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Member Since: January 24, 2005
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Last Update: January 24, 2005
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I like this guy that goes to another school and he's older, but really cute and nice and everything else there is to be. I see him at church and if I smiled at him or something, would he get a hint or anything? I look at him a lot and sometimes he looks back but would it be better if I smiled? And sometimes to attract attention, my friends act dumb and stuff but would it be better to act normal and not mess up and stuff? Is there any other tips to flirting or anything else I should know besides all this other stuff? Thanks (link)
just be yourself around him..or talk to him about how you feel..


ok so i dont know what to get my guy for valentines day but i am thinking that i should just like kiss him on the cheek (or lips) and say like "that's my valentines day gift to you" i mean we are only 13 so it would be big not like nothing. do you think that i should? (link)
yeah you could give him a kiss but not if you just started going out but go to the mall or something and get him something


I know this might make me sound desperate but here I go. Sorry if its long too. Well on Friday night me and my boyfriend got into a fight because he pretended some chick named Kayla called him and told him I was cheating on him, so I called him stupid because he wouldn't believe me. Later on that night he told me that he was joking and none of it was true and he made it up just so he could find how much I really loved him, and he broke up with me. But, of course we started dating about 10 mins after that. On Saturday he called and asked if I called him and hung up, which I didn't so then hes like ok whatever bye (Apparently he didn't believe me) & hung up. So I called him back to see what was up with that, and he was being mean so I hung up. Then he called me back and hung up, and I did the same and so on and so on. We did this for like 5 times each. Then he called me back after I hung up with him that one last time and said it was over. Does that even sound normal?? Is he an idiot or what? Also, what's a fast way to get over him. Because he meant allot to me, and if he asked me out right now I'd probably say yes, and I don't want to because it makes me look way desperate. THANKS (link)
Well no offence but that hanging up on each other game is lame..he shouldnt have kept doing, and yeah he is kinda an idiot. i know it might sound hard but think of everything that you dont like up him..dont think of the things you like of him or that wont help you get over him at all and try realize how wrong he is for you, i dont want to sound rude or offend you but im pretty sure you could prolly find better


Okay, well I just got mine, tonight...and I am NOT telling my mom. At least, not yet. I just have a few questions about periods....

1. How often should I change them?
2. Should I wear them to bed?
3. How many should I carry with me?
4. Where should I put them? I don't carry a backpack...or a purse.

That's it. Thank you! =D (link)
1. it depends on how heavy or light the it is but usually 3-6 hours but it varys
2. yeah wear them to bed there are some pads that are actually for wearing to bed so you dont leak
3. you should carry a few with you no less than 2
4. well i have a binder with a little pocket thing in it where i keep my pencils and i just keep them in there..

by the way you should tell your mom to just get it over with

:-D see ya


Hello. Im asking advice today for a stupid little problem i have, but im not sure if there is any way i could control it. If im in school, or with my friends, or whatever (by the way im 14), when they mention "mom" or "dad", or "family", my eyes start to water and i just about cry. Not the "WAA-WAA" kind, it is just the red face, tears coming down and stuff, no squeaking or any of that crazy stuff. I cant say anything about parents or anything. When i talk about my family when someone asks, my voice gets shaky and i choke, and it makes me very uncomfortable because crying in front of the class isnt really a fun interest. I cry because my family has...problems. I just feel like i want either them or me to die. I feel like i hate them so much. Its not some "im mad at them because they took away my cell phone" kind of thing. Its more of a love issue. Im seeing a therapist but that is not working, she's not changing them. Well, in a nutshell, whenever someone talks about their parents, and when i talk about mine, i cry. Umm, i hope someone can help me with this, if its possible. Thank you. (link)
aww..a lot of people have family problems and i'll be glad to help you out..if you can give me more detail that would be great! just drop me a message in my inbox


There is this boy in school that I live.He loves me back,but here's the problem.There is another girl in school he loves(she loves him back,too).Even though he said he loves me more,I am still worried that he will dump me 4 her.What do i do?I can't help but 2 love him!! (link)
he doesnt love you..im sorry but he just doesnt..what is love anyway..i dont even know what it is yet..you'll find it but. i think you should dump him if he ""loves"" another girl and he ""loves"" you too its just not right..end it now


There is this boy in my class.I like him as a boyfriend and he likes me as a girlfriend.That means we are girlfriend-boyfriend right?Anyway I ask him if he likes Tara as a girlfriend.(if i get mad if he says yes he dosen't like tara as a girlfriend.I fi say i won't get mad he'll say he does like her as a girlfriend.he is just trying to make me happy and give me wat i want.he just want me not 2 be mad at him...
should i stay his girlfriend or dump him.Even though we love each other infinity plus two...
wat should I dooo??????????????? (link)
you dont love each other..even though he will do anything to make you happy..he doesnt love you cause if he did no matter what he would say he doenst like anyone but you


my boyfriend is not exactly cheatin on me but he likes 2 girls.He always tells HER that he likes HER more than me.And he always tells me that he likes me more.Iknow that is messed up.But,i don't want to be mad at him becuz the last time I was mad at him he was pissed off the whole day and he (Kinda)cried.Even if I do get mad at him I know that there is a chance that he might dump me and go with HER.And I don't want that to happen.What do i do?? (link)
Well, first of all i think you should dump him because your realationship is basically based on a lie. When you're with someone you should love or like him..no one else..he's kinda cheating on you if you think about it..but if you dont want to follow my advice, follow your heart


I'm thinking of getting bangs. Like not the kind that goes all the way around and is in front. Side bangs I guess you could call them. I part my hair to the side. I have brown hair, and it's a little past my shoulders. It's straight too. Do you think that this is a good idea? I don't want them to be extremely long though or anything. Does anyone know what I'm talking about and if so does this sound like a good idea or do you think it will look good? (link)
yeah i think it would look really good




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