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Dump Or Not


Question Posted Sunday March 7 2004, 1:23 pm

Well see this one day i ahd my friend call my boyfriend up (i know not the best idea) and i had her ask him this one question on a scale from 1-10 1 being you hate her and 10 being you love her and he rated me a five thats like he thinks im ok well i donno if i should dump him or not i mean we have only been dating like 2 weeks and gone out on one date but only in a group of friends should i give him time or push him away?


Lots Of LOve,
Very Confused Girl


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QBillion answered Wednesday March 10 2004, 12:06 am:
A 5????? Well, I guess you have to give it time. It's only been two weeks. See how it goes, and if it doesn't work out, dump him but try not to hurt his feelings. Unless he's an asshole to you. Then dump him like hell!
Good Luck - QBillion

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BewareOfCat2 answered Monday March 8 2004, 8:23 pm:
Give him time but if tings don't start shaing up talk to him and ask him if he really wants this or not because you shouldn't have to waste your time trying to read his mind.

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xpilzex answered Monday March 8 2004, 4:57 pm:
He doesnt love u.... a 5?!?!?!?!?

i would answer a 11 for my girlfriend

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OneMan answered Monday March 8 2004, 2:04 pm:
Well, I see it like this. You're not happy with being rated a mere five, but if he "loved you" after only two weeks, then I'd say he was a liar, or someone with a serious emotional problem. take the five, give it, him and yourself time and see what develops.

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alpha answered Monday March 8 2004, 12:43 pm:
I'm not sure what you expected him to say. You only went on one group date, so it would be kind of weird and inappropriate if he told some friend of yours that he loved you over the phone. You and your friend pretty much put him on the spot, and he probably just wanted to give the most neutral answer possible.

Give him --and yourself -- time to see how it goes.

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jbdreamer answered Monday March 8 2004, 12:37 pm:
This boy hardley knows you, you have been on one date, and it wasn't even alone. Give him some time. You can't expect him to be in love with you yet. Why would you ask him to rate you anyway? Next time, call your boyfriend yourself and get to know eachother.

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Siren_Cytherea answered Sunday March 7 2004, 9:37 pm:
Only 2 weeks? Damn, girl. You gotta give it time. I mean, the first date my boyfriend and I went on wasn't even supposed to be a date, but now we're talking about getting hitched later in life. You two need to spend some time alone with each other and get to know each other better. Good luck!
-Siren

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spacefem answered Sunday March 7 2004, 1:34 pm:
That was a stupid question. Why would you ask someone to rate their feelings for you? If he'd said "10", would you start planning the wedding, is that why you asked him that?

If you like him, date him. If you don't, don't. Don't force him to rank his feelings. Heck, you're the one asking advice on the internet, you obviously don't have your feelings figured out or you wouldn't be here, so how can you expect this guy to?

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Totalhottie1 answered Sunday March 7 2004, 1:26 pm:
well,the answer is really up 2 u.If u still love him,u shoulg give him someyime.He only dated u 4 2 weeks.If u do not still love him u should let him go.The only thing that matters if u still love him or not.

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