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3-way girlfriend-boyfriend


Question Posted Sunday March 7 2004, 1:29 pm

There is this boy in school that I live.He loves me back,but here's the problem.There is another girl in school he loves(she loves him back,too).Even though he said he loves me more,I am still worried that he will dump me 4 her.What do i do?I can't help but 2 love him!!

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DearJessica answered Monday January 24 2005, 9:52 pm:
he doesnt love you..im sorry but he just doesnt..what is love anyway..i dont even know what it is yet..you'll find it but. i think you should dump him if he ""loves"" another girl and he ""loves"" you too its just not right..end it now

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sweatheart answered Sunday March 21 2004, 11:00 am:
just continue to show him your love and also never show it on your face that it's hurting tourfeelings 4 him and just let him really know u loves him so much by doing all such of things to please him.
from dammy

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sp4rklingr4in answered Thursday March 11 2004, 12:46 am:
If he really "loves" you then he wouldn't "love" someone else. If you fear that he will dump you then I guess it isn't true love. How can you expect to trust him if you can't even trust him with your own relationship?

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BewareOfCat2 answered Monday March 8 2004, 8:22 pm:
Well you need to tell him that he can't go around just saying he loves you both. He says he loves you more so he should be able to put aside the love for the other girl or keep it at a friendly level.

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CometoHallie answered Monday March 8 2004, 6:10 pm:
Talk to him and if you can't do that then go to someone and get a second opinion. If this is meant to be then don't let him go, do all you can.

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jbdreamer answered Monday March 8 2004, 12:42 pm:
Love is a pretty stong word. I have a feeling no one is truly in love in this love triangle. If this boy doesn't want to be with just you then get rid of him. You deserve someone better.

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endilwen answered Monday March 8 2004, 2:43 am:
If he loves two girls at once then he doesn't know what love is, and isn't ready for any sort of serious relationship. Get rid of him.

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Siren_Cytherea answered Sunday March 7 2004, 9:46 pm:
Alright, this boy evidently doesn't know the meaning of the word "love". He cannot love two people in the same way. It's not physically, emotionally or mentally possible. How much can he really love you if he loves the other girl too? This sounds like a breakup waiting to happen, and/or a huge mistake. I'd rethink my love for this guy, as hard as it may be to do that.
-Siren

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hiwatari answered Sunday March 7 2004, 7:22 pm:
...if he really loves you would he make you worry? do you WANT to love someone you have to fret about and question their love?

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Here-To-Help answered Sunday March 7 2004, 3:55 pm:
DUMP HIM! Love is supposed to be a special feeling for only ONE other person. It's not supposed to be meant for TWO OR MORE people. I know you love him, and he's saying he loves you more than her just to make you satisfied...but think about it, really, I'm sure he's telling the other girl the same exact thing (and if he says he isn't, he's probably lying).
Why would you even consider going out with this kid still after YOU KNOW FOR SURE that there's another girl involved?? I'd drop the jerk and be on my way in 2 seconds. It will be hard...but think about it....there's another GREAT guy out there for you somewhere and he'll ONLY LOVE YOU, and that's greater than anything in the world.

~GL~
Here's a tip: Dump him before he dumps you.

Don't be stupid...drop the guy and move on.

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spacefem answered Sunday March 7 2004, 1:32 pm:
Rule of thumb: any guy who will tell any girl that he likes her better than the girl he's currently dating is NOT A GOOD GUY TO DATE. It doesn't matter which girl you are. If a person in a relationship likes someone else, the responsible thing to do is to get out of said relationship before dragging other people into it. This guy is a jerk. Do not like him or love him or date him or anything.

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