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please will any girl that is 13 or less call me
p.s you must be hott (link)
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Either he's thirteen or a pedophile.
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About a month ago a friend of mine told me that she was seeing a girl. At the time I didn't think much about it but know I'm feeling a tad confused. I'd always thought of myself as straight but I think I've got a crush on her. This set me thinking hard enouh and on consideration I've realised that I find a whole bunch of other girls. I'm still definitely attracted to guys as well.
She thinks I'm straight as does everyone else. I don't know what I am or how I feel. She's got a girlfriend so it's not like I could make a move and experiment with her. What should I do? (link)
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You should explore these feelings within yourself, but make sure you are comfortable with them enought to have a relationship. When you are, by all means find yourself someone, but it porbably won't (as most first relationships) amount to much, so have a bit of fun and learn what you are or aren't comfortable with. You should be proud you're willing to explore, many men and women go all their lives trying to cover it up. Do tell me what you do and how it goes.
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Okay, so I have this friend who is gay. And he really wants to tell his parents, they said they'd love him not matter what, but also, they don't approve of gays too much. I'm thinking of talking to them myself, but then he might get mad at me. So I really don't know what I should do, or what he should do actually. I told him to wait until he moves out to tell them, but he said he might feel guilty for doing that, letting them think that he was straight for 18 years or so.. then all of a sudden breaking the news. What should I do? Talk to his parents for him, or just leave it to him? And if I leave it up to him, can you give any advice for me to tell him? Thanks! (link)
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It is up to him to tell his parents, but I would advise him to do so. You noted that he was nervous about telling them because he played straight for 18 years, more time isn't really going to help that.
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i was wondering...i'm the ultimate good girl...i haven't done anything remotely sexual. i haven't even gotten kissed yet. but i'm curious...about fingering, blowjobs, handjobs. can someone please explain to me how to do those? hah. i know that's rather stupid and could leave u open to lots of answers...but i need answers. and also pubic hair...shave? trim? i'm lost..any help is appreciated. and when you stop laughing at me maybe u can gimme some advice. ;) hah. (link)
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I can't explain any better than it has been already, but here's a good sex ed site:
http://www.scarleteen.com/
Probably not exactly what you are looking for, but (shrug)
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Hey adivce culumnists. I have a Question I write poetry and am wondering what you think of this? The last poem an this question is published by eternal portraits. I really don't get support with poetry.
I have three poems I want you to look at and tell me what you think.It would mean alot to me! Thanx!
What A Wonderful Life
As a young girl lays in bed one night.
She thinks of her life happenings.
She thinks of the smiles.
She thinks of the frowns.
She thinks of the tears that have been shed.
She thinks of the feelings of having her heart broken.
She thinks of the feelings of having her heart mended.
She thinks of all the people she knows and smiles.
What a Wonderful Life!
The Song Of Spring
Spring come to me Please don't leave me here alone!
Bring to me the song of Spring
Bring to me the Tulips and Daffodils.
Bring to me the Blue Blue sky and Green Green grass.
Bring to me the chirpping birds and the Buzzz of the Bees.
Please don't leave me here!
I'm tired of the gloom and doom!
No more cold cold days
No more fog to to see!
Leave the rain and wind behind!
Bring to me the song of Spring
Lord I Wonder?
Lord I wonder why I feel alone?
I know thou watchest over me.
I know thou watchest me come closer too thee.
I know thou watchest me go a stray from thee.
I know thou lovest me, then why do I a stray from thee?
I lovest thee, thy Lord then why do I 'cause thee pain?
I thank thee Lord for loving me, I thank thee Lord.
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Yeah, the first is pretty bad. It's very hallmark-like, as someone has said. The second one seems immature, as if a 6 year old had written it. I do not believe in God, and therefore do not like the third either. Perhaps you could read some good poems and search within yourself for more substance for your poems. When you have done that, they will probably be better.
ALSO: I have looked through the reviews you have given people for adivce, and the people who were honest didn't get anything- you weren't looking for adivce, just a boost to your ego.
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i like this boy at school but i am in grade school is that to young to start a relatioonship (link)
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yes
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im at my wits end with my relationship with my 50 yr old boyfriend i dont know what to do anymore.
im 38 well almost and i have a high sex drive and he has a low one we lye in bed at nite and that is it he is hardly affectionate to me more so to his computer we dont have sex he says he is too small we are both large people but this large lady has to have it not use to being without it lol but seriously i have tried everything lingere u name it i have tried it at least once i have even tried telling him about it. nothing works I want to have sex all the time i want to find a sex partner so if anyone is in pennsylvania let me know or close to me i know everyone says i should not cheat on him but sex once in 3 yrs is a bit rude well let me hear what people think be nice i am a person 2 (link)
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If you are 38 and use chat speak and can't spell "night" or "lie" I pity you. Maybe he wants someone smarter to have sex with.
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I have a friend, let's call her *Marie. Well Marie told me today that she got fingered by her cousin, who's sixteen. She said she didn't want to do it but he just kind of laid on top of her and did it. She was going to call for her other cousin who would've stopped it, but she said he wouldn't have come because he thought they were fooling around and didn't want to disturb them.
She just told him to quit and he wouldn't, so I'm guessing it's 'finger rape', if there is such a thing.
Well now she said she had dark stuff in her panties. I think she said black fuzzy stuff. Like discharge. She said she still hurts from the encounter and I don't know how long ago it was. She said she REALLY wants to go see a doctor but she doesn't know how to go about it. Her parents are the strict kind, so if you told them you even kissed somebody they would have a heart attack. I'm asking for her because I am very worried and I have no clue what could be going on with her.
Thanks for helping. (link)
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I'd get her to a hospital and put her in the rape unit. She would get everything she needed to become healthy again.
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me and my bf have been together for 2 months but we spent alot of time together, i know he still wants to be together but i think it just isnt working, i dont like him as much as he likes me. I want to break up but i dont want to hurt him, how should i do it - as nicly a poss?
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I'd break it off, short and simple. If your too sweet, he might get a mixed message. But don't be mean or you'll be a bitch. Try:
(Insert name here), it isn't working. I'm sorry, but I don't think I like you as much as you like me. You need someone who can see what an amazing person you are (make it look good for him) and I don't think I'm the right person.
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My crush found out that I liked him. I told my friend to tell him and she did (that's how she found out). Well I walked up as she was telling him, so he walked off. I didn't notice, but I pretend tripped him and smiled at him, you know, just to be funny. But he didn't respond at all-just with really icy body language. When I smiled at him, and he just looked down and walked off as if nothing happened--he didn't even make eye contact like he usually would. I know he felt my leg try to trip him, too.
He's found out before, and he always acted this way (distant), except for once, when he was cool with it (normal). But I don't want him to repeat patterns! He's also got a girlfriend who he's on/off with, but I HOOKED THEM UP IN THE FIRST PLACE! (Doh.)
I was about to cry in class when my friend told me that he said, quote, "I'm scared now...". My other friend who asked said she didn't hear him say that, but she said he just grinned.
Well usually while we're on our way to lunch, he says a few words to me then parts ways. Sometimes he purposely does something. Yesterday he faked going the other way, and bumped me and walked like in front of me so we touched. "Oops...uh, I mean this way."
He always goes the same way.
Well...I was wondering...what has happened? Is he intimidated? Does he think all the fun is taken out of the game when I 'surrender' by telling him the truth? Is he just not interested? Is he thinking it over? Is he scared?
I don't know, that's why I'm asking you. Thanks so much! (link)
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Okay, so he knows. Do you think it would have been better to have this obsessive crush over him forever and for him not to know?
I think he thought of you as a flirt buddy, someone to have fun flirting with and that would be all. Now that he knows you like him, he might not veiw you the same. At least that's what it would be like in my circle of friends.
But he might like you. . .I dunno.
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Ummm....yeah.... i wanna know what the withdrawal symptoms are like if you just stop taking certain antidepressants. cos i have to get off mine sometime this year. and i dont wanna. im SCARED!!!!
People have been saying that ill get DT type shakes, nausea and bad mood swings.
Anyone with experience in this feild...i would muchly appreciate your advice.
Spankyou.
~Mordak (link)
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If you're on a large dosage, perhaps you could ask your doctor to give you smaller and smaller doses to ease you off of it?
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I have a friend who's about to be initiated into Wicca. I know what Wicca's about, and that's mainly why I've been hoping he wouldn't. He's getting initiated on Saturday, and I'm really worried. Is there anything I can do to talk him out of it in five days?!? (link)
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Instead of talking him out of it, accept it and be happy he's found a religion that suits him. Some people search their whole lives to find the right one. If you don't approve of it, don't talk about it.
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