a bad reputation.


my boyfriend is not exactly cheatin on me but he likes 2 girls.He always tells HER that he likes HER more than me.And he always tells me that he likes me more.Iknow that is messed up.But,i don't want to be mad at him becuz the last time I was mad at him he was pissed off the whole day and he (Kinda)cried.Even if I do get mad at him I know that there is a chance that he might dump me and go with HER.And I don't want that to happen.What do i do?? (link)
well ask him if all three of you can talk and see what is going on.


Im not going to give any introductins.Its he proposed me first.I accepted it after a long time.
I reaaly beagn to love him.One day he told me that he and his friends met a girl,and its he who finally could impress the girl.I was a little bit upset .but never let him know about it.then at another occasion we were both surfing the net.then this girl came online.he bagan to chat with her.but afterwards he tried to make believe that girl that he is not having any girlfriends.i was near to him.he said sorry to me and continued the conversation.i beacme more upset when she began to divert the talks to her personnel matters.he was enjoying that.i was confused of what i shall do at that moment.when i was at home he called me.i could not control myself and i start quarreling with him.he never said anything harsh to me and said sorry.i accepted it.then after somedays he told me that that girl is trying to contact him and he talked with her.i did not say anything.the one day he got her call and he wa talking to her as if im not there.one day i took leave for him,and on that day he told she will be coming to see him and said she just want to see him only once.i became angry and he told he wont meet her.when her message came,he switched off the cell.i was watching him.then after some time he again switched on the cell.but there was some problem with that.so he took mine changed the sim cards and after some time got her message.i did not say anything we went to the location,her father was with her .they were there for some shopping.there they were trying to talk to each other and i was standing there like ..i dont know what to say..i was getting more confused.he took ten minutes over there eventhough he said he will just wait there for only one or two minutes so that she can have a look at her.he said she is so possessive on her and he is feeling sympothy on her
then he told he is having a fear towars her coz she is this much possessive that one day she told him that she will not allow any other girls near him.i really got shatered.when we were coming back he was trying to see her in all possible ways when i asked that he told im just trying to imagine of the things which never happened i could not accept it coz he was saying that what i saw was not real.i decided to break this relation then he became vary sentimental and told me he cant live without me.he had promised me that he will remove her name from the messenger.but then he added her number in the cell directory.when i asked for the reason he told he just wanted to know from where the call is coming then i asked and what did he do after knowing that he had no answer ans said sory to me.because he had already talke dwith her for more than three times.i know his password which has been given by him.one day when i opened his mail i came to know that he replied to her mail.when i asked he objected it.then i said i have checked ur mail box.then he told he lied to me coz he never want to hurt me.now i dont know whether she is contacting him.but i always having a feeling that still now they are contacting to each other.i dont know what to do.his parents will coming to my home soon with the proposal.i love him but i dont know whats his feelings towards me.he says im his life.what shall i do?..my mind is always getting disturbed ...
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just talk about it if he does not talk go ask his friends or the girl who you think he is cheating on you with.


I just hooked up with this reeallly amazing guy and now On Friday we are going skating, well we arnt gonna skate just to see acouple of my friends and I invited him along.. I duno if it would be concidered a date seeing as though we will be together.. but im so nervous...

HELPPP! (link)
well first i think you should find out what this guy thinks about you. Then if it turns out he doesjust go up to him and ask him if it is alright with him that when you go skating it is a day.




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