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Hi, it's my 15th birthday coming up soon, and I want to do something really good, like have a big party or something. The problem is, I want to invite all my friends (which span over a WIDE area - i have friends from loads of schools), but they don't all know each other, and some don't get along that well. Also, my best friend is a year younger and at a different school, but absolutely NONE of my other friends know her. I really want to invite all of them but I don't think they'll all enjoy it - especially my best friend as the only person she'll know is me. What shall I do?
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HAVE A HUGE PARTY.. make it last long soo u can have time to hang with everyone.. dont worry things will work out fine!
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if u invite all of them then no matter how hard you try they might start disagreeing. id say seperate your friends into 2 groups that will get along, and have 2 smaller parties. or 1 big 1 and 1 small 1. this way you can have a happy party w/ every1 - and TWICE THE FUN!
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dah! invite all of them! and say its ur party and u dun want any1 fightin! and u want every1 to met sum1 new
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I know it's tough because you have friends from different groups and cliques but if they all wanted to be with you on your birthday, I'm sure they could all find a way to get along, even if they don't know each other. They may be shy at first but if its a great party, i'm sure they won't even care if they don't know anyone.
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Well they know that if she is your bestfriend then she must be a true bff so just invite her and then invite your other bfs in your school.
hope I helped u,
oblvr10
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You could tell your younger friend that she can invite a friend to come with her. So she can have someone to hang out and you can meet someone new. She won't feel lonely and you can roam around and say hi to everyone else without feeling bad.
Hope it helps
Ithielden
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DEAR CONFUSED,
MAYBE YOU SOULD TAKE A LITTLE TIME OF YOUR PARTY TO MAKE A SESSION WERE EVERYBODY TELLS A LITTLE ABOUT THEMSELVES SO EVERYBODY GETS TO KNOW EACH OTHER BETTER.
SINCERLY:ADVICE GIVER
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I had the same problem that you did at one of my parties! I just invited everyone, at first everyone was a little skeptical about each other, but after I introduced them they were fine. You just got to make sure you include everyone in every conversation so no one feels left out!
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I say that u should invite them all!!! its your time and your the host!! if u want to invite them all...INVITE them!!
I really think it won't be as bad as u think! When u get them there introduce them to each other...they will talk and start to become friends!
Your 15 anyways live life! have fun!
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Invite everybody! Tell people that your younger friend will be there, and to be nice and to comfort her and be her friend! Tell everyone that you have friends from a lot of different places and that you would like it if you were pleasent and be nice and friendly with everyone, etc.
Hope I helped!
lauve645
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If everyone invited knows at least a few people, I think everything will go along fine. As for your best friend, tell her she won't really know anyone and ask her if she'd like to invite a friend or two of her own, since you probably won't be able to devote all your time to her during the party.
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I would invite all of your friends, but warn them of this. I would tell them that they may not know too many people, and list the people they know that are invited. Your best friend should definitely go, so try to have your other friends meet her, bring her up in conversations, etc. I had a similar situation, and it worked out fine. They all seemed to get along. Make sure you talk to all of your friends at the party so they don't get too bored or feel left out. good luck with the party.
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Have a party in a public place, like a park. Give everybody nametags, so they will get to know each other. Try to organize a lot of games, so no one will feel excluded. Tell your best friend that she can invite some of her friends if it would make her feel more comfortable.
Happy Birthday
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