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I like this guy
I like this guy that goes to another school and he's older, but really cute and nice and everything else there is to be. I see him at church and if I smiled at him or something, would he get a hint or anything? I look at him a lot and sometimes he looks back but would it be better if I smiled? And sometimes to attract attention, my friends act dumb and stuff but would it be better to act normal and not mess up and stuff? Is there any other tips to flirting or anything else I should know besides all this other stuff? Thanks
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If you know this guy well enough to go tslk to him then what could it hurt. Some people just think about it but not enough do anything about it. Talking to him would give you a chance to know him. What if you end up not liking him because of who he is. But it's better to know now so then you can see if it's worth it or not and maybe someone else will treat you better.
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It is absolutely better to act normal. Think about how all the stupid stunts and fake-hating guys do when they like girls. A little confusing, huh?
Treat him like you would someone you want to be friends with. Smile, maybe strike up a conversation or have a friend help you two start talking. Ask questions about what he likes, his family, stuff like that. A great ice breaker is to compliment something he is wearing/does well. Just remember he's a person just like you with feelings and insecurities and interests. Think about how you'd want to be talked to and remember that he's probably a little nervous too.
Good luck and remember...there are plenty of guys left if this one doesn't work out. :-)
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i think you should smile at him..but not TOO often..smile at to him at church like you were thinking of and be urself around him...about talking to him, i would say juss talk about something you might no he nose about or likes or something ur interested in..be urself nd you find out he likes you then great but if he likes girls that mess up then thats his problem and at least you no how he is as a person, hope i helped xOx risSii
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Find out a few things that interest him, + think of a cute way to bring up the topic. He'll think it's cool that you know about it. Only act "dumb" if that's how you really act. Like, not saying you're dumb, but sometimes I act immature + silly, so I shouldn't act like I'm 1OO% mature + proper cuz the guy will need to see the real side of me from the start. Does that make sense? Also, I think you should smile if he looks at you, or maybe even wink if you feel confident enough.=) Good luck!
..xo* Jess
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just be yourself around him..or talk to him about how you feel..
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