how to start and keep a conversation going with an ex-boyfri
Question Posted Wednesday March 24 2004, 2:42 pm
how do i find the words to say to get back in his heart to make him love me again from the deep down fall we had?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? hErE4U answered Friday April 2 2004, 4:55 pm: Well, I had a boyfriend for one year straight and everyone told us we would get married. Then one day at the next year he broke up with me b cuz he heard rumors. It broke my heart and I cried for 2 weeks straight. He cried in front of p pul too and he was a heart-throb to all the girls. We didnt talk to each other for 5 months and we sat right next to each other in 2 classes. We finally just started talking one day and now, we are gettin back together. What u can do is confront him and say hi and ask him wats been going on lately. Ask him, wat exactly happened with us, how come we dont talk anymore, why cant we b friends??? That will most likely start a conversation that will get u two wondering about each other again. It worked for me, so y cant it work for u. I'm not positive it will work but i hope it will. Best of luck to you. [ hErE4U's advice column | Ask hErE4U A Question ]
Siren_Cytherea answered Wednesday March 24 2004, 8:59 pm: It's my opinion that one should never try to get back into a relationship once it's dead. However, if you want to get back into his heart, you've got to be his friend first. Get close to him again. If it's meant to be, it'll fix itself. =)
-Siren [ Siren_Cytherea's advice column | Ask Siren_Cytherea A Question ]
AdviceGurl88 answered Wednesday March 24 2004, 6:59 pm: well tell him ur srry and u have to tell me more about' wut happened so i can really help u tell him ur sorry and u and him are ment to be plz write back and tell me more bout' the break up thanx
thewiz answered Wednesday March 24 2004, 4:57 pm: smile at him , and see if he smiles back , if he frowns he is sad still and hurt by what happened , next time u see him say hi.
if he smiles thats usually a good sign try talking to him , pay him an out of nowhere call just to say hi but try and keep the conversation short if he doesnt seem like he wants to talk , make him feel like ur not out to cut his throat about things boys hate to feel threatened , make the conversation light hearted ask him how he is doing how his family is , ask him simple questions he doesnt need to think alot about [ thewiz's advice column | Ask thewiz A Question ]
kat0709 answered Wednesday March 24 2004, 4:12 pm: ooo its always hard trying to get some1 to love/like you again!
but ive being there and it really worked for me they way i wanted it to.
i liked this guy and he liked me but we became to good friends to date so we just stuck to being friends but i wanted more.
so i was going out with him clubbing as friends 1 night and i got all done up and showed him what he was missing. it worked for the night but i know now we r best as friends and i dont wanna chnage it.
what im trying to say is, show him how much you like him and also showing a bit of what hes missing, talk to him and the best thing is be yourself so he will remember what your like and he will miss it all and hopefully realise what he's missing.
lilattitude2004 answered Wednesday March 24 2004, 3:39 pm: Explain to him that your sorry. i know that it might not sound that easy but once you tell him that you didn't mean it you will feel better. if he still likes or loves you then he will forgive you. e-mail me if you can in a week and stick with you heart.
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