Hey all
Im 18 and im from england, im a little crazy and love socialising and going out. Im single and i am very unlucky in love so any questions on this im an expert lol!!! I do study drama, and i work in fashion retail so i know a lot of range of things i work in a big department store so it has its advantages! I have previously studyed english at a higher level as well.
I love going to pubs and clubs and cinema with friends.
i enjoy travelling around england and visit various shopping places and theatres!
Ask me as many questions as you like even if its from fashion to love all the way to school work im sure i can help out.
i know quite a bit about graphics and computers too,
so dont be afraid ask anything and i will answer honestly!!!
love
Kat xxx
Website: Justin- Rock Ya Body Forums
E-mail: kathryn0709@aol.com
Gender: Female
Location: England, East yorkshire, Hull
Occupation: Student and Part Time Sales assistant in Retail!
Age: 18
AIM: kathryn0709
Member Since: March 22, 2004
Answers: 11
Last Update: March 24, 2004
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how do i find the words to say to get back in his heart to make him love me again from the deep down fall we had? (link)
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ooo its always hard trying to get some1 to love/like you again!
but ive being there and it really worked for me they way i wanted it to.
i liked this guy and he liked me but we became to good friends to date so we just stuck to being friends but i wanted more.
so i was going out with him clubbing as friends 1 night and i got all done up and showed him what he was missing. it worked for the night but i know now we r best as friends and i dont wanna chnage it.
what im trying to say is, show him how much you like him and also showing a bit of what hes missing, talk to him and the best thing is be yourself so he will remember what your like and he will miss it all and hopefully realise what he's missing.
best of luck hun
kat xxx
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ok im 128lbs im 5'6 and in 8th grade. at our school we do swimming and i want to look good in my stomach area when i wear a bikini PLEASE PLEASE HOW DO I LOSE WEIGHT IN THAT AREA IN 3 WEEKS?????????IV TRIED NOT EATING AS MUCH AND IV TRIED DIETS BUTI NEED TO LOOK GOOD IN 3 WEEKSPLEASE HELP NOW! (link)
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sit ups are best for your stomach, start by doin 20 a day and then increase to 30 when you can and so on!
dont rush thought or you will damage your muscles
good luck xx
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I need help. I am going through a lot at this time of my age. My parents are at the edge of getting divorced, school is getting very difficult and the problem is my whole entire family is counting on me( i am have a extremely very big family).. I have my whole life planed out such as my carreers and the steps i will be taking. so much is going through my mind and i really need some to trust and talk to not only for a day. Any suggestions.
P.S. i have even bigger problems than this and i am only 13. (link)
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hey, you sound like your having a tough time of it hun!
Maybe you could take up a hobbie that will help take your mind off everything something you can do daily? maybe draw or write?
you family will understand if you talk to them about how hard school is getting and the pressure is on you and you could really do with having some fun and not having to stress about school and family.
i would really love to help you out and listen and hopefully help sort out your problems step by step?
if you fancy a chat get in touch!
kat xxx
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my sister keeps on asking me if she wants her hair to b dyed a diff. color...her hair is brown with blonde streaks(but she put them in there a few months ago)and she is wondering if she should re-highlight it or dye it a darker color for sumthin new
signed,desprate to know (link)
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it sounds nice now maybe suggest putting sum blonde steaks underneath at the sides so they can be seen too.
ive not seen it obviously but if you think it looks nice now tell her to get it re-done like it is!
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My best friend is going crazy she is fat and she dances nasty like is someone she is not. She thinks all the guys like her and everything. She is goss and thinks about gross things that a 14 yr old doesnt need to think about like sex. Every time i say call back in like 10 min she says what u gotta do a quicky with some dude. I was like no and she says sure. How could i tell her she needs to stop and get real without hurting her feelings? Help anyone.
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o dear. maybe you need to sit and chat! Tell her you dont like the comments she makes that are gross and you would like her to stop, maybe she is insecure and you could point out the good things about her.
Do you fancy dance lessons? maybe you and your friend could see if there is any cool dance groups or see if you could make 1 your self and get her and a bunch of other friends to come along and you could do a routine that may stop her from dancing all crazy!
if she is over weight when you go to lunch or eat together try and eat healthy foods so she might too.
but sit and talk as you dont want to loose a friendship!
good luck
kat xxx
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Im not sure what to do? My best friend moved away and her dad doesnt let her come in contact with people who dont live near her anymore. We were so close we hung out and did everything all the time. And now that she cant contact me or i cant contact her, we've fallen apart. I've made a new best friend (of 2 years) and we're slowly fallin apart b/c we dont talk much, and she likes the same guy that i like, but i dont mind, what do i do, im afraid, i dont want to hurt my new best friend (2 years).. how do i talk to her anymore? (link)
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aww poor your, its so hard to keep long distance friendships even when your older!
one of my closest friends moved to go to drama school but i make sure i call her once a week if i can or send a text.
have you thought about maybe writing letters?
you could write it as a diary to your friend saying your feelings and thoughts and what you did and save it on your computer and every week print it out and send a copy and maybe your friend would do the same?
does she have the internet? you could email?
but if you can get her phone number and give her a call!
good luck and if you want to ask more let me know
kat xxx
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Is it good to be dating or having relation ship with a class mate of yours (link)
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i think its great as long as you get along with each other and you get along with each others friends as you will see a lot of them as well!
you will at least know what they are getting up to all day hehe!
if you feel its not working out though maybe you should end it but if its all new and feels right keep it going!
if you need more advice feel free to ask
kat xx
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There is this kid that i babysit..he is very difficylt to babysit and i wish i would get more money for babysitting him... i only get 20 dollars a day should i approach the mom and ask for more or keep my job and stay at the same amount? (link)
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20$ sounds good to me, maybe you could calm the difficult kid down i remember when i used to babysit the kid was a horror and wouldnt sleep then i found a way, i bribed him lol! i said i would make up a story for him if he was in bed by a certain time or go to shop for sweets if he was quiet and good for a certain amount of time.
If you babysit everyday or many days a week maybe you should ask for a small rise of a couple of $'s
good luck
xx
kat
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There is this one kid i like and he is in high school...the problem is ..is that he is friends with my sister and my sister would not like me goin out with him if he is her friend..my sister told me that..should i just go out with him..or not go out with him like she said not to?
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desprate to know (link)
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mmm this is a tricky one!
Does this kid like you?
If he does and you really like him maybe you should tell your sister this and ask her if she wants you both to happy. Tell her that by going out with him it would help you find out your feelings for this kid and if it doesnt work out at least you will of tryed and this kid will still be your sisters friend and it would affect there friendship. Re-assure her of this as she may be scared of loosing a friend to her sister!
Good luck and if you both like each other go for it if you can make your sister be happy for you both.
If she wont agree you may have to ask the kid to talk to your sister
kat xx
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My Friend doesnt like me anymore! I dont know why.. she just wont talk to me! (link)
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You obviously need to get this friend by herself and ask her why.
i know it seems old fashioned but maybe write her a letter stating your feelings.
Is it possible you upset her?
ask her these questions.
is there anything you can maybe add to why she doesnt like you that we can help out with?
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me again , guess im still lookin 4 answers y me 1st of all. I get bullied by anyone who sees me in the streets or at school even at m opwn door step tonight they slashed my mums car tyres. The broken in to the car b4 they done this to a few houses on the street but my mums bf blames me just coz i have no friends and e thinks i fucked the kids of so bad that they doing this and the problem is with me. But how half the ppl i dont no i arnt racist , i dont blieve in voilence. I dont go out shoutin my mouth off. Im just a quite girl that doesnt ask for anything. i no this is goin to upset my mum because she's worked hard for everything she owns. i feel so unhappy i cart do anything right even an online relationship every one says ppl go though this all the time but i just wanna die and stop all this pain that i feel maybe then i will stop getting blamed (link)
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I feel for you. You havnt put your age but i think i can relate to you. When i was 10-13 i was bullied really badly by people who lived near me, they didnt like me making friends and always made sure i had none and said bad things about me. I wasnt very confident around boys and my confidence got worse, but when i took up drama for GCSE at school people really began to like me and i managed to change. My confidence grew i changed my style of clothes and hair and made loads more friends by being the true me nice and chatty and a bit silly!!! The people who bullied me ended up being unpopular and i was proud to overcome this. I couldnt of done it without my close friends and my teachers!!! i talked to a head of year and she spoke to the bullys it never made it worse it really helped.
I advise you to make 1 good friend who will always be there for you and if possible take up drama it really builds confidence even if outside of school where you know nobody and you can be yourself!
I took up drama after school and am in my final months of the course at college i went to a college where non of my school friends went and i could be me without anyone judging me.
best of luck and if you need more advice or just want to talk get in touch!
kat xx
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