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I just can't do it!
Alright, I am a lesbian, and I am currently dating a girl. Everything is great and wonderful between us. We are starting to become a bit more sexualy active...like just playing around and stuff. Well, she can get me to, um..feel good, but I can't get her. She said I "did fine" but you know that basicly translates into "it was alright, but it could have been alot better" When we talked about it..she said maybe practicing on myself would help...But I tried, and I can't even get myself to, um..feel good! Any advice, or even a website I could go to, that may help??
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I would recommend a website like www.sexuality.org. It has plenty of information.
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hey dont worry everything will work out for the best!
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Just have fun with it and tell that you just want to have fun and you need time to get it right. Keep practiceing on yourself and if it doesnt work just talk to her and I am sure that she will understand if yall are ment to be with each other. Just tell her that your not the best persone at doing stuff like this and its your first time. Just tell her to take it slow because you dont know what your doing.
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Well im bisexual, and i understand where you are coming from. Have you done this before? If you havent actually been sexually active with her before, then that may be why. She probably has done this before, and so its not hard for her to make you 'feel good'. Im not sure if there is a website you can look at, but if i were you, i would just have fun, and TRY, this might work, if you just HAVE FUN...
I hope this helps.
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