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I've got a crush on a girl witha girlfriend. I thought I was
About a month ago a friend of mine told me that she was seeing a girl. At the time I didn't think much about it but know I'm feeling a tad confused. I'd always thought of myself as straight but I think I've got a crush on her. This set me thinking hard enouh and on consideration I've realised that I find a whole bunch of other girls. I'm still definitely attracted to guys as well.
She thinks I'm straight as does everyone else. I don't know what I am or how I feel. She's got a girlfriend so it's not like I could make a move and experiment with her. What should I do?
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Tell her how you feel. She has probably gone through the same thing, as have I.
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You should talk to her one on one and tell her what you feel if she is a true friend she will understand and because yall are friends maybe very good friends yall could experiment with each other and yall trust each other. Dont let the fact the she has a girlfriend change what you feel about her. They wont last that long but a friendship will. Just tell her and no one else.
-Jess
P.S. keep me posted
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If you are the one who sent that feedback im sorry i confused you. But I'm just telling the truth religion is'nt homophobia or whatever you said. Maybe your the one who needs to find out what it really is. John 3:16
the bible says nothing about how predjudice is good cause it's bad. You dont have to read the bible that's your own choice . But I will pray for you because I want you to make the right choice whatever it may be.
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You should explore these feelings within yourself, but make sure you are comfortable with them enought to have a relationship. When you are, by all means find yourself someone, but it porbably won't (as most first relationships) amount to much, so have a bit of fun and learn what you are or aren't comfortable with. You should be proud you're willing to explore, many men and women go all their lives trying to cover it up. Do tell me what you do and how it goes.
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You are still young and have a lot of self discovery ahead of you. Give yourself some time to figure things out. You need to understand yourself before you can persue a relationship, wether it is with a man or a women.
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