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my boyfriend is not exactly cheatin on me but he likes 2 girls.He always tells HER that he likes HER more than me.And he always tells me that he likes me more.Iknow that is messed up.But,i don't want to be mad at him becuz the last time I was mad at him he was pissed off the whole day and he (Kinda)cried.Even if I do get mad at him I know that there is a chance that he might dump me and go with HER.And I don't want that to happen.What do i do??
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Well, first of all i think you should dump him because your realationship is basically based on a lie. When you're with someone you should love or like him..no one else..he's kinda cheating on you if you think about it..but if you dont want to follow my advice, follow your heart
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I no the first thing u think is wut u said...but maybe he is just jokin about likein her more....but if not then u need to confront him...dont get mad at him just confront him and say please dont get mad but i dont like it wen u say that 2 her and u always flirt with her and that kinda stuff.
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kimberly
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Okay, if he likes both of you and tells both of you he likes you more than the other, he's not that loyal of a guy. I would break off all relations with him. I know it's hard, but chances are he's going to cheat on you if he hasn't already, and if he does, you'll feel like crap. Trust me. I was in this situation, and it's not fun. You'll be happier if you aren't with him. Then you're free to find a guy who will really respect you. This guy doesn't appear to care about you much at all. He needs to know that he can't just treat girls like this, and you may have to be the one to teach him. Good luck.
-Siren
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Your boyfriend is acting like a manipulative bastard. Don't let him pull this garbage, and especially don't let him make YOU feel bad because you called him on it.
Dump him first. If he really likes you better, he'll get rid of the other girl and come crawling back. If he doesn't, then he's not worthy of you, and you'll look like the cool one because you had the backbone to get rid of the loser. And even if he stays with the other girl, he'll almost certainly continue to be a jerk to her. Why would you want a boyfriend like that when you could find someone who treats you with respect?
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trust me break it off wid him u need him to comit jus tell him its either u like me or her one or the other u cant have both and if u really like me as u say than. u will pick me or its over if u wanna respond to me jus write to advicebaby7
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Dump the slime ball, dont do this to yourself. He does not deserve you. If your worried that he will dump you, beat him to it
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I've also been in a situation like this before. The only thing you can do, is talk to him alone, and find out what he really wants to do. If he says he wants to be with you, but he also likes her, get rid of him. Because now that she knows he likes her, she is going to try everything in her power to take him from you. Just do what makes you feel good. Breakin up with him however might not make you feel to good, b/c you might not want to. But once you do it, you will see that there is a lot of other guys out there who care a lot more then he ever did. I hope this helps.
Crystal
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Honey.... You need to DUMP HIM!!! I know you may not want to, but you DESERVE a guy that doesnt talk about liking other girls EVER! -Good Luck-
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well ask him if all three of you can talk and see what is going on.
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What in the world are you DOING with a guy who is messing you around like this?? You deserve better than being messed around, and being guilted into being with him isn't right either. If I were you, I'd ask him what he really wants. Sit him down and talk to him, ask him what's going on in his head. Remember, you don't deserve to be messed around.
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