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Question Posted Sunday March 21 2004, 4:48 am

Im not going to give any introductins.Its he proposed me first.I accepted it after a long time.
I reaaly beagn to love him.One day he told me that he and his friends met a girl,and its he who finally could impress the girl.I was a little bit upset .but never let him know about it.then at another occasion we were both surfing the net.then this girl came online.he bagan to chat with her.but afterwards he tried to make believe that girl that he is not having any girlfriends.i was near to him.he said sorry to me and continued the conversation.i beacme more upset when she began to divert the talks to her personnel matters.he was enjoying that.i was confused of what i shall do at that moment.when i was at home he called me.i could not control myself and i start quarreling with him.he never said anything harsh to me and said sorry.i accepted it.then after somedays he told me that that girl is trying to contact him and he talked with her.i did not say anything.the one day he got her call and he wa talking to her as if im not there.one day i took leave for him,and on that day he told she will be coming to see him and said she just want to see him only once.i became angry and he told he wont meet her.when her message came,he switched off the cell.i was watching him.then after some time he again switched on the cell.but there was some problem with that.so he took mine changed the sim cards and after some time got her message.i did not say anything we went to the location,her father was with her .they were there for some shopping.there they were trying to talk to each other and i was standing there like ..i dont know what to say..i was getting more confused.he took ten minutes over there eventhough he said he will just wait there for only one or two minutes so that she can have a look at her.he said she is so possessive on her and he is feeling sympothy on her
then he told he is having a fear towars her coz she is this much possessive that one day she told him that she will not allow any other girls near him.i really got shatered.when we were coming back he was trying to see her in all possible ways when i asked that he told im just trying to imagine of the things which never happened i could not accept it coz he was saying that what i saw was not real.i decided to break this relation then he became vary sentimental and told me he cant live without me.he had promised me that he will remove her name from the messenger.but then he added her number in the cell directory.when i asked for the reason he told he just wanted to know from where the call is coming then i asked and what did he do after knowing that he had no answer ans said sory to me.because he had already talke dwith her for more than three times.i know his password which has been given by him.one day when i opened his mail i came to know that he replied to her mail.when i asked he objected it.then i said i have checked ur mail box.then he told he lied to me coz he never want to hurt me.now i dont know whether she is contacting him.but i always having a feeling that still now they are contacting to each other.i dont know what to do.his parents will coming to my home soon with the proposal.i love him but i dont know whats his feelings towards me.he says im his life.what shall i do?..my mind is always getting disturbed ...


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HeyErica answered Friday August 20 2004, 8:11 pm:
you should break up with him. he's probably using you. I cant believe he did that gurl go out and look for some one who actually cares about you.,

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babyamba answered Sunday March 21 2004, 10:44 am:
just talk about it if he does not talk go ask his friends or the girl who you think he is cheating on you with.

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