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Member Since: March 25, 2004
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Last Update: May 29, 2004
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Hi, it's my 15th birthday coming up soon, and I want to do something really good, like have a big party or something. The problem is, I want to invite all my friends (which span over a WIDE area - i have friends from loads of schools), but they don't all know each other, and some don't get along that well. Also, my best friend is a year younger and at a different school, but absolutely NONE of my other friends know her. I really want to invite all of them but I don't think they'll all enjoy it - especially my best friend as the only person she'll know is me. What shall I do? (link)
Invite everybody! Tell people that your younger friend will be there, and to be nice and to comfort her and be her friend! Tell everyone that you have friends from a lot of different places and that you would like it if you were pleasent and be nice and friendly with everyone, etc.

Hope I helped!
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wat doez lauve645 mean? dis person has their user name as dis and i wanna no wat dat meanz!!!!!! tell me now! plz nd thnx (link)
Ahh Sorry but that is my User Name and it doesn't mean anything! It sort of means love but spelled differently!

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^im right here you know?!*


ok I like this girl named Britney she has a good personality likes to smile a lot and she has a nice smile. Ok I've been giving her poems and all that other stuff every time I do she says thank you. How do I get her to like me more than just a friend? The bad thing is her dad is over-protective how do I get to know her more and family to and to get them to trust me more without getting her pissed off at me? (link)
If you want to be Britney's boyfriend, maybe she likes you! Just tell her that you like her, and give her one of those poems! :) Umm to get her father to like you, does she have a brother or something that you han hang out with? Maybe you can hang out with him, her father will be used to you after a while, and then you can just go for it!

Hope this works!!!

lauve645


im thinking of having sex... oh it might help... im turning 15 and im a grl... what do you think (link)
Hi. I read your question and I think that having sex at only 14 or 15 is like really young! Well, it also depends on the person you want to have sex with! Ask yourself these questions : Do I really know the boy? Do I really love him? Does he really love me? Will he leave me after sex? Like think about it. I wouldn't have sex until I am married, I know that at first OH MY GOSH! That will be a long time, right? Well at least that way you know that the boy won't leave you after having "his pleasure"... Sex. Also, I would start having sex when you are ready to have a baby. Protection and Pills don't always work!

Hope I helped!
lauve645


If there was a definition of love, what would it be? My love life has been entirely hopeless for the past twelve years. Zap. Zilch. Kaput. I have fallen in love twice this year, to my own humiliation. I ask you now, is it worth the trouble to try and date guys that you just kind of know when you're 13-whatever years old, and you know that love only comes around once? Is there a point? Could you possibly skip the whole process and just wait until you know who you want to marry and they want to marry you too? Is that possible? Is dating actually worth it? Is there a point to all of this? More than to just make you miserable? (link)
Ummm. OK! It would help with how old you are but I'll try the best I can! If you have been looking for about twelve years, maybe you are looking at the wrong group of guys! One day I bet that a boy you know and trust will come up to you and ask you out! If you know someone that you sort of know, and they love you... but you hardly know them but only like them a little... just give the boy a chance! Maybe you and him will be together for a long time! Trust me, you will find that perfect someone.

Sometimes you may think love is usless, but at other times you will think it is great! Think of it this way, love is powerfull. It has this strong impact on your life! Even if you aren't in an affair with somebody! You would be surprised to know what sort of things I used to do to get my crush to love me back! Whether or not you are beliving what I am saying, it is true! Wait a little more, look at a different group of boys, and give some new ones a chance!

Ey' some geeks may also be the best boyfriend you have ever had! Don't judge a book by it's cover, right?

Oh yeah... It is possible for you to skip this whole process of dating and just go on to go marry your love, but I don't suggest it! You will be suprised of the things you will learn about the boy when just on a date!

Just wait and see, this humiliation you are going through with these guys will pay off someday with the perfect boyfriend/husband/father! Whichever one suits you best!

*Hope I helped you with your boy problem!*
lauve645


I like this guy but I don't know how to tell him. The only way I can act around him is like mean? What should I doand is this normal? (link)
This happened to me before! And yes it is normal. Do you guys have some sort of IM or E-Mail program? Well since you say you are mean to him in person, try doing it where you guys wont be talking face to face... Just tell him and remember to relax! The worst thing that will happen is that he wont like you... you dont need a boy to make you happy, trust me on that one!

*hope i helped*
lauve645


If you have had cyber sex does that mean you have lost your virginity? (link)
nope dont think so! cyber sex is just talking..... thats what i heard on like chat rooms and stuff

hope i helped
lauve645


i like this guy and my friend likes him still even though she broke up wid him should i go for it
sincerely advicebaby7 (link)
just ask him out! with things like this i think you should just go for it. she broke up with him so so you have the right to go out with him. i mean, she must of broke up with him for a reason and she broke up with him so that is her probem not yours! go for it chica!

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i wanna get a boyfriend. but one that actually likes me 4 me! i havent had a boyfriend since i dumped my ex. i want him bak but he doesnt like me.... wut do i do??????




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Be you! If somebody doesnt like you for being you, it means that u might not be their type! Just wait and see! I bet later in the days you will find the perfect man and he will love u 4 u!


Hope I helped


lauve645


My best friend is going crazy she is fat and she dances nasty like is someone she is not. She thinks all the guys like her and everything. She is goss and thinks about gross things that a 14 yr old doesnt need to think about like sex. Every time i say call back in like 10 min she says what u gotta do a quicky with some dude. I was like no and she says sure. How could i tell her she needs to stop and get real without hurting her feelings? Help anyone.
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Just tell your friend your opinion on how she acts. Tell her that you think she is acting sick and retarted and that you don't like it. If she gets mad at you for telling what you fell than that is her loss. A 14 year old shouldn't be acting like that! Thinking about sex? EWWWW. LoL sry I just had to say that! Maybe she thinks that she dances good? She may think that all of the guys like her becacsue she has confidence?

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pick a number 1-100 make it a good one or i lose (link)
84

lauve645


wats pms mean pleeeze help
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I think PMS is like a stage during, after or before your period when you get kinda bratty or mean.

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I want to loose some weight. Do any of you people have like a cure... well not a cure, like a thought of how I can maybe loose a few pounds?


PLEASE ANSWER A.S.A.P!!!!!!!
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Try eating healthier and exercizing more. Start off on a regular diet while eating a lot of foods that contain water in them. Though they don't really take your hunger away, it is a good way to loose some weight in the food department.

Then try exercizing for 15 minutes a day and then work your way up.

Hope I helped

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How much money is a 2004-2005 Range Rover? (link)
I'm not sure but I think about $76,000.

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Im afraid to talk to a boy that I like because of nerves or something, like im afraid of messing up or embarresing myself. Even when we were going out I was afraid to talk to him in person. I would only talk to him on the phone because he is usually with his friends, and I easily get shy. He usually has a lot of girls around him because everyone thinks he is so hot and amazing. I need help with this... How do I get over my fear and go talk to him without it being through a friend or something? (link)
Go over to him and start a conversation without caring what his friends think of you. For all you know you may become friends with some of the people he hangs out with and then you probably wont be as shy around him.

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how can u tell if someone else is having there period do they act diff or sumptin (link)
Yes, though I haven't had my period I know because of my friend. It kinda depends because the person you are talking about may have moodswings alot of the time, and then I wouldnt be able to notice. But if the person you are talking about is usually nice and kind and then all of a sudden has like a million mood swings then they might have their period.

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im just wondering. if you ask a question on advicenators, does the person reading or answering you question know the user name i am on? (link)
No. I don't think that the people reading and/or responding to your message can see your User Name. Uness you include it in your message.

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THERE'S THIS BOY THAT I LIKE BUT HE HAS A G-FRIEND WE FLIRT BUT I DON'T KNOW IF HE LIKES ME. SHOULD I TRY TO BREAK HIM AND HIS G-FRIEND UP OR JUST LET IT BE. (link)
dont try and break anyone up. they might really like eachother! think of you being in his g-friend's shoes first. would you like it if someone was trying to break you and whoever your boyfriend would be up? i dont think you would. let things happen on their own. if you and that boy ur talking about were meant to be together, than it will probably happen on its own.

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My friend is anorexic. What should i do?
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its a thing in their head. like they need a sycoligist and/or hospiltalization. (i dont know how to spell it) i know someone who used to be anorexic. the best thing is just try and make her know that food is a good thing. it makes you active and you can think better with food. tell her that food is not harmful... just dont eat so much you get overweight. (but she probably needs a lot of food to gain the wait shor he needs.

hope i helped

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I am 19 and i have a boyfriend. Im thinking of going on the pill. BUT I want to find out the side effects. Does anyone know of any? Ive tried searching on the net but I didnt really get anywhere. (link)
OK you have to realize that I have never had sex, and I never had my period yet but I know some things about the affects. I think I might be able to help ya! Ok if you have sex and you choose to protect your self with the Pill if the man you choose to have sex with has Aids or HIV the Pill will not protect you from getting the diseises. Also, if the person doesn't have AIDS or HIV than you will probably not get it. But if you FORGET TO TAKE THE PILL and it is worn out... you become pregnant.

Hope I helped

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