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What should I do with my best friend
My best friend is going crazy she is fat and she dances nasty like is someone she is not. She thinks all the guys like her and everything. She is goss and thinks about gross things that a 14 yr old doesnt need to think about like sex. Every time i say call back in like 10 min she says what u gotta do a quicky with some dude. I was like no and she says sure. How could i tell her she needs to stop and get real without hurting her feelings? Help anyone.
-SpecialSome
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Just tell your friend your opinion on how she acts. Tell her that you think she is acting sick and retarted and that you don't like it. If she gets mad at you for telling what you fell than that is her loss. A 14 year old shouldn't be acting like that! Thinking about sex? EWWWW. LoL sry I just had to say that! Maybe she thinks that she dances good? She may think that all of the guys like her becacsue she has confidence?
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o dear. maybe you need to sit and chat! Tell her you dont like the comments she makes that are gross and you would like her to stop, maybe she is insecure and you could point out the good things about her.
Do you fancy dance lessons? maybe you and your friend could see if there is any cool dance groups or see if you could make 1 your self and get her and a bunch of other friends to come along and you could do a routine that may stop her from dancing all crazy!
if she is over weight when you go to lunch or eat together try and eat healthy foods so she might too.
but sit and talk as you dont want to loose a friendship!
good luck
kat xxx
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First of all, what does any of your question have to do with her being overweight or how she dances? If she is your friend you shouldnt even talk about he being "fat" maybe that's why she does the things she does..... because she's insecure about her self. If your going to tell her you think she needs to stop with all the guy's thats fine.... dont worry about her feelings... if she is a true friend she will realize your only telling her this to protect her. P.S. When you do this, don't say anything about her weight.
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Tell your friend to chill out with how she carries herself in public. Tell her it ain't cool how she dances and acts. But just make sure you say it nice. Say it sweet so that she can know that your telling her this because your her friend.
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talk to her and if that does not work have your mom and hers talk to her about it.
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